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Okay, I'll try and make this short. I had braces probably...6-7 years ago, and wore my retainer religiously every night. About four years ago, I noticed I was having sleeping problems, woke up with headaches, and my teeth were changing. They were sensitive and looked like they were getting chipped. I was told last year I severly grind my teeth in my sleep at night, which will destroy your teeth. When I asked about a nighguard, they told me $600, with insurance. My parents could not afford that, I can't (as a college student) so I tried to find different things. I recently found a dentist company that does them through amazon-not as good quality, but much better then over the counter mouth guards that my dentist mentioned. I got to imprint my teeth, send it in, and they gave me a guard fitted for me. I'm noticed my teeth not as sensitive, I sleep like a baby, it's great! One problem though-I'm worried my teeth will shift. It's not a hard plastic material-it's like a really hard rubber, You can bend it, but it's no easy to do, and it almost feels suction cupped to my teeth, so I don't feel like there could be movement, but not positive. Should I be worried about my teeth shifting, because it's technically 'not' plastic, but hard rubber? Please help, I've done enough damage, the least I want is straight teeth :(

Okay, so I'm 21, live in a big and lively city in Florida. A large group of my friends and I (including my boyfriend) are going out clubbing down town. I am packed with work and school, so I had ten minutes to find a dress at the mall, that was within a decent price range. I found one, didn't bother trying to on, and bought it. I get home, only to find that, well...it's not conservative, by any means. This is okay with me-we're going to a club, girls wear this stuff all the time. But I'm not used to it, so it's interesting. I want to know what you think of the dress, but let me explain why it could be considered slutty.

http://www.bodycentral.com/products/sequin-bodice-...

Notice the model? She's likely a B cup, in the breast department. Me? I'm a D cup, so, as you can imagine...I have lots of cleavage, plus leftovers. It look dynamite on me, and I never toot my own horn. Not too short for my 5'5 frame, hugs my waist and hips...I'm just so worried my boobs will be trashy looking.

So what do you think? Add two cup sizes to the model, and do you still think it can be kind of tasteful? (as tasteful for clubbing as you can be, that is). Thanks!

Hey all! I'm stuck between these two choices (I was considering a native american and nurse too, but I'd rather see what they look like in the store). So I waned something that wasn't TOO typical-French Maid, Cat, angel, things like that. So I'm stuck between these two choices. I want something sexy, and hat will be a crowd pleaser. In case you need to know my body type (to determine what would/wouldn't look good) I am 5'5, 120 pounds, 27 inch waist, an okay but (not flat but not big) but I have D cup breast. Here's the links.

This is little red riding hood.

http://www.partycity.com/product/adult+racy+red+ri...

This is a Queen of hearts (Would not wear the crown):

http://www.partycity.com/product/adult+charmed+que...

Robin (from batman and robin):

http://www.partycity.com/product/adult+sexy+robin+...

Which do you choose? :)

This might be an odd question, but I'm honestly stumped. I grew up in a pretty religious household (though I, personally, am agnostic) and the girls in the family were taught that 'getting to know ourselves sexually' (masturbation) was bad. So I never did it. Sometimes I would hump pillows when I was young, and that felt awesome, but I don't believe I've ever had an orgasm. Fast forward now-I'm 21 years old, dating a 21 year old. We our each others first, and have been sexually active for two years. In all that time, I have never had an orgasm. My boyfriend, I think, is willing to figure it out, but I keep pushing the thought away. Surely I don't need to orgasm to really enjoy sex (and I do really like it). But now I've kind of grow some resentment-he gets to orgasm EVERY SINGLE TIME, and I've never had one? I know it's not ALL his fault (some of it is though). For one, I don't know how to make myself orgasm-I know nothing about my body, or how to do that, so I take blame for that (how do I figure that out?). However, my boyfriend never 'fingers me' or 'eats me out'. I can't remember the last time he's done that. It's making out, mess around with my boobs a bit, and then we're off. I get turned on easily, so the foreplay isn't SUPER necessary... but if he doesn't do those things, how will he have patience getting me to orgasm? How important is an orgasm? I feel like I'm missing out-any help would be great! :)

Okay, I don't want any 'you shouldn't be having sex!!!' comments. They're not needed, this perfectly fine. My boyfriend and I are 21, have been dating for two years. My family is in a different state right now, with me, and he's visiting. I haven't seen him in 2 weeks, so we're pretty 'worked up' if you know what I mean. Where can we have sex? There's always family in my house, and doing it here is disrespectful anyway. I have a car available, but I have NO idea where I could drive it, where no one can catch us. Any help? Thank you!

