BCDoerrer

Basic Facts of the situation -

Met a guy I fell head over heels for in December of 2009. He was only visiting on vacation & lives in the UK (I live in NY)

Wouldn't sleep with him b/c I want to wait (he respectfully understood and didn't push the issue)

He's coming back for the first time to visit me at the end of this month for a week

We either call or skype almost every day since he's been gone

He's never had a serious girlfriend (he's 24) and I'm 21.

He may be moving to NY this summer/fall

He doesn't know exactly how strongly I feel about him because I don't want to scare him off (also I've never liked someone this much so I'm a little confused on how to express my feelings)

If guys are reading this - It would be great if you could respond with opinions.

Would you lose respect for a girl if she slept with you after a few dates?

The situation is complicated because we've actually only spent a few days together since we're so long distance - My real question is how do I handle the situation and our "relationship" (if you can call it that) once he arrives in a few weeks?

** I gave him my number so he could call me from his friends cell phone (the one he is staying with)

I have a gift certificate for a hair salon in new york and I'm going lighter for the rest of the summer

How light can i go?

Examples =

1* http://www.withfriendship.com/user/images/401/actr...

2* http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/entertainment/2006-09...

3* http://images.askmen.com/galleries/model/alessandr...

Me - http://a640.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/89/l...

and would this cut go good with my face-shape

http://z.about.com/d/movies/1/8/j/c/5/siennamiller...

http://www.askmen.com/specials/2005_top_99/celebs/...

My Boyfriends ex girlfriend -

I can remember how he would just stare at her and send her messages constantly about how beautiful she is even though she tried to get him arrested when he broke up with her he went back saying how could he be mad at an angel idk we have been dating for a few months and it still bothers me b/c hes never actually told me i was pretty/ blah blah blah you know the deal

What do you think

Her -

http://a308.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/01543/70/33/1...

http://a476.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/01451/57/47/1...

Me -

http://a336.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/24/l...

http://a841.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/39/l...

http://a892.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/91/l...

Guess our ages as well

My mom was gone to boston for the day and my boyfriends friends came over and drank, i kept telling them to leave b/c they were drinking and got so annoying but they wouldnt until finally i kicked them out

I cleaned up everything and put all the beer cans outside and my mom saw them in the bags when she came home and FLIPPED OUT

Im leaving for college august 19th but im gone on vacation in 2 1/2 weeks

and she said I'm grounded the rest of the time im home

I really need to get out of this b/c these are the very last weeks i get to spend with my boyfriend and best friend until i leave to go to college which is 4 1/2 hours away

..how have you gotten out of something like this?

and who the eff gets grounded at 18!

http://i19.tinypic.com/6c2qzhc.jpg

^Me on the left (My skins isnt as dark - that was taken last summer)

Hair Colors =

1* http://img.timeinc.net/people/i/2006/stylechannel/...

2*

http://www.tabloidstyle.com/photos/categories/33.j...

3*

http://ewa-coffeebreak.com/wp-content/themes/Coffe...

4*

http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c158/mootz117/71...

Or if you didnt like any, suggest something (esp. a kind of style that would go well with my face shape) = I want something very different for summer / I'm sick of my dark color and w/e i do im dying it back to dark in the fall

THANK YOU!!!!!

Your thoughts on the matter?

(Im a brunette and it just seems whenever I'm out with my friends which are all blondes, they recieve all the attention; Im not complaining I just want to hear what people think on the matter)

What hair color would you rec. ? (I'm going a bit lighter; doesnt matter to me how much)

http://a831.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/45/l...

OR do you know of any free sites where i can 'try on' diff hair colors

My hair wont take hair coloring bought from drugstores, so would sallys beauty be the next resort?

I need a color remover then a color to put over it (double process)

and no i cannot go to salon, i did my research called all nearest salons and the starting price to remove color from my hair is 250 (my hairs thick)

How would one achieve this look ?

http://cityrag.blogs.com/photos/uncategorized/kate...

First off - I really cannot go to a prof. I have $30 to my name and the drugstore is my only option (pathetic i know)

My hair is naturally a medium-ish tinted brown, but last year i had it highlighted, then when my roots started to come in i died it back to a medium brown, which then still left light streaks everywhere

I now died it dark brown and it came out black

I look like i have a wig on (no exageration) and VERY spotty

http://a764.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/35/l...

^before

http://a486.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/19/l...

^after

What are the best at-home hair bleaches/color removers that have worked out the best for you??

Has anyone gone? How was your expierence. Im the only one who applied in our school so i was wondering how hard is it to get in?

I don't exactly know my face shape so any experts on this would be great

http://i6.tinypic.com/4g4qywo.jpg

^i've had my hair basically the same length forvever with little to no layers and now i want something completely different (not short short b.c my hairs very very thick so it would frizz) *Im the dark haired

What would go good with my face shape ?bangs?side bangs?

Please post pictures that i could take to my hair stylist

Any Hair styles/ideas for curly hair ? (Something more then half up/half down or ponytail, a wee bit more interesting)

Pictures would be more then amazing

*Thanks in advance

I need something different

My hair is thick and pretty long (little past by boobs to be frank)

I want something different but not short, in other words i want to keep most my length.

Pictures would be amazing**

Anything but country?

1.Go to www.barewalls.com

2.Type in the search box on the top left "Bad Girl"

3.Click on the poster with the girl in the black tank and jeans

Would you buy this poster? Yes Or No

Who has gone from a dark brunette to a medium/dark blondish

such as - jessica alba/beyonce/jennifer aniston

Did you like the change? What was the maintenance (how often did you need to get your roots done)?

Final Results - Did you like how it turned out in the long run and did you end up dying it back, also and lastly how easy was it to turn it to your natural?

PICTURES WOULD BE FANTASTIC

I'm a senior and am applying this week for Merchandising/Marketing

Who has gone?

IF anyone has -

Can i contact you?

Or answer on here -

when did you do/what was your major/ when did you apply/ did u enjoy it?

Before - http://i9.tinypic.com/30d9lkj.jpg

After (now) - http://i7.tinypic.com/2moy0yc.jpg and http://i15.tinypic.com/43yt6z7.jpg

I like it, but am slowly starting not to b/c every single person in school and family is telling me how horrible/fake it looks. I wish I could just block everything out and be more confident.

Honest Opinions - I know a lot of people are going to say i should have just stuck to my original color and should have been happy with it but i really want change. Is there something else i could do with it to look better?