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That's essentially what she said. Does it mean anything when a girl says, "I don't want to "look" for anything. The greatest love stories are when it finds you." ?

And this is a girl I've been kind of flirting with for over a month. I like her a lot and I'm pretty sure she feels the same way, but now I'm not totally 100% sure.

I'm a 20 year old college student with little dating experience, and recently (a month ago) began dating a very sweet 18 year old girl who has made it clear that she's not looking for just hookups. I have a strong emotional connection with this girl and really care about her.

The furthest I've gone with any girl is making out and feel like I don't have enough experience to have sex with anyone at this point, but I need to gain experience with the smaller bases for now so I can eventually get to that point in the future. I don't want to be an asshole and pressure her into doing anything she's not comfortable with. I'm trying to be respectful here, but she has very nice breasts that are begging to be motor boated, among other things. How can I satisfy my horny guy side without violating her physical and emotional boundaries? How can I get her to open up to taking things further? I hope I'm not aiming for too much, too soon. You advice would be appreciated.

I'm 19 years old and a college sophomore. I'm trying to figure out how to approach this girl at my university. We each live in different dorm buildings, but I see her in the dining commons at dinner almost every night, and occasionally walking to class. I've never talked to her, don't know her name, and have never had any classes with her. She's just a girl I've seen around that I think is cute and looks friendly. What would be the best way for me to approach her without coming off as weird or desperate?

There's this girl I really like and for the past few weeks she's been really flirty with me, but whenever I ask if she wants to hang out she basically ignores me or says she's busy. I don't understand why she is uninterested in hanging out when she's make it pretty clear that she's into me as well. What should I do?

The only place I've been able to find them is American Eagle. I can sometimes find 28x30, but thats it. Since I'm a short guy (5'5") a lot of my jeans I have to roll up the ends or else they drag on the ground. I'm an 18 year old college student so I prefer to dress kinda trendy.

Do you know of any good stores that sell men's jeans in size 28x28 other than AE?

During the summer I purchased Nautica Island Voyage so I've been wearing that, but its more of a summer fragrance. I want to get a new men's cologne for the fall -- one that is woodsy and has spices. I'm just trying to smell good for the ladies! Does anybody have any recommendations?

My friend said that there is a drink at Starbucks called the Buzzkill. I've never heard of it. Does anybody know what it is or has ever tried it?

I'm an 18 year old college freshman and live on campus in the dorms. There is this one girl that lives down the hall from me that I have a huge crush on. We usually say hi and talk to each other for a minute when we see each other in the hall or on our way to class. Over the past two weeks or so I've been seeing her more often than before. But anyways,

Yesterday at my university there was a huge career fair with representatives from hundreds of companies. So I was talking to this guy from a construction firm, asking about the kinds of jobs they have, etc.

While I was talking to him, my crush walked by, smiled and said hi to me. But as she was walking past behind me, she touched my waist for a moment and it sent tingles up my spine!

It's been driving me crazy all day. I haven't told her that I like her yet, but I'm pretty sure she knows. So now I'm feeling like I should try to ask her out ASAP. Do you think she might like me back? Should I try to ask her out soon, or wait?

I'm not very good at approaching and talking to girls I don't know in public. If it's in a class at school, that's usually pretty easy for me. However, out in public, like at the mall, I get nervous and scared. I don't know what to say. Lets say I see a cute girl at the mall and I want to introduce myself to her (so I can get her number and eventually go out on a date with her) -- I'll get nervous, stutter my speech, and so fourth. Girls, if you're out somewhere and a guy you've never met suddenly starts talking to you, you know he's trying to hit on you, right? This is one of the reasons I'm so afraid. What should I do? Any suggestions on how to increase my confidence and guidance towards what to do would be appreciated!

Back on Saturday June 9th I went to my friend's party and I hooked up with this girl. In fact, she was my first kiss and is the only girl I've ever kissed... After we made out she asked me for my number and also gave me hers. She sent me a text message on Monday June 11th and I said that I would call her later that night, and when I did she didn't answer so I just left a message. I was pretty busy after that with finals, graduation, work, a college course, went on a two week cruise to Alaska, etc. but now I'm free for the last month or so of my summer vacation. I haven't called or talked to her since June 11th. I found her myspace and sent her a message on August 8th, but she never replied. I would like to take her out on a date and get to know her. She's so pretty. I'm afraid to call her now because it's been so long, she might freak and be like "who the hell are you?". I don't know what to do. Should I call her or just forget about her? What should I do?

I'm a guy that just turned 18 and I start college this fall. I put together this preppy outfit in hopes it'll help me look good for the ladies! It consisting of a long sleeved white shirt w/ blue stripes from AE (I roll up the sleeves), some jeans from Hollister, and a navy blue Hollister t-shirt underneath (which says "COLLEGE" across it, but you can't see that in the pic).

Girls, let me know if you think this outfit looks good on me -- and what you would rate my attractiveness level as a whole. Do you think I'm cute enough to be able to get a couple of girls' numbers at a club or at the mall? Your comments are appreciated!

You can see a picture of it on my Flickr page:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/7964317@N05/113584915...