I'll try and make this short! My oldest cousin (one out of the two cousins I have) is getting married soon. He is getting married in the Tampa/Florida area. All of his family is located in different states, and have to fly down-I'm the only one who's in Florida, about an hour from Tampa (I go to school here). They sent out the invites, and I was a little confused that they didn't give me a plus one. My cousin knows that I have a boyfriend. Before some of you say, 'A 6 month relationship isn't serious enough for a +1) that doesn't apply to us. I am 21, my boyfriend will be going on 22 a couple of months after the wedding, and we have been dating for 2 1/2 years. He was going to ALSO be my ride to the wedding ( I don't have a car) but they didn't give me a +1. How should I react in this situation, especially if the wedding is of decent size, and is not a 'small, family only' wedding. Any insight would be great! :)

First, I know what most of you will think-Promise rings? What are we, High School students looking to brand each other? But please, try and be open minded and hear me out. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years-we meet/started dating our Freshmen year of college, and now we're moving into our junior year of college, both doing well academically (With respected majors). He's 21, and I'll be turning 21 in a handful of months. I love him SO much. Each day that passes, I find that I grow closer to him, and he just merges with my personality so well. Don't get me wrong, he has his flaws (Like I do) but I love them because it's part of who he is. He makes me want to be the best possible person I can be, and he has confidence in me when I don't have it in myself. We fight, obviously, but usually it's because of a communication issue (He thought I meant one thing, I thought he meant another thing). Never ONCE have we raised our voices, insulted each other, etc, and every 'issue' was solved within two hours of it started. Because of our great relationship, we've obviously talked about marriage. However, we both agreed we would NOT become engaged while still in college-we want to finish our education, and we don't like the idea. But, as a halfway step, he bought me a promise ring a couple of months ago, to show his intent. Now, for our Anniversary, he wants one, but we have found people laugh/joke about it. It hurts, and I don't want people to be negative about it. Insight?:

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years-we're both 21, in love, all of that great stuff. Upon dating, both of us realized we had a pretty lucky body type. I was naturally slim (Even after eating lots of McDonald's and pastas and carbs and whatnot).. I come in at 5'5, 125 pounds max, and have a D cup. I never work out, and my boyfriend has always loved my body. I LOVED my boyfriends, too, and he never had to work out. He is 5'11 lean, but naturally well muscled in his arms. Not a six pack at all, or even a hint of one, but nice and flat in the stomach with that V cut girls love. I loved that our bodies were the way they were, without having to make an effort. However, not my boyfriend has gained about 30 pounds, and you can see it a lot in his stomach. He has a very bad beer belly, and it's far from healthy. His mom mentions it, his sisters, and he just said he looks fine and he's not going to do anything about it until he reaches 200 pounds, which at this rate, with come soon (He's 185). I don't know what to do, because as shallow as it sounds, I've started to lose a LITTLE bit of attraction. Still attracted to him, but he's letting himself go. I hate to see all these guys who make an effort to go to the gym, to work out, to look nice for their girlfriends, and my boyfriend won't. How can I nicely tell him that he's gained, it's not healthy, and that he should get in shape? I want my boyfriend back, not this guy who is lazy and always eats out. Help?:(

