Allison Wellnitz

I'm pansexual, she's bisexual; case in point we both like girls!

We first dated (very briefly) when we were younger. We only fell apart because she was afraid someone would find out and she wasn't outed yet (her house was strictly religious to the point where they'd send her away!) I was going through more of a gothic otaku phase, but I've kind of outgrown that part of my life, and even though I have a lot of feelings for her and we're trying to start dating again, I worry that me outgrowing that part of my life will affect my feelings for her; but she's super amazing and kindhearted and stunning!

How can I relate to her on this level? It means a lot to me.

I'm using a totally layouts GENERATED background, meaning I have the picture selected and everything, but no matter what I do, it's tiled! And yes, I've done the

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It's been years. Everyone around me is dating someone. They have someone. At the beginning of last year I personally swore off relationships because I'll be going to college soon, and if I hadn't had luck by then, it didn't make sense to try and start something, only to get hurt. But now? Now, I'm excessively lonely. I'm becoming depressed to the point where it's effecting my sleep patterns, and being surrounded by cute boys at work does NOT help. I'm seventeen, and there are a bunch of cute, flirtatious boys--but none of them seem interested in me.

And every once in a while, I get this dominating, empty nothingness permeating through every part of me. I'm actually scared it'll consume me one of these days. All I have the energy to do anymore is play on my phone, read tom hiddleston smut, and curl up in a ball.

To be honest, I'm more confused about why I'm single! (okay, wow that sounds conceited...but you get the idea)

I've been guessed (by a general consensus of 9/10 people) to look around 135 lbs.

I'm tall-ish, my skin is mostly clear, good hygiene, never like to wear the same outfit twice in a month, love to read, love singing and dancing, very outgoing, love to laugh at things, very easygoing and bright, love telling stories, although I can occasionally be a bit obnoxious.

And yet, my nickname is "forever alone girl".

2 questions: What am I doing wrong? And what DO guys like in a girl?

Recently, we had the Comprehensive testing at my school. I finished early, and while hanging out with friends, managed to meet a smart, sweet, overall fun guy. We talked, we laughed, and every few days he comes to sit at my table, talk to my friends. Then he walks me a little ways to my class (until he has to turn away) Now, I'm pretty sure he's interested in me, and a friend of his bumped me up in his eyes...

I asked him for his phone number about 2 days ago, and he said he couldn't, as he lost his phone and is getting a new one (and a new number). He said when he does get one, he'll give me it.

Question Time! Does it seem like he likes me, and would it sound pushy to ask him out next week? Our last school dance is coming up fast, and I'd really like to go with him!

(also--the guys at our school literally have NO balls when it comes to asking girls out. We have to do all the work ourselves, so don't judge me for wanting to be the one to ask him! I had to grow some manparts just to survive in this dump)

And, if I do ask him, is this okay? "Hey, you seem really cool and I'd love to get to know you better...did you want to hang out at the dance, and maybe grab some McDonald's or something afterwards?"

(if not, it'd be great to get a little feedback there.)

I've already looked over SammyDress and I love it, but the reviews tell me differently. I'd prefer to stay away from Chinese Wholesalers, but if you have any ideas? I'm going to be a senior and i'd like something my speed (i love pastels, pan collars and girly things) but dressed up a bit....like elegant, but soft. Easy ten points if you know your stuff :)

Last year, I met a boy who was 17 going on 18. At the time, I was 15. We had some laughs, and he helped me throw a tomahawk (we were at a rendezvous!!). Since then, I have liked him, and whenever we chat (on Facebook...) the conversation has almost always turned to "Oh yeah, good thing we're just friends" and then it got really awkward, so we turned in for the night. Well, he's heading to college now, and I just found out that he has liked me the entire time. Funny thing: We've been planning to go to the same college...without realizing it. But due to his own moral code, we can't date until I'm 18...because it would be disrespectful to my family (they're rather strict!). Keep in mind, this is all his thinking...I would have gladly jumped his bones a loooong time ago (I'm not a slut, but it was literally that kind of warmhearted chemistry.) What I'm wondering is if he's doing all this to play me so he can have his fun "college" years, or if he's really doing this out of chemistry? And, as well as that, do you think he's really worth the 2-year wait? Thanks for reading if you did, and thanks x10 for answering!

