tightlies

I've been dating a woman that is 8 years older than me. She has two kids from a previous marriage, one is only 12 years younger than me. She has been the best girlfriend I've ever had. We get a long great, she is better looking than anyone I've ever dated and I've never felt so loved, ever. The problem is that every time I start looking at engagement rings I start 'making sure' I'm making the right decision and think about the possibilities. What if she can't have any more kids? What happens when I'm 45 and she is 53? or I'm 55 and she's 63?

I don't know what to do. I've never been happier in a relationship. I have the love and feelings I've always wanted, but I'm afraid of the future. I've always wanted a family, even a big family and I feel like I'm putting that at risk with her. I feel like if we want to have kids it has to happen now. If we dated for another year, then got married, waited 6 months or so she'd be 42 and statistically would have a 40% chance of having a baby. Let alone 2 kids.

I know I sound shallow, but this is killing me. I don't have any interest in dating someone else or looking. I either risk possibly losing 'the one' or I risk having the family I've always wanted.

I know there are successful relationships out there with similar age differences, but the ones I know about started earlier and they already have kids.

I've been dating a woman for about 5 months who is absolutely PERFECT. I've dated a lot, and nobody has ever treated me so well. However, I'm having serious qualms about purposing to her. I'm 31 and she is 39. Right now, we are perfect. I don't have kids but she has a couple, the youngest being 17. However I do want kids and I'm aware of the complications after she turns 35. I'm also concerned about attraction 10 - 15 years from now. She is way above average in the looks department, but women don't age as well as men.

Does anyone have experience with this? Is anyone married to a woman that is 10 years older and she is in her 40's or 50's?

I have a Bachelor and Master of Science degree in Electrical Engineering and now want to pursue an MBA. I know a MBA from a top tier institution is better, but how much better? Do graduates of a top tier MBA program basically have their choice of companies to pick from?

I graduated from a very very good engineering school and after graduating, finding a job was not as easy as I expected. So I'm curious if the outcome would be similar for an MBA.

--the clothes are all new and have tags--i will be there for a while and meeting a lot of my in laws for the first time, so I'm bringing a lot of gifts. Can I expect to have to pay taxes or anything?

Would it better just to ship this stuff via UPS?

What is better? A awesome job in a city you do NOT like, or a job you do not like in an awesome town where you grew up and know everyone.

I need some serious advice

Anyone have any advice for keeping a bad mood or situation from spreading into other aspects of my life. I mean, I'll be upset or thinking about one thing that happened that pisses me off, and then I am short or mean when I interact with other people, especially strangers. I'm usually cool to people I know or work with because I realize I have to be around them more, but I give a clerk attitude becuase I'm pissed about something else, and after I ask myself 'why did I do that'

Any suggestions?

Does anyone know of a Broncos or Rockies Bar or any bar in Dallas that has many relocated Denverites as patrons?

I want to watch Bronco games, and the World Series with other Denver fans but I live in Dallas now.

Can you help? If you are in the same situation, email me and maybe we can meet up?

I've always thought I could not deduct the interest on my taxes from an investment property. but I keep seeing articles that say I can. Can anyone give it to me straight?

I workout regularly and do 30 minutes of various kinds of cardio. I also do a lot of ab workout to get a flatter stomach. I'm not cut but I am certainly not chubby, however I've noticed that I have a hard stomach but it bulges a little. I can see a six pack, but it sticks out like I have huge stomach muscles.

Does anyone know how to reduce these big stomach muscles?

We always talk about what we want in a wife or a husband. Tall, athletic, funny, good job, nice, caring, thoughtful. etc. But what do we need as men and women? Do you know what you need in a partner?

What do women need in a relationship and what do men need in a relationship? Are they different?

What are your requirements to sleep with someone? What needs to happen or what do you need to know in order for you to do the deed?

So if a guy just wants sex from you and is somwhat nice about it, he is a player. If he is mean as soon as he gets it, then he is a jerk?

Well what if he told you before you had sex that he wants a casual sexual relationship, nothing serious. No lies...

Even if you don't want that and tell him you are no longer interested. Is he a player or a jerk?

If you are under 20 or have never had a one night stand or casual relationship, this question does not apply to you. Sorry.

Ladies, what is the difference between a 'player' and a jerk who sleeps with you and you never hear from him again? Or is there a difference?

I have been getting a lot of job offers and I accepted on two weeks ago for a start date after the 1st of the year. But I've been getting even more interest since I accepted and one offer is better than the one I accepted. Are there any implications to turning back on an offer already accepted? Like in college, if you sign a letter of intent and then go to another university it is a NCAA violation.

Have you ever had a one night stand, and new it was going to be a one night stand before you did it? If so, who initiated it or extended the offer to go somewhere and get it on? the male or the female?

Have you ever been tied up or tied someone else up during sex? If you like it, why? And if you like to be tied up, is there a specific position you like?

I borrowed my friends computer last night and he had left his messenger up. There was a window that showed he was cybering with some girl. I read it all and it was some kind of fantasy roleplay where he was this girls older neighbor and....well you can only imagine....I've heard of it before but never done it. He has a gorgeous girlfriend so I know he isn't lonely....Can anyone else relate? Have you done it or tried it?