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during my college years i hv this guy bestfriend, he is sweet and thoughtful, a person i can lean on?
and i trust him alot. he is always beside me everytime i needed him. a friend who will just pop up infront of you with a helping hand and comforting smile. i never notice the gesture all i know is that wr good friends and besides, had his girlfriend during that days.. had steady relationship with one or two of our common friends, but still our friendship remains strong, we walk holdinghands, sleep beside each other (w/ other friends) and care for each other. then after our graduation, we never had a chance of seeing each other again.. total lost of communication.
but after 13 long years our path cross again, diffirent this time because we are both commited with family on our own. and only now he admitted that he was once fallen for me and during those days he never had the guts to admit it bcoz of our friendship and he tried his best to find me. and i realized how much i miss him. he wants to see me but diff this time, he want us to re kindle the feelings.. should i let it happen
4 Answers
- HannaLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Tell him that it's not possible anymore, because you have a family now. A classic example of why a person must let it known of his/her feelings before it's too late. Let this be a lesson to all. You probably liked him too back then, but both were too shy to say anything, and now it's too late. Right now, you're having mixed feelings because his presence brought back a lot of memories of the past. You may be confused of your feelings, but remember, you have a family now, and it's not all about you anymore. Tell him, it's in the past now, where a relationship is not possible, but a friendship is.
- 1 decade ago
You both have families!?!
Stop! Take a look in the mirror, grab a piece of paper and a pencil. Walk to the table, and write what has changed about you in 13 years.
Read it aloud to yourself, and ask if you really want to go back to the day?
It's nice to remember that friendship, and how sweet it sounds for me to read. Why take a chance on destroying those memories forever?
- 1 decade ago
well, tough decision... has to be very well thought... do you really know where this can get you? there are a lot of people involved... not trying to say yes or no.. but for sure it deserves a lot of thinking... do you have external help? a therapy may be?
