Heather B

Just like many other young girls, Valentine's Day was forever my favorite holiday. The lovey-dovey part, the candy, cards, I loved it all! Up until last year, when the man I'm with, burned me pretty good. We've been together three years now (two at the time of said burn), and I love him dearly, maybe not the things he has done in the past, but I do love him. At some point early last year, I happened upon my bf's myspace account that had not been logged out of, so me being the curious girlfriend that wants to keep tabs on her man (and apparently for good reasons!) found a message in his sent box to some barely legal-aged girl (him and I are 24 and 23, respectively) sent on February 7, 2009, saying "Hey, what's up. Wanna f*ck tomorrow, it's been awhile. Hit me back." to which she wrote back "Sure, send me a text 555-555-5555." I immediately asked him about it, what happened, etc, to which he said he said nothing happened, he never even talked to her on the phone, it was a mistake for him to send it, etc. Now, me being the forgiving (but hardly forgetting) person I am, I gave him a second chance. Everyone, myself included, makes stupid mistakes along the line, and as long as a lesson is learned, and the mistake is never repeated, I think everyone deserves redemption. I've tried to drop the issue, but a major area of my trust in him has been destroyed. I can't help but check up on his account to make sure nothing sneaky is going on, and haven't found anything (although he is much more aware of the "delete" button now, I'm sure) and the relationship has going pretty smooth since, but now I'm just torn apart, as I see Valentine's Day approaching, and all I can think of is him wanting to go out and get his d*ck wet elsewhere. He says I'm overreacting (maybe I am) and need to just forget about it. I know lots of people are going to say if I don't trust him and can't get over it, then I shouldn't be with him, which I do agree with to a certain extent, but like I said, I think everyone deserves a second chance, and he's managed to not screw it up this time, so that's a hard thing to do. The answer I'm looking for is more along the lines of what can I do to just get over it? I know I can't just erase my memories, and there are always going to be things that remind me of the incident (let's just say her name is rather common, everytime I hear it, I want to vomit), but does anyone have any advice to just put this behind me? He's managed to keep my trust since, so I can't see just giving up the relationship because I can't fix this on my own. Sorry this is such a long question, but any advice I can get will be greatly appreciated!

My sister was holding my baby bearded dragon last night when he took off running, and now I can't find him in my house, anyone have any tips on how to lure him back to me? Please, only advice from people that have experience with beardies. Thank you

...how do you rack up points? Sticking to polls and browsing areas you have general knowledge/trivia about? I can never seem to be the person that has a whole paragraph or two that ends up best answer! Advice?

In the past few years, I've noticed a couple habits I have that may be borderline OCD, as I'm sure lots of people do also. I want to hear the little things you do that make you wonder if you're taking it too far. An example of mine would be my obsession with even numbers. I can't do anything an odd amount of times or have an odd amount of things.

I'm not looking to troubleshoot, I'm just curious about how common of a problem it is for a Wii to stop working. As in, after resetting the AC adapter and plugging each component in one by one, the Wii just stops working, won't power on, and usually involves a game getting stuck in the console. I work in the electronics department of a store and have recently heard complaints about this happening. Anything? Thx =]

Has this fashion faux pas ended or should I just pack up my white clothes? And what started this rule anyways??

What is it that people do that drives you ABSOLUTELY INSANE??......for me, its when I put something where it belongs, then someone uses it and puts it where I didn't leave it....I hate not being able to find my ****!!

Here is my situation, when I was younger and not so wise with my money, I got myself a nice credit card, a nice car financed through a bank, and a checking account. Low and behold, I lost my job and had no means of paying these off. Car ended up getting repo'd, credit card is now $2,000 due, and well, let's say some bad and very illegal things happened with the checking account. At 22, I am over $20,000 in debt. A friend of mine that works at a bank said filing for bankruptcy (being that I am still young) may be my best option, seeing as I have no intentions of paying off $12,000 on a car I don't have, and Im still young enough to build my credit in my 30's when I might be say, smarter with my money. What do you think? I'm going to an attorney next week for a consultation, I just want the general public's opinion.

Now, I'm not talking about harmless little pranks, I want to do some mean things that make her want to move out. I've tried asking her to leave but we're both on the lease, and I'm not willing to give up the apartment. What kind of cruel, horrible things can I do to make her miserable?

....Ok, I know when you fight in Mobsters, you use 5 times your level in mob members, but after you reach level 100, can you only use the 500 max? Example: I have 540 mob members, so when I reach level 108, will I use all 540 of them in a fight? Or do I have those extra 40 people for nothing?