Lilium

Alright so I turned 18 in August last year and had joined the Army National Guard. I went to basic but got hurt so I was chaptered out with a basic medical discharge (knee injury) and came back in December. Now I m looking for a job, but the problem is that I m not allowed to leave the house unless my mom s at work (dad doesn t care). I can only apply to local places because of the fact that I don t have a license (I m working on it because my mom wouldn t allow me to even get a permit until just now), but I m struggling to find a job. My mom constantly yells at me and brings up the fact I got hurt to blackmail me (she might tell me to act my age [I do what I m told], complain about me getting hurt and not staying in the army, etc.). I have to have her permission to go see my friends or even go anywhere (even if it s my friend picking me up). Once she even showed up at my friend s house to pick me up saying that I didn t have her permission to spend a second night there.

Since I don t have a job I can t afford to move out, and she always complains that she s the only one working (My dad lost his job cause he got into a accident and broke his collarbone), but won t let me look for a job. I don t know what to do because no one is hiring me. Do you guys have any advice on how to possibly move out and get a job?

Can t move with with the friend I mentioned because she lives with her grandmother who doesn t want me moving in because I don t have a job or anything like that.

Ok so my friend is always talking about Hetalia and seems to be the only anime she mentions, and it's gotten so bad that she even tries to pass off as the character Spain. I understand she's a fan, but she only ever talks about how cool Spain is or how much she looks like him.

Just today, my best friend (who loves yaoi and all our friends know) was talking about her class where some kid made a joke about human trafficking. The teacher went off on the kid and explained human trafficking. My best friend, whom I will call C, got sick to her stomach and lost her appetite and explained this to all of us. R (the Hetalia fan) turned and said "well it's not as bad as the anime you guys (referring to me and C) watch. All it has is child rape" and we got angry and tried to explain that was false and she stormed off.

She got this idea from watching me watch Hunter x Hunter and said it was just child rape.

How do I deal with her? I apologize for it being so long.

I was wondering if anyone knew how to get my commissions noticed so I could make more. I'm making phone case designs and wanted to make a lot for people.

I know this may sound like I want attention but if anyone is interested here I'll post the link to my tumblr.

http://hetaliashipper18.tumblr.com/

I'm a recently turned 17 year old female and I caught this virus that's been spreading around my school. While I'm fighting it, I usually want my mom to hold me. Last night while my dad was at work, I slept in the bed with my mom. I had a fever that night and I usually have sleep with my mom when I'm sick.

I've heard people say how wrong that is since I'm a teenager but what do you guys think? Is this wrong or is it normal?

Ok I own two pet turtles. One male easter box turtle and one female of the same kind. Well my neighbor's kids kept bugging me about seeing them. I let them and the oldest girl (9) picked up by biggest one, my female one named Bowser. She then proceeded to flip her onto her back and tried to keep her that way, until I got onto her for doing so. I told her if she did it again she wouldn't be able to see them, and I let her see them once more, as I was cleaning their tank. She then flipped her over once again, and now today she constantly asked to see the turtles. I kept telling her no until she asked infront of my mom (she knows what happened) who told me to let her play with Bowser tomorrow. I'm worried about my turtle being hurt, I need warning signs for if my turtle is hurt because of this kid.

Do you have any tips for making it so this kid can't torture my babies?

Well I am on the small side, and my mom and formal neighbor like making comments saying the only thing that sticks out are my breasts. I have small hips and a small waist, but huge boobs (I'm pretty much flat everywhere but my chest).

I weigh about 110 pounds or less and have chronic pain on my lower back (never upper back).

I went to a bra shop where I live and they measured me as a size they don't even sell (they said I was a 27 F). I currently wear genie bras as they are the only ones that don't cause me pain, and the commercial says to wear the size of your tee shirt. My tee shirt size is about M, but I have to wear a XL genie bra.

Is there anyway to help my back? I always try to crack it, have had my neighbor's kid walk on my back, and sometimes sleep on the floor to keep my back straight.

Ok so I plan on cosplaying Friday for the last day of school and I need help in getting one planned. I have shoulder length blonde hair and I plan on wearing a long (shin length) white skirt. I can wear anything else though and I need help picking one out.

I can't wear wigs to school or anything above two inches of the knee and tank top straps have to be two inches long.

If you could help I'd greatly appreciate it.

Any anime or video game

Ok so my friend that I asked about the whole tablet thing now has a phone. Though her phone is prepaid and we talk so much she runs out of minutes and she still doesn't have WiFi. I was wondering if she could find an app and download it on WiFi somewhere that could bypass using her minutes without using WiFi. Like using her phone and sending messages but not using data or her minutes. If not thanks for answering the question.

She has a Nokia Windows phone

Ok I by no means am a dub-hater as there are anime I can't watch in Japanese only because I've gotten to used to hearing the English dub. Ok with me if I watch it English first I only watch the dub same goes for the subs.

My friend told me about Attack on Titan being dubbed and I was excited to see how it would be compared to the Japanese and it kind of let me down. The major problem for me was the pronunciation of Mikasa's name and Eren's voice (he sounded almost whiny and annoying and it seemed to me that Mikasa's voice was deeper which kind of weirdest me out).

If you liked the dub tell me what you liked about it? I want to see if it would be worth it to sit through the dub and watch it.

Ok so my friend (it's a guy) asked me out a while ago and I turned him down and then things started happening. He doesn't quit staring at me even though I state that it makes me uncomfortable and always hide my face with my phone or book when he does. He reacts by borderline whining when I say that I don't like eye contact or being stared at (as I have a bad self esteem and am socially awkward). I always feel uncomfortable with the opposite sex and am more inclined towards having friends of the same gender.

