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Like at the meetings what happens? We just talk about stuff or do we do stuff?

I'm proud to be a girl. I'm proud to be a lesbian, but whenever i look deep in my mind I feel weird like I'm different.

I'm not a boy, but sometimes I feel like I'm not a girl either. i like my body but my mind feels like I'm not fully a girl. I'm not a boy, though.

I feel like I'm gender less in my mind, but if that's who I am people will just choose to ignore it

Help!!!

Adults always say that we can't know until we're like twenty because we're too young. What does age have to do with any of it?

Just say that we haven't had enough experience if that's what you mean. Is that what you mean?

He's seventeen. I'm 15 in two months.

I know he won't tell my parents because he told me how he's gotten drunk a bunch of times and asked me to make sure I didnt tell our mom.

I'm a lesbian btw.

Today in school I had gym and I looked over and this one girl was wearing a thong. I could feel my eyes bug and I was like wtf omg cover yourself theres a fricken lesbian here! Her butt was practically in my face

There go my remaining threats of heterosexuality. Lol

Then one if my friends who I may or may not have a crush on hugged me and it was so soft and comfortable, and I started to lean away from her because I didn't like that I liked it. Because she's straight

Then I was just joking around being dramatic with my friends and one of my friends hugged me and my face was across her chest and I was like omg omg holy crap stop bugging me let me move before I gay out

I feel disgusted and guilty about me being a lesbian. I like liking girls because they're so much more attractive than men (sorry guys) to me. But then I think of my mom and my friends and I think what'll happen if they know I've had these thoughts?

I don't want to lose my friendship with my mom because she's actually my closest friend and it'll take months for her to become more normal with the fact that I'm a lesbian. I wouldn't be able to handle it.

And I feel guilty about enjoying when a friend does stuff like the things listed above because they don't realize that I'm attracted to them and it hurts because they'd probably be disgusted. And I feel like I'm taking advantage of them

Are these thoughts normal? I feel disgusted by myself. Do you have any advice?

And how do you tell if you're on a level of bisexuality, not just flat out gay? The first question is more important though

Btw gays a blanket term for girls and guys in this question.

Why do girls feel obligated to look perfect? I don't think its because of guys I think it's because of other girls, who they want to beat.

It isn't fair that guys can just pull a t-shirt on in the morning and girls spend an hour choosing a top, putting on makeup, and fixing their hair. And if a girl doesn't fix her hair or put on makeup or put on a girl's shirt, she loses friends.

I did an experiment where for a month I wore leggings and boots and sweaters and a little makeup. I got like five more friends and I go to a really small school. People were starting to be really nice to me.

Then I switched back to my regular baggy jeans, uggs, and t-shirts. I lost all five of those friends and everyone in my school hated me again.

If I look at someone and meet their eyes, they look very surprised and disgusted, like I'm reminding them this is just high school, it's not the most important ******* thing in the world.

Why do I hate people so much?

I hate stupid guys. Smart, nice ones are okay. Im a lesbian and I was wondering if this could be a reason why.

I want to come out in a couple of months and this is just out of curiousity. I'm 14.

Ever since I was five I've been in love with this one boy. He's sweet, charming, and asexual. I'm okay with that.

I don't show any attraction for guys other than him, but I am totally attracted to other girls. This is really confusing and I know labels don't matter but what the hell is my sexuality?

He's the only thing that makes me doubt the fact that I like girls

I'm a girl.

My friends don't get that I don't like boys I just like girls. They all think I'm bisexual.

My family doesn't know that I like girls

And... That ends my list.

Who am I supposed to talk to?

I'm trying to figure out my sexuality and gender-identity and it's confusing because there's no one else I know who I can talk to

(Also if you are giving out contact info it should be an email)

I'm a lesbian. I want to dress like a boy and cut my hair short. I never wear makeup because it feels wrong.

I want to fit in as a boy. I want to be regarded as a boy while being a girl but no one gets it

This doesn't feel butch it feels different

I read an article that said sex and gender are different

Sex- genitals and biology

Gender- a socially constructed role or something

I feel like this is me:

Sex- female

Gender- male

I do not want to be a boy I just want to fit it.

I guess I'm gender-fluid?

I don't know help!!!

So my family is silent. We rarely talk about anything that has anything to do with sex or stuff.

My mom is really awkward. One of the "talks" came like this:

"You know about... Periods, right?"

My face burned and I said, "Yeah."

I was actually really curious so I paused and then added "Not really. My friend got hers last year."

My mom said "oh. Well, it should be starting soon for you. Basically you bleed every month and you might get some cramping"

That's the longest conversation we've had about anything related to sex.

I realized that I'm a lesbian six months ago. My family doesn't even suspect it (hopefully).

I want to come out to my family not exactly right now but I want to form a plan.

My little sister (she's 9) probably doesn't even know what LGBT even stands for. She probably doesn't know about sex or anything. At least, the details :p

I want to see how she feels about LGBT but I don't know how to bring it up. Suggestions?

In recap:

How do I tell my nine year old sister about LGBT?

How do I tell my family I'm a lesbian (for future reference, by which i mean like a few more months)?

Btw I'm 14

I mean like when do they start real dating, like kissing stuff, not the stupid crappy show off relationships teens have these days.

And I'm just curious about that

We're both girls in high school. I'm a lesbian but I came out as bi. We've been close friends for four years and known each other for ten-ish. She keeps asking how I know I'm sure I'm bi... And saying that I can't tell for sure if I haven't done anything with anyone yet.

But I know I'm a lesbian. I'm bi, until I confirm it though. Guys are not attractive at all and picturing one kissing me makes me disgusted. Girls are so much prettier and softer, and idk I just know.

Why doesn't my friend accept me?

And do you have any suggestions?

I'm a lesbian and she thinks I'm bi. I've had a crush on her for a year and I keep almost crying every time she mentions her latest douchebag crush.

I really want to kiss her but I can't ruin our friendship. So can you please convince me not to kiss her?

What I mean to say is...

Why is cursing so bad?

I mean, it's not the actual word. It's the hate, the meaning behind it.

So why the hell is it so bad