Adam G

I keep condemned by straight people all the time for being gay.

I'm young, and there are gay people who actually condemn me for not like effeminate/queen type of guys.

AND the fact that I don't really fit in with the bear community because I'm so young.

It's so frustrating. How the hell do I deal with this?!

LOL I'm so glad this site exists, I asked some pretty stupid things like, I used to be prejudice agianst people who were stereotypically gay, and it doesn't annoy me or concern me at all now. I actually realize how stupid I was?

It's just stupid to hate ANY group of people lol! I'm ashamed I was that stupid!!

I guess I'm just posting this to thank people who helped me out there.

Please tell me I'm not the only one!

Does anyone have any websites where I could tell her to go to talk about this, or any advice for her? I'm seriously worried about her. She's so smart and energentic and does everything I don't want anything bad to happen to her because of her parents.

Actually I have lots of friends like that. :(

It's stupid, you're only making hell for other people. I don't care what you consider sin and what you don't, I don't want to put up with ANYTHING you have to say, and I shouldn't have to.

My parents arn't really that religious, but every other uncle and ant is so religious I'm afraid of my coming out to my family would affect all of them.

Does anyone have any advice? My parents stuck through me for a lot worst and I just want to be honest with them.

There's nothing wrong with being effeminate, acting effimnate, or however many adjectives you want to list there.

What I don't like is when people actually think that "I love gay people they all make me laugh and they're all helping fashion!" I saw an answer like that here.

Trust me, in every society and group there are REALLY nice people, and there are REALLY crappy people. To generalize like that is like setting yourself up to get your opinion shattered whenyou see an asshole gay person or something!

I can see likeing ALL the people who make you laugh, and who you enjoy, and if you like effiminate stuff that too. But It's stupid to generalize all the gay people like that...its so diverse.

I mean I enjoy good people too, but good people exist in everything, not just gay people, etc.

And trust me, I don't like anything to do with fashion, lol.

I hope people understand what I'm talking about and don't get pissed!

If you ever mention you're a homosexual to anyone, they're going to automaticly think of anal sex and be discusted at you! (I hope some people arn't like it, but it seems the majority of the people ARE like it, at least some of the idiots I've seen on this site!)

Did anyone else notice that, is frustrated it, etc. etc. etc.?

AND IF SOMEONE COPY AND PASTES THE DAMN BIBLE HERE ONCE MORE IM GOING TO GO INSANE

If I have one more Christian telling me to repent because I'm gay, I'm going to go insane.

And when you think of gay, holy crap, don't automaticly think of anal sex and be discusted. Love is love. Sex is sex. You can love without sex! And I'm sure not everyone who's gay likes anal either!

"A bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of opinions, lifestyles or identities differing from their own."

That's what you are, bigots!

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You know, the annoying person woh goes, "Yeah well I dont' tell people about my sex life!" "I don't go marching about how I'm straight!" People like that annoy me, are they like that because they're jealous and feel threatened by it? I find it annoying!

When I think about it, I have absolutely no idea what it means at all!

Im trying to get help for my social anxiety, and it was going great then they all decided to make me do shitloads of stuff I'm not ready to do and I'm freaking out and I can't stop being anxious, and i can't get out of it becuase im afraid they're going to make me try to do stuff to quick?

wtf should i do?

I already stated a question, and I mean you are who you are, but I was talking about the stereotypical people who are just doing it to be stereotypical. Those passionate queens.

They make it so hard for me, because first of all no one even BELIEVED me when I came out, and my parents still have no idea that I'm gay!! I also have to put up with a bunch of crap how EVERYONE thinks that gay people have to be queens.

And let's not forget I'm told that since I'm young I have to have an absolutely smooth, perfectly skinny body, no facial hair at allllll. It drives me nuts!

Is there anyone else who hates to be identified with these kind of gay people? Do you think I have the right to be angry?

Please don't get offended, you shouldn't be offended if people don't like who you are, 'cause you're you for yourself and not going to changen anyways. I just wouldn't mind finding like minded people!

It seems as soon as you bring up sexuality, or the ethics of hating homosexuality, someone gets discusted by it.

It's the human body, you shouldn't be discusted by it!!

Why do people believe they have to follow a stereotype? Are you the kind of person who doesn't like it? I personally can't stand it but I'm sure you could tell that already. I just think you should act like yourself, and not have to be a stereotype to be something!

It's VERY wrong to hate a large group of people, why do people think that they should live their lives through hatred this way? I mean what's the point of hating people all your life! You're only making it hell for them! The entire thing with religious and social stigma about homosexual is so stupid, when there doesn't need to be! Tradition and faith can blind logick, but you CAN have a balance of the two and be awesome people and awesome Christains if you're religious!? But why does it seem like you never see these people?! It's stupid you have to see the idiots most of the time!

Do you agree, or disagree?

And by agree and disagree, I don't mean say something stupid.

Do people who say homosexuality isn't normal, because it's impossible to procreate natrually (without adoption or other means) realize how hypocritical they are being?

If homosexuality isn't normal because it doesn't cause procreation, then that means PROTECTED sex wouldn't be considered normal, and oral sex wouldn't be considered norma.

Sex is for your enjoyment, and people have been doing everything from gay to straight for so long I think it's ALL normal. It's just there's a stupid stigma in todays society about it.

Does anyone agree?

I'm tired of all the goddamn homophobic people who come to the LGBT of the site, and ask the most goddamn offensive questions and I'm tired of having to pull up with all the bullshit people have in real life?!

Is it THAT goddamn hard to know that most everyone in the world is a goddamn normal person and they arn't going to change for you?

I used to go here to help people out, and people had good questions, but all you homophobic people can go **** yourselfs. I'm tired of having to put up with this ****.

And watch, the first answer I'll get will be, "Ewwwww, that's sick, you're going to hell, etc!"

I go on the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered section of the site, and even here people always ask ignorant things all the time or you'll just see someone go, "HAHA I HOPE YOU GET AIDS!"

What the hell is a good way to vent my anger on this?! I don't feel ashamed about who I am, but I feel pissed at people who are just so ignorant and homophobic!

I'm really inexpierianced, does anyone on this section have any advice for me, or websites that have useful reading.

I know master/slave relationships arn't about the sex, and I'm worried about starting one since I'm so new at it.

I'm only young and I've seriously been thinking about it, but I'm too afraid that I wouldn't be able to fulfill my master's needs. I'm looking for advice from people who know about it to help me.