Okay, I'll try and make this short. I live in an apartment with two other girls, who I'm very good friends with. We go to school each other, and lived with each other last year, in the dorms. Now, we're in an apartment. One of my roommates hasn't been here this semester, because she's doing an internship somewhere, but she visits every two weeks or so. So that means it's only me, and my other roommate. Now, my other roommate recently started dating this guy, and it's her first boyfriend. So basically, she leaches onto him and is never alone, she's always with him. Problem is, she's always HERE...with him. They're like a package deal. Now, I have nothing against relationships. I'm in a relationship (for over a year) with my boyfriend, who lives in the same complex as us. While I have him over often, it is NEVER for more then a couple of hours, and that's not every day. We switch it up. Her boyfriend is a great guy, super nice, but he's here all the time and I can't stand it anymore. He'll do homework here, they'll watch T.V and then they go upstairs, have sex, come back down, and then repeat. He has his own HOUSE with only one other roommate, so I don't get it. He even has a toothbrush here (In a bathroom that we share). I've had it, and she knows it's a problem-how and what do I say in order for her to not have him over as often? Also, they have loud sex. Any advice? I'm sick of it, I didn't sign up for this crap. She doesn't care about our space and only herself...

This isn't for me, but my cousin. My cousin and her fiance don't really have a 'song'. Nothing that was playing in the background of their first thing, etc. But there is ONE song. My cousin has always loved the song 'your hand in mine' (I'll post the link bellow so you can have a hear). Every times she listens to it, she says it sounds like the soundtrack to love and life. It starts simple (Like the relationship) and builds in intensity (Like their love) and gets simple and content again, like their relationship here on out. She loves that it has no lyrics (She said it makes it feel special to them, like THEY create their own lyrics in their head, that is only there's). When her fiance first heard this song (Years ago, she said it was her favorite song, and everytime it would play on their computer, they would both smile at each other, because it did kind of feel like their song) and he's all for this song. She just doesn't know if a song without lyrics is weird for a first dance, or if people will think it's stupid, etc. If you heard this song playing during a couples first dance, what would you think? (Especially since no one really knows it). Thanks for helping her! :)

(This is one of the shorter versions-the original is like eight minutes, so no to that! lol).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bhjgQbUUG-s

(Here's the other version of it)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fuJ9m2eVYQ0

So, recently, a couple of my guy friends (Both who are also good friends with my boyfriend) said that he's whipped, in relation to something he did for me. I had a really bad cold, and no medicine. He drove me to the store to get some. Now, I'm really tight on money, and my boyfriends parents basically pay for everything, so we kind of live in two different worlds, in that sense. He took the medicine and bought it for me. At first I was irked, because he shouldn't have to. Then I was very grateful, because it shows that he cares, and understands my situation. After my two guy friends found that out, they kept saying, "He's whipped". I don't agree though, our relationship is 50/50. I care so much about him, and love him, and he loves me. He doesn't drop his friends for me, but if I ask for something, or help for something, he'll do it. Not because he's whipped, but because he wants to see me happy. But from an outsiders view point, I can see how it looks like he is. How can I make it seem like he's not, and get people to stop having these perceptions of my relationship? I mentioned it to my boyfriend, and you could tell it affected him. I'm very defensive about him, and if someone says something rude/hurtful, that is the only time I become cold, assertive, and somewhat rude. No one is going to insult my boyfriend for me an insanely selfless, kind, and compassionate man. For the record, he's 20, I'm nineteen (Second year in college) and we've been dating a years. Any words of advice would be great!

You're asked to write a informative speech, which you will deliver to a class full of college students. It must be appropriate, but also must be easy for these students to relate to, and find interest in, and be creative. What would your speech me about.

I'll try and make this short! Boyfriend and I have been dating for a year, I love, all of it. We have a fantastic relationship! We're second gets in college, but this summer, we were split up (I attend school out of state) for the whole summer (almost four months). Now, he's not a big texter, and I know that. But before we parted, he promises he'd fix it. I told him that texting, in our current situation, is very important me, because I'm usually too busy for lengthy calls (summer classes, working, etc.) however, it has not improved. He's texted in the morning this past week, saying good morning, and he's so proud of himself for it. He says he'll text me back later, but so much time passes. Today's instance: texted me good morning at nine in the morning, exchanged two texts, said he'd text me after her finished his paper, and it shouldn't take long-never texted me back, at all. I don't need to talk to him every minute, but a text every three hours or so, telling me how his day was, would be nice. So I want to give him a taste of his own medicine. What should I do? When he texts tomorrow, should I send one reply, and not talk for the rest of the day? He keeps promising me he'll fix it, and I'm tired of empty promises. Guys, advice would be great!

