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Ok, I got a job as a waitress in a restaurant and I was on a trial shift so I really had to make an effort to get the job so I wasn't really in a position to flirt.

I had to serve drink to a really cute guy and his friends and he was staring at me the whole time like he was attracted to me. When I left the table my manager told me he had to snap him out of it to explain the menu.

The next time I went back to the table he asked me where I was from and he wasn't that friendly/smiley so I thought he wasn't interested after all, and was just curious because we're both British. I answered and left but I avoided his table because I was disappointed.

At the end of his meal he came up to the bar to shouted bye and I barely turned around to say goodbye but another waitress said he looked really sad when he left.

Now I cant stop thinking about him and I really want him to come back to the restaurant so I can talk to him. So do you think he'll come back or do you think I seemed too disinterested.

I made the mistake of downloading octochape onto my computer and now I can't get rid of it. I've tried deleting it by dragging it into the Trash folder but it always comes back when I turn on my computer again. I've deleted cookies and deleted every plug in but it keeps coming back like a nasty virus. Can anyone help? I'm not techno-savvy so maybe there's a simple solution. But this seems to be a vary invasive piece of software and I just want to get rid of it.

Thanks

I have a really good guy friend who started kissing me a few times. I didn't really enjoy the idea of kissing him because I never saw him in that way so we never kissed for long. Also I didn't think we were compatible kissers, he sort of launches at me with mouth wide open but then theres no tongue, ever, just wet lips and licking my face, which I found gross. Anyway, I decided to give him a chance becasue he is a nice guy and has an attractive face. I slept with him once and it wasn't awful but we just aren't compatible. He also sweats ALOT during sex, it was like having sex in a river, he's not fat but a little chunky but wears it well but I wasnt sure if the sweat was to do with the extra weight. Anyway I need advice, is it worth giving it a go or do you think the sexual incompatibility will get in the way. I love him dearly as a friend and when he's not there I consider him but when we're together I'm just not attracted.

Ok 4 years ago I was somewhat involved with a guy who basically used me to help with college work under the guise of some supposed attraction to me. I guess there was an attraction but it didn't mean much to him, as I said, he was using me. I tried emailing him a couple of times and he never emailed back, and once he emailed me randomly. Anyway, a few weeks ago I decided to email him to meet up, I'm in his city for the summer and didnt really know anyone else so contacted him, he got in touch and was eager to meet up. I was hoping to get laid and I was pretty sure that was the reason he was in touch, so it suited me and we met up and had sex which lasted all of 2 minutes. Now this is the part where I sound like an idiot, he made out he would help me settle in the city and help me with some stuff but when I called and texted him he didnt reply. My question is why don't men answer , what is going through his mind when he deletes my text or ignores my call. I'm not that bad company! I'm don't treat people like this so i have a hard time putting myself in the mindset of a user. I didn't feel used for sex because I wanted it to happen but can anyone enlighten me on what he's thinking or what men think when they just cant bring themselves to text back. Thanks Hope it makes sense.

I have had a look at BoligPortal.dk but you have to pay to use it, does anyone know if it is a scam or genuine and are there any other websites anyone can suggest. I'm looking for a room in a shared apartment or studio flat. Thanks

i'm so scared, last week I had a mole which I was told was severely atypical or melanoma. If a mole is severely atypical does that mean I automatically have cancer. I'm so scared, I am expecting the biopsy results and feel sick, has anyone else been in this situation. Help please.

when I first met my boyfriend I thought it would just be a short thing and not serious so I made stuff up about my childhood, not bad stuff, just unessesary, now 2 years later we're getting really serious and I'm too embarassed to tell the truth and I feel like he cant meet my family because the truth will come out. It was just a silly lie about where I grew up to sound more interesting but I feel like its too late to tell the truth. help. how do I tell him.

I used to wear 32C, my breasts grew a little bit and 32 C fits but I spill out of them bit. I was measured in Victoria's Secret New York and I was told I was 32C or 34B. I then got measured in London and was told I was 30E!. 30E sounds like a porn star size even though the bra's I tried on fit. I am quite slim, 5'9'' and size 8 and my breast dont look very big in clothes. Have bra sizes changed in the uk or is that normal.

Does anyone know where i can get a copy of the old swedish cartoon resan till melonia or The Journey to Melonia in either english or swedish.Its quite old, from 1989 and being swedish its not exactly available worldwide. Please let me know if its available to buy anywhere. thanks

ok this morning i read my boyfriends text message...yes it's wrong but i was suspicious and i saw messages to this girl he works with stuff like 'miss you and love you' and 'cutie' so he's obviously cheating but i told him today that if he's cheating he should tell me as i will probably find out anyway. I used to work in the same place and know people there. he acted like my questions were really irrational and i didnt mention the texts. should i tell him i read the texts or wait to catch him out. i've never had to deal with a cheating boyfrind and i want to know the best way to get the truth. thanks

I am supposed to fly from heathrow on the 17th January but there is a 48 hour strike. will I get compensation or just have the flight cancelled.

i've just received my grade for my degree in fine art and I didnt get the grade i need to do a masters. can i spply to get it re-marked and is there any point carrying on with art, will employers or galleries even consider me with a 2.2. Im so angry as I feel i deserved a better grade!

i've just received my grade for my degree in fine art and I didnt get the grade i need to do a masters. can i spply to get it re-marked and is there any point carrying on with art, will employers or galleries even consider me with a 2.2. Im so angry as I feel i deserved a better grade!

i have this male friend at college and we're really attracted to each other. the thing is he has a long distance relationship and we made the mistake of fooling around in bed a couple of times. he's allways flirting and touching me and he's told me some really personal things. i know he wont break up with his girlfriend but i find it wierd that the next day he always tells me he's reallyin love with his girlfriend and now he's telling me he might move back and live with her. Can he really be in love with her if he's doing what he's doing with me. he told me once that he was really confused and he didnt know what to do because he likes me and her. what is going on with him?

last night a male friend im close to told me he had been raped a couple of times when he was young. I knew he suffered from depression and it explained why he was so inexperienced when we nearly got together in bed. I dont know what to say to him,i want to make him feel good about himself. has anyone else been in a similar situaion or knows a guy who was raped. how can i help him emotionally as a friend?

last night a male friend im close to told me he had been raped a couple of times when he was young. I knew he suffered from depression and it explained why he was so inexperienced when we nearly got together in bed. I dont know what to say to him,i want to make him feel good about himself. has anyone else been in a similar situaion or knows a guy who was raped. how can i help him as a friend?