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I have a 33 days cycle and it has been very regular for a few years.

I just got married on Dec 2014 and has been TTC eversince. My period has been consistent the past few months.

My last period was on 28th March and ended on 3rd April. My ovulation tracker stated that I would ovulate on the 16th.

On 18th, I started spotting - brown and pinkish. 19th got heavier. The kind that a pantyliner cannot cover/absorb fully. 20th was bright red and I had already started wearing pads the night before. I went to the doctor. He did some check up and stated that I am not pregnant. My husband is a nurse in the hospital as well and checked on my status via the hospital online dates. He said that the doctor didnt do the early pregnancy test on me. So he got me a pregnancy test and it was still negative - it was a normal pregnancy test, not early pregnancy test.

Today is the 21st. And since the tests stated that I am not pregnant, I started doing alot of housework again. I am still bleeding like light period, not spotting, and still bright red. Now I'm feeling aches on my lower left back.

I've been searching for answers online if anyone has encountered the same. But it will direct me to early pregnancy or early period due to stress. I dont think I am stressed. I read other options but it just doesnt tally with what I am experiencing.

I will be seeing a gynae on friday morning. But I want to make sure that I really am not pregnant and not do streneous actions before the appointment.

I'm looking into getting a corset and my size is in the middle of size L and XL. The measurements are as follows:

L: Bust 99-102cm, Waist 71-79cm, Hip 99-104cm

XL: Bust 99-107cm, Waist 79-86cm, Hips 104-112cm

My size: 102cm, Waist 80cm, Hips 104cm

My torso area is very "squishy" so i was wondering if I should get the L size coz when I tighten the measuring tape to my waist, the smallest I can get is 75cm.

I'm jogging twice a week and prolly will be losing some centimeters. I need to wear the corset in a month's time.

Please advice.

My dad's has a handful of credit cards. I'm a no-brainer in credit cards coz I don't believe in getting or having one. So yes, I don't know how the hell it works. Now, I'm helping my dad to pay off some of the debts from his credit cards. There's just too many of them and I finding the information on their websites is not of much help either. I need lots of help in this. PLEASE!!

How is the payments like monthly?

What can I do when he needs more time to pay?

What will happen if payment is delayed?

I've been at lost with my life direction ever since my virginity was taken away without my consent (I did not report to the police cause I ran away from home and ended up losing it). My life have been haywire and I can't seem to stick to the goals that I had set. People looked up to me as someone who's smart and talented but what I'm actually doing to myself for the past few years does not tally all that.

So far, I've dropped out of 3 schools after high school and currently am considering of dropping out the one I'm in now. My high school grades were the ones you can get to almost all of the courses you wanted. But I just can't seem to finish any of the ones I'd applied for.

Each new school that I gotten in, I'd tell myself that I'm going to finish it. But somehow, there will be all kinds of reasons for me to stop. I hate when that happens but when it does, I no longer have any motivation to strive to even go for my classes.

This same goes to my part time jobs. So far, I've managed to stay for a few years for each job, but as soon as I begin to dislike working, I'd start to "MIA" from it before quitting. It's not professional, I know. My former trainer had lectured me about it. But I simply can't help it.

I'd end up just sitting at home, thinking about why I'm feeling this way and hoping it'll go away the next day cause I know it's not a good image for myself. But when the next day comes, I'd do the same thing again.

It's really frustrating cause I can't seem to know where I want to go and what I want to be.

I'm turning 23 and I'm only a high school graduate. I just realized that I'm simply not ready to be a student yet. I just want to work and experience working life. But somehow, I know that I need to get a higher education. My parents had paid for all the 4 schools that I'd went and I'm simply wasting their money away.

Furthermore, whenever I'm in this mood, I would just be alone. Sometimes, I'd cry to myself with no reason. I feel like a failure all the time. Sometimes when people around me starts to see my "laziness" and commented on it, it just gave me more pressure of having more expectations to meet up to.

I know that if I'm working, I am a good and efficient worker. I learn fast, I'm very independent, dependable and initiative. But somehow all these would turn around all of the sudden.