Okay, I'm not sure how to describe it...I'm weird. I'm quirky. I'm socially awkward. I'm smart enough

to hold political debates with the older generations of my family, and occasionally win. I'm 150 lbs, but you can't really tell (my friends guess me honestly at 120). I'm 16. I'm slightly attractive looking natural and gorgeous with makeup (as described by others, not me ^_^) But...I'm single. And I've been single. Forever. I love action movies and any kind of music with sense and a beat (i.e. rock, some techno, pop, etc?) I like *some* types of anime, and I'm a bit of a gamer. But sadly as well, I lie within the stereotype of girl that likes guys that like sluts...so...

--Am I dateable, or doomed?

--How can I make the guys that I like see me as more than a friend?

And, for the sake of female nerds everywhere:

--Do. Guys. Like. Silly. Girls?

For the past two days my appetite has been minimal and I've had increasing stomach pain around the middle of my stomach, and then I threw up/made myself throw up (to feel better). I ate some weird food (and since the appendix swells in reaction to any infection) and I'm scared I may have appendicitis. Other embarrassing (yet true!) incidents include my inability to poop and then sudden ability to, and a pain centered right underneath the right side of a swollen stomach. please, help me. I'm scared for my life but I need to know for sure because my family's already in debt with Dr. bills and can't afford a fluke.

For the past two days my appetite has been minimal and I've had increasing stomach pain around the middle of my stomach, and then I threw up/made myself throw up (to feel better). I ate some weird food (and since the appendix swells in reaction to any infection) and I'm scared I may have appendicitis. Other embarrassing (yet true!) incidents include my inability to poop and then sudden ability to, and a pain centered right underneath the right side of a swollen stomach. please, help me. I'm scared for my life but I need to know for sure because my family's already in debt with Dr. bills and can't afford a fluke.

I've answered a lot of relationship questions with (hopefully) good answers, but right now...I need help. I'm a tenth grader in high school, and since 7th grade I've had the most impossible crush on this guy. It went on and off, but we never really hung out...until this year. We were working on a project in the library and he started listening to music (through earphones). He looked over at me and said, "You should check this song out! We'll listen at the same time!" But my computer froze, so he let me use his headphones (heck it was an awesome song!). After a while, he motioned for me to sit next to him so he could listen too, and my computer started functioning. Neither of us mentioned that now I could use my headphones, and while he was really close, he looked dead on at me and started mouthing goofy lyrics. I went beet red and laughed really hard, and he started laughing. It was awesome! The next day he asked my friend (who was working there with us that day) if he could sit next to me instead, and after a while he offered me a headphone and we goofed off the rest of the hour. It was amazing! But now...he just told me that he went to see Dark of Shadows, and how do I put it...he wasn't exactly alone. I died totally inside. And they're now dating. I need romantic thoughts gone. (Thanks if you read this!)

Okay, I don't like this guy. His name is Alex. He doesn't respond to me friendzoning him and he keeps asking me out!!! I finally agreed to go get coffee with him, but this is something I really don't want to do. How can I tell him all of this without hurting him?!

Let's call him John. He has been my friend for 3 years now, and we went out casually for a short time. However, he was a bad boy and my parents/friends pressured me into breaking up with him. I know he's had a few bad relationships, (including ones with two of my friends) and he's slept with around 5 girls. How do I know this? We tell each other everything, mostly through jokes. A month ago, I kissed him for the first time, just as another joke. But I had feelings. Unfortunately, I learned that we kissed while he had a girlfriend...and I'm not proud but we made out a few times after that. I told him I didn't want to do that to her and he ignored me for a while, he was probably thinking I'd tell everyone? Lately, though, he's been a different person (this is a good thing) and when I asked him, he said he was sick of looking at his girlfriend and knowing he cheated on her, and he had resolved to stop it, and make something of his life. A few days later he told me that if he was single he'd ask me out (I was thinking about dating someone), and I laughed it off and said I thought I knew him a little too well for that. He smiled and made another joke and we kept walking home.

But...I think I love him. He hurts girls, he's cheated on them, but we've always been close. I was the only girl he ever dated who didn't kiss him, and when I did, it felt so right! I also know him better than any girl, and he almost knows me better than my best friend. So....

1. Do you think he could love me?

2. Do you think he'd hurt me?

3. Should I even let myself love him?

Thanks for your time, especially if you took the time to read all of this.