My boyfriend just got on a plane, to head back home (He had to fly to visit-we go to the same college, but I attend as an out of state student, so I return home for the summer). After asking me parents, they've made it obvious through lack of talking that they don't really like my boyfriend. My mom says he's too touchy, which is a ridiculous thing to say, because we haven't seen each other for over two months, of course we'll be hugging. We never kissed in front of them, though. She says he acts weird. I will say he's super silly, and may accidentally say something silly, but that's just him! Will this become a problem? We're the same age-he's highly intelligent, handsome, very polite, and I love him dearly, and he loves me, too. He's got a bright future (Engineering student) and has every intention of taking care of me the rest of my life. He treats me like gold. What's their issue, and is this a big deal?

I have no idea what to get my 20 year old bf for his birthday-I have a limited budget, and he has a great job, so he has everything he wants. I'm thinking of buying him a cool looking V-neck from Oakley, and some really nice cologne. Is that an okay idea? I have no idea what to get him.

Guys, specifically. I'm buying my boyfriend either Ray Ban Wayferes (Or what ever those are called) or Oakley Jupiters. Which does a guy tend to like more, and which brand is seen as 'more impressive to own'. Thank you!:)

My boyfriend hates when I buy him gifts-seriously, he only thinks HE has a right to spoil me, and it doesn't work both ways, apparently. He's going to be turning 20 late this month, and I THINK I know what I want to get him. For one, he doesn't want any kind of electronics (Claims he doesn't want me to spend the money) and honestly...I can't afford that, so it works. No watches, anything like that. I'm planning to make something cute, but also buy him something he'll use/has wanted. My close guy friend just bought a pair of ray band wayfarers, but they weren't what he wanted, and he'll sell them to me at half price! However, I don't know if this is a good gift for his birthday? He doesn't own sunglasses, and when we go to the beach with friends, he always says he needs to buy a pair. For the record, August will be our one year, in case that needs to be known. Also, no sexual comments (I can't do anything like that because we're currently long distance from May-August until we go back to our college). Thanks for any input!:)

Okay, while works are more difficult in every aspect, GIFTS is not one of them. Perfume, purses, clothes, makeup, gift cards, flowers, chocolate...it's SO easy to buy us gifts. Guys, you're a different story. My boyfriend is turning 20 next month, and I don't know what to get him. We're both going into our second year of college, if it matters. June will mark the 10th month, so a decent amount of time. However, I have NO idea what to get him for his birthday! I already got him an inscribed wrist band for Christmas, among other things, so nothing like that again. I asked what he wanted, and he said he doesn't want anything, just a card. His sisters, however, said he's really into home made thoughtful gifts, and I know that's true. What can I do for him? Every idea I have seems too much like an aniversary gift, which is frustrating, because it's his birthday. He doesn't want clothes, electronics, games, nothing like that. Something from that heart-any ideas? Thank you!:)

My boyfriend and I have been dating for eight months, and have an amazing relationship. We really love and trust each other, and are the closest of friends, as well. It's great! However, last night, our group of friends and I went to a pool party, but there was no drinking or anything there. However, before we went out, our group drank. I drank more then I normally do, and was drunk, yes. I acted silly, but could make solid decisions, vision was fine, etc, and I was capable of swimming, so obviously it wasn't too awful. While we were there, I got split from my friends and was looking for them. I rammed right into this guy, apologized, and was going to continue my search, but he pulled me back. He asked my name, which I said, if I wanted to stick with him, and I said, very politely, "No, thank you. I have a boyfriend." He then said, "I bet he isn't even here." Before I answered (I had planned to lie and say he was) he grabbed my face and started to make out with me. I scratched at his arms and finally brought my arm up to half slap/punch him in the face (It looked like I was going for a slap, but then put my hand in a fist). He let go cursing, and I swam off. I KNOW my boyfriend would want to know if this happened, however, I'm afraid he may blame me, since I WAS drunk. What should I do?:/