I've so many people to think about - my parents, my superiors, my family. They never give any expectations but somehow, I actually gave myself the expectations that I thought that they would expect from me. Sometimes I think that I think too much. Worst, I don't express much. And when I do, I'd have the feeling that the other party is not really interested about it and I'd stop. At times, I'd cry as soon as I talked about it. I keep all these to myself cause I never want to be a burden to others.

It's really scary to cry all of the sudden cause one moment I'd be all smile and laughing but once this topic started, I can just gather all these emotions and cry.

My boyfriend started to be less pushy to me after I broke down in front of him all of the sudden. I kept it so well that even the ones close to me can't see that I've so much problems in me.

My sincere apologies for having this really long.

it's been 3 months since my last relationship of 2yrs and 4mths ended.

i've never looked at guys more than just friends when i was in that relationship and neither do i now.

there's this guy who's been liking me since i was in the relationship and he patiently waited for me - he was there for me whenever i had a fight with my ex and he would listen me through and calm me down.

sound like a great friend and i want to remain it that way. i dont want to lead him on now that im single. im just not ready for another relationship. not anytime soon.

i cant even look at cute guys straight in the eyes and simply smile. i would just give them a cold look.

i might giving people the sense that im arrogant but im seriously not.

i want to fall in love again but im afraid that i would repeat the same thing again. im a really paranoid person if i sense something is not right - eventhough i can be wrong.

im afraid that i might compare my next love to my previous one coz hes really unforgettable.

i would scratch till it bleeds - even when i did not use much pressure when scratching.

i did not buy new undies recently.

im not having my period when it started.

now, it's making the skin on my inner thighs looks like the aftermath of a really bad rash - but it happens DAILY.

the itch does not stop unless i keep myself busy.

i would have sleepless night coz of it.

HELP!!!!

you know your friends longer than your partner. but should that affect your relationship?

Bust 38F. Height 154cm, weight 65kg.

i have problems fitting into dresses coz of my bust.

i saw Panason Lumix DMC FZ30 real nice. But my friend advice me to get Nikon or Canon cameras. HELP!!

i breasts hurts when i touched them at some parts. are women with big bust tend to have a higher chance of getting breast cancer? they're really heavy on me. and at times i cant sleep soundly coz of the pain. i'm just 20 years old and i heard that breast cancer only happens after 21. i dunno if what i felt is a lump. but still, the pain is scaring the hell out of me.

HELP ME!

im playing the trumpet. i have some basic playing in high school. i was one of the best players. but now dat im out of school, my playing got bad. is it the mouthpiece? coz im using a different one from my high school days now. im currently using a Vincent Bach mouthpiece. I used a Shilke mouthpiece in high school. should i change my mouthpiece in order to play better? im currently playing ska music. n im sure that i need a mouthpiece which wont make my lips tired too fast. HELP!!

for those who had anwered my previous question, i thank you.

now, the result has finally came. he does not have any feelings 4 me. he just wanna be friends. i accepted that coz there's no more hope to hope, if u get what i mean. but its really disappointing. after 1 1/2 yrs of fights, love, etc everything is over jus bcoz of one slap. yes. he slapped me. n he just couldnt forgive himself for that. i was very shocked. is it just another excuse? he said dat he vowed to himself never to lay his hands on a girl, and he did. and he's scared 2 continue. why? the reason seems so vague to me. how could he not forgive himself wen i'd forgive him n wanted the rship to carry on. things werent like this before n i always hoped that one day, we will live in our own world together again. i still believe but i guess, we're jus not fated. but no doubt, im still shattered. my very 1st relationship has ended. why?

They're in a relationship, a rocky one. But then, he said things will be different. He works without a thought to go on a date with her once a week. But he still calls her daily, at 2 o'clock in the morning. Sometimes, it's really short coz he's got to work. On other times, he just want to have some phone "fun". Should the girl just be patient? She loves him. She gives him all the attention he wants. But she just don't get the same treatment in return. She's insecure. Help her.

Don't you think the word "friends" are often misused nowadays?