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My husband will be turning 45 this week and he seems to not be too happy about it and I was wondering how I could make this day a lil more exciting for him...I am 35 and he has recently started cracking jokes about me leaving him for a younger man.We have always joked about our 10 year age difference but here lately he just seems depressed aboout turning another year older.I love him with all my heart and have never though about leaving him for someone younger.We have been together for almost 19 years.Im just wondering why he would all of a sudden start feeling so insecure...Any ideas of what I can do to make his birthday special without him feeling insecure about our age difference...Thanks in advance

My husband and I have been together for 17 years,married 8 years.I went through a point and time to where I didn't want to have sex at all.And now it seems like I just can't get enough.i am always wanting to be with my husband but he seems to care less.He's doesn't get as turned on by me as he used to.I've even tried different things with him but to no avail.Just wondering if he is just getting bored with me or what.He is 43 and I am 33.I try to be affecionate with him all the time and he just doesn't seem to care.As long as we have been together neither one of us has cheated on the other.Do you think its possible that he is cheating or just bored with me?

What is your spouse doing while you are on yahoo right now.Just curious.My husband is watching wrestling. So this keeps me occupied until wrestling is over.

Today is my eighth wedding anniversary and my husband and I have never really celebrated it in the past but I am wanting to do something special for him this evening to surprise him.Any suggestions would be deeply apperciated.

My husband is 43 years old and i am 32 and here recently he started looking at porn and at other women and wanting to do things that we have never done before.Just wondering if this is a sign of midlife crisis.Yes I know most men look at porn but I've never noticed it with my husband before.

My husband and I have been together for a very long time and up until recently he never really looked at porn or other women.But here lately he has been looking it up on the internet and watching it ON DEMAND.My question is why he is just now starting to do these things.He is 43 and I am 32 and most of the women that he is looking up is a lot younger than I am.I feel so ugly and inadequate.We have talked about this and I told him how I feel about it and he said it wouldn't happen again and as far as I know he hasn't done it since.But i was just wondering why he would all of a sudden start doing this.By the way we do have a good relationship.

Is it wrong of me to put parental control locks on the t.v to keep my husband from watching porn.He knows how I feel about porn and he still watches it.So I put a parental lock on it.And he is mad because I wont give him the code.

I have been married for 7 years to a wonderful guy,but I recently found an old boyfriend on classmates and we have been e mailing each other and IMing each other,there is nothing going on except friendship,so should I tell my husband that I am talking to this guy over the computer?

My daughter is in the eighth grade and this past year she has really surprised me with the way she is acting.She has gotten into the gothic scene she was saying that she was emo for a while there.We took care of that,but the other day she made threats to people on her school bus saying that she was going to killl them and rip their hearts out.of course she got written up for this,and the principal called me today and was explaining the things that my daughter wasa saying on the bus.I was really surprised and couoldn't believe that my daughter would say such thins,but they have it on video.And she cannot ride the bus until the principal talks to the higher up in the Board of Education.She was saying that there will possibly be a hearing and that my daughter will probaly have to go to another school that is no where in my area.My daughter doesn't hang out with anyone while away from school,but the principal says that she is hanging out with the wrong crowd at school.

My daughter has to calculate the number of minutes that she has been alive for a school assignment.Does anyone know the steps to take to figure this out?I went to a website and they did the calucalations but didn't name the steps to take to figure it out.Any help would be appreciated.

My husband has a dog {Yorkie} and this dumb dog is constantly going after me if I get too close to my husband.He has bitten me at least 3 times.{He's a small dog,but those bites hurt badly}Anyway this morning I walked near my husband and the dog bit me on the leg ,and my husband done nothing.I told him that he needs to get rid of the dog because he has even went after my children.We got into a big argument about it and I told him before he goes to work he needs to take the dog somewhere else because I no longer want him around.Right now the dog is at his moms house and I'm sure on his way home from work he is going to pick the dog up,but I don't want the dog here.What would you do in my situation.Like I said anytime I go near my husband he goes after me and steps in between us to where we can't be near one another.Is it wrong of me to want him to get rid of the dog?

I am always answering questions from parents with teenagers about the teenager always having an attitude with them and the teen treating them with so little respect,and now I need some help.My two daughters never want to have anything to do with me unless I am doing something for them,and it hurts my feelings so bad,I do everything I can for them but it never seems to be enough.I am a person that rarely gets upset about a whole lot,but as I write this I am crying because I feel as if my daughters dont want to be around me unless I'm doing something for them.They never want to talk to me unless I'm giving something.I try to talk to them and they just look at me like "why are you talking to me".My husband tells me to not do anything extra for them besides parental duties until they learn to treat me with respect.What do you think?

My daughter just started Middle School this year and she is failing gym class because she wont dress out for the class.She says that she don't like getting dressed in front of other people.I told her to just go to the bathroom to dress and she said that they have to stay in the lockeroom to dress out.What can I do?

My 13 year old daughter came in from school today and her arm was really red.i asked her what had happened,and she said that she had been digging her fingernails into her skin.I asked her why she would do that and she said "because I am half emo. {I dont know if that is spelled right}I have never heard of that before ,so I asked her what is half an emo.she said that it is people that like to cut their selves.i ve never heard of it being called emo,Ive always heard it being called cutters.Anyway she said that she has some friends that are emo,and that she is falling into peer pressure but she said that she would never cut her self with anything.But Im worried her going from scratching to actually cutting. Her dad and I sat her down and had a long talk with her about peer pressure.She said that she would never do it again.But Im worried that she may actually end up cutting.Any advice would be appreciated.Sorry this was so long but i wanted to explain everything.Thanks for reading.

My husband holds one side of his nose and blows snot outside or in the toilet instead of blowing his nose with tissue. I've noticed other guys doing this also. But why? It is so nasty. Does your husband or boyfriend do this? I know its gross,but I just had to ask.

The kids are gone to grandmas till tomorrow.My husband is at work until eleven oclock tonight,I dont have many friends so what can I do all day?

My husband works two jobs and I know he is tired but he cant be so tired as not to tell me happy birthday.Normally my feelings dont get hurt like this but i just feel like crying.For some reason I didnt even get the good bye kiss this morning.He also forgot our anniversary last month.What do you think?

There is this guy that knows Im married and he is always making sexual comments and laughs about it.Do you think that he is serious or just playing around. He also knows my husband.