He always leaves classes without the teacher knowing and walks up to my last hour (as I have a class that has it's out of the building). I always tell him to stop, EVERY DAY, and he ignores it everytime and keeps doing it. It's to the point I actually want to cut this friendship because it's so annoying.

Ok so here's the deal: A friend of mine asked me out and I rejected him as nicely as I could. I told him I wasn't looking for a relationship because I'm asexual (which is the truth, in fact I don't mind sex but when I imagine it's me having sex I'm disgusted). Well everything was fine at first but now he will be in class just staring at me and it's creeping me out. He won't take his eyes off me unless I look up. He also will pick off my hair that falls from my head and lands on my shirt or something similar.

It's not bugging me until after I rejected him (as he did the hair thing before he asked me out), and now he's actually almost touching my breasts to get the hair. He never did that before he asked me out.

He's also getting pissed at everything and ignoring everyone (not just me but all my friends).

What do I do? This just feels so awkward.

Ok so I got this email through my Samsung Galaxy S3 and opened it. It was claiming to be from Banks of America (I don't use this bank since I use Arvest), and said something about me moving like 18 million dollars. It then told me that I needed to answer questions including full name and bank account.My mom then told me I shouldn't have opened it cause they can get my information. How can I fix this?

P.S. I don't have my real name listed on my email.

Need some good creepypasta?

Well I want to read some creepypasta like these ones:

The Devil Game

How to Play Hide and Seek by Yourself

Midnight Man

The Cellphone Game or

Don't Go In the Basement

(All of these can be found on MrCreepypasta's channel on YouTube)

I want one where it has like a twist ending, a tutorial on a ritual, or based off a game (not a video game cause most I find are freaking Pokepastas).

Like in the Cellphone Game how it is played through text messaging or you die if you don't end up finding a certain item.

I want to be creeped out and scared but that doesn't mean I want a super hyper realistic gore fest.

An example being "Clockwork Your Time Is Up" because it didn't creep me out cause all it did was explain the gore.

Well I want to read some creepypasta like these ones:

The Devil Game

How to Play Hide and Seek by Yourself

Midnight Man

The Cellphone Game or

Don't Go In the Basement

(All of these can be found on MrCreepypasta's channel on YouTube)

I want one where it has like a twist ending, a tutorial on a ritual, or based off a game (not a video game cause most I find are freaking Pokepastas).

Like in the Cellphone Game how it is played through text messaging or you die if you don't end up finding a certain item.

I want to be creeper out and scared but that doesn't mean I want a super hyper realistic gore fest.

An example being "Clockwork Your Time Is Up" because it didn't creep me out cause all it did was explain the gore.

Ok well I really want to join the army but I don't know if I can. I have had people say I can't because I wear glasses and I also have some chronic condition where my heart rate is accelerated. My resting heart rate is over 100 near 110 or 120. I wanted to know if this would cause me not being able to join the army. Please don't just send me a link to some site.

Ok so she is always going on about famous youtubers (like pewdiepie) which I'm fine with but then she tries to force me to watch a video, listen to something or so and so is when I draw the line. She won't quit even if I tell her to and I'm a huge anime fan and she always makes rude comments about it. "At least I don't watch anime where everyone has big racks" and because I said I don't like romance stories a lot "well you watch anime and all those are romance stories." Everything I say she turns it around and insults it and like today we were talking at lunch and we were talking about things that happened in the past that hurt and I was talking about the time I was knocked out during a soccer game and she f***king laughed at me (I was 6 when the soccer thing happened) and I told her off and stormed off. I went to the commons area and she came to me giving me a pathetic apology that she didn't mean.

She also ignores me and leaves me and expects me to always listen and wait for her.

Ok at times I'm really hungry then a few minutes later I'm not. Usually I stop being hungry after my mom yells at me which happens a lot. I want to be normal and stop losing weight cause when I lose weight my mom gets mad again. I'm 16 5'2 and weigh a little over 105 and am still losing weight.

Do you have any tips?

Ok I have this cat and she's about 6 or 7 years old and we've had her since she was a kitten. She's Siamese and no matter what she pees on everything but not the litterbox. The common one is anything on the floor, my parents bed, my coats, and my backpack. It's getting on me and my mom's nerves while my dad blames us. She will run into my parents room and pee smack dab in the middle of the bed and did this just now. My dad was taking a shower and the cat peed on the bed within ten minutes. How do we get her to stop? We live in a 2 bedroom apartment and she mostly pees in my parents room. It's to the point my mom has thought of getting rid of her cause they are washing sheets once or twice a week just because of the cat.

I have a small group of friends like maybe 4 other people. In this group there is one boy and he is autistic, well he seems to get along with me the most cause I don't try to touch him without him knowing (like randomly hugging him), and we share interests in many things (one being the Legend of Zelda series). Ok well we were hanging out today at my house and before he left he had hugged me and then had to go cause it was snowing and his mom was coming to pick him up. This is the first time he's hugged me and we've been friends for about 2 years cause I was one of the people who didn't treat him like he was autistic.

My question is does this mean he trusts me a little more or what does him hugging me mean? I mean I'm not looking to romantically involve myself but I feel like I'm digging in to deep with this question.

Ok well I used to be really good in school until I got to high school. Now I'm lazy about doing my work and I try to convince myself to do the work. My teachers tend to give us work for the week (like an assignment on Monday due Friday) and it makes me want to start that Thursday cause I always tell myself "oh you have plenty of time."

How can I stop this cause it's effecting my grade?