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he said that during our college days he really likes me and after 13 years he still feel thesame.. and he felt sad that after graduation we lost our communications and tried his best to look for me.

i must admit that i like him too, and he wants us to have a special relationship with each other, no commitment but just to express the special feelings that we still have.

i am confused, i like him and i treasure our friendship, during those days he is always at my side.. but never had the courage to tell how he feel towards me.

if only we can bring back the time.. and now its too late.

i already told him that we rather stay friends just like 13 years ago, close but not too close, cause i cannot betray my husband.. but he insists.. he said he still feel the same.

i want to stay away from him, but i cant, simply because i miss him so much and i enjoy his company.. but i also don't want to do the things that he want to.

if you were in my position, how will you handle this? i am serious

and i always prepare myself for the possibility.

but it is not really a good idea, and no matter how prepare you are and how open minded you are, it always hurt.

even if he always says how much he loves me, it still cannot hide the fact that once in our relationship he hurt me and fall in love to someone else.

to you guys.. why do you have to do this thing?

why cant you trully love your wife and be faithful..?

do you know how painful it is to your wife?

don't say that wife also do such things.. but man are more into this stuff than woman.

i think guys are just trying to get away from commitment and they just want to have fun and some kind of stuff..

i have problem and i know what to do, but i am having a second though simply because i really want to do it even if i know that it is wrong and it will cause me trouble.

and i trust him alot. he is always beside me everytime i needed him. a friend who will just pop up infront of you with a helping hand and comforting smile. i never notice the gesture all i know is that wr good friends and besides, had his girlfriend during that days.. had steady relationship with one or two of our common friends, but still our friendship remains strong, we walk holdinghands, sleep beside each other (w/ other friends) and care for each other. then after our graduation, we never had a chance of seeing each other again.. total lost of communication.

but after 13 long years our path cross again, diffirent this time because we are both commited with family on our own. and only now he admitted that he was once fallen for me and during those days he never had the guts to admit it bcoz of our friendship and he tried his best to find me. and i realized how much i miss him. he wants to see me but diff this time, he want us to re kindle the feelings.. should i let it happen

i am a mother of 2 and after quitting my job 3 years ago i stay home and take care of my kids. my husband work overseas.. i feel bored and i lost my self confidence, i used to be independent. i want to work again but it is really hard to find a job in these days..

i have these mood swings and i know my kids are somehow affected but i can't help it.. i feel i am useless and bored of my daily routine. what will i do... ?