Mrs Lizzard

Is it the week you have your period? or is it the first week following?

This is a long and twisted tale.

My ex has put a PPO on my husband for our 11 yr old daughter. He has made false claims saying my husband is a pervert and trying to touch our daughter. I have witnesed each of the incences he is comlaining about and there was NOTHING wrong with what he did. Showing affection to your stepchild isn't perversion. CPS didn't find anything wrong either. And since he didn't like the answer they gave him he files a PPO.

We of course file for a show cause hearing. The judge di not know why this case was in his coutroom and refered it to FOC. Telling my husband to stay away from her until FOC makes a decision. Apparently in his hurry to retire the judge over looked something.

The PPO was left in effect.The day before we are to appear at FOC for our hearing w/ the reffaree, a cop shows up saying that the PPO was violated because my husband has guns in the house.( reported just hours ago by my ex)

These guns were under lock and key and had we known that the ppo was still in effect,they would not have been there. And I took them out to my cousin's right away. Because we were genuinly confused and the cop was as well, he did not arrest my husband.

NOW my ex is PO'd because the prosecuting attorny has not filed against us, so he takes things into his own hands and files a PPO violation against us.

The oder to appear in court statesthe violation happened in Jan 2008 but there was no PPO in effect in Jan2008 ( but Jan 2009) Also we were told by a friend and an attorny that since the guns were locked up and the key was put away,he was not in possession of them .

We need a copy of the police report, but for some reason it is still open and we cant get it.

How did my ex get a copy? Is there a chance that the date being screwd up in the sworn statment will have this thrown out? Has anyone gotten free of something like this due to the guns being locked up?

And what is the worst case scenario? Is it possible we could only get a fine?

NO meanies Please!

Critique is fine ( constructive criticism to build and grow on is fine)

A LOVE SONG---

He spoke into nothing and brought forth the Light

He whispered a love song and brought forth Life

And all of creation listened and heard the wonderous sound

of God singing a love song and it echoed all around.

When His children cried out to be rescued from wicked hands,

He sent His servant down to bring them out of Egypt land

and teach them how to listen, so they could hear the sound

of God singing a love song that echos all around

Over the ages, time and time again,

we would forget the words so he’d tell us again

Until there came atime, that though the words were written down

the song had no melody, so He sent His Son down.

The sheperds marveled and wondered when they heard the sound

Of God singing a love song that ecoed all around.

A wonderous child grew into a very Godly man

Who sings The Song for everyone and anyone He can

For Jesus knows the melody of The Song lost in the words

and He sang it for anyone who really listened and heard

They followed Him and they delighted in the sound

Of God singing a love song, that echoed all around.

There were some who would not listen they would rather be heard

They would not hear the melody, and refused to hear His words

They closed up thier hearts and stopped up thier ears

They clung to thier vengance and thier fears

They tried to smother out the sound

of God singing a love song that echoed all around

And on to His shoulders, our sins He did bear.

They lead him to the cross, and He took His last breath there.

"Father forgive them! They know not what they do!"

And the thief cried, " Don’t you hear Him? He is praying for you."

As Jesus spent His life; it was a very loud sound,

Of God singing a love song, that echos all around

But that is not the end. Jesus gave us a chance,

To do more than listen, He taught us how to dance!

Father forgive us, and let us lean on you!

Jesus guide us through the steps, as we will sing back to you!

Oh let the faithful gather and marvel at the sound,

of God singing a love song that echos all around

From the stars in the Heavens, to the waters of the deep

From the angels ’round His throne, and to all winthin His reach

Let all Creation join us and rejoice in the sound

of God singing a love song and it echos all around....

Does it Really bother you when believers say they will pray for you? Is ther any real harm being done to you by thier choosing to speak on your behalf to a God you don't believe exists?

Just curious because I am touched deeply when a fellow believer offers to pray with or for me and mine.

And Blees you anyways. : ))

Have you seen the movie "Fireproof"? What did it mean to you? Did it cause you to re-examine your marrige/ relationship? Were you inspired to do the "Love Dare" for yourself?

Personally I think Kirk Cameron still has it.

I am looking for Christians who have taken their Emmaus walk. Looking to connect with others who experienced it for themselves.

I LOVE my husband. and without him with me Heaven could become a very lonely place. Not that i doubt His sincerity or faith but will it really matter there? Will I be so happy that I wont even notice he's missing? Or will I be incomplete. I know Jesus should be enough, but God Gave me this man to love. Would you feel alone in Heaven with out your beloved?

I know there are some radicals out there who get all offended and such. And a few rude monkeys who cant think of intelligent answers to serious questions to save thier lives. Then there are the one who take the seriuos questions for what they sre and give AWESOME answers. Thank You by the way.

This site Rocks!

Serious answers only please.

The Christian Religion is Fraught with so many different Denominations. While it is wonderful to be in a country in which we can worship God after our own fashion the separation of Denominations has caused a lot of friction among Christians. For example...Say a Babtist Church says they are the ONLY way and so Does the Catholic church and the methodist churh and so on and so foeth.

DO OTHER FAITHS HAVE THIS ISSUE. ARE THER"DENOMINATIONS WITHIN THE JEWISH AND ISLAM FAITH?

Ok Iam a Christian. A true believer in the first degree. Yet my mother raised me with the manners not to shove my beliefs down other peoples throats if they are uncomortable with them. I respect other people's beleifs and such. So Why Why WHY am I by simpily being Christian accused of trying to convert Athiests? (ecspecially when I am only defending why I have my faith) And Why are they continuiously trying to shove THIER ideas down MY throat?

Whether we call Him God, Jehovah, Allah or whatever we are talking about the same Creator right? So why do we fight over His name? He is Good, He is King and We all (supposedly) believe in the same essentiall elements of his teachings. Why quibble over fine details that only give us more to argue about? Cant we just accept people as they are and respect thier differences and opinions and styles of worship. I have MY beliefs but to hate some one else because they have a different name over thie door of thier house of worship or because they have another opinion? Isn't Love and Goodwill toward our Neihbors the core of most religons?

She's Marie, ( the nightmare MIL from everybody Loves Raymand) except she lives 100 miles away. ut she calls 3 or 4 times daily. My house is NEVER clean enough when she comes over. And she keeps inerfiring with ther way we are raising the kids. Granted I am thier step mom but my Husb choose me to help him not her. She keeps butting in. My husb has spoken w/ her but she refuses to listen. He says dont call and she shows up on our doorstep, He says I'm right and she mails us clippings from magazines to prove her point. and so on and so forth.

How can we get her to get a life ( her own pefererably) and let us live ours with out depriving the kids of Grandma whom they love?

My step son is only 7 he lives w/ us and sees his mom every other wk. He has gotten out of control! He steals and fights and lies and NOW He is taking swings at his mother!! We have tried everything. When he was caught stealing from the store he laughed at the cop who spoke w/ him!! We've had him in counseling and the pastor is even taken to speaking w/ him. We love him dearly but what do we do to ge this kid to straighten up?

In school he is an angel a favorite with his teacher because he is so willing and quick and his grades are fantastic. He has NO problem there it's just when he comes home he is a MONSTER.

I am not the evil step mom I love him and want whats best for him and I tell himevery day what he means to me & his family. When he isn't being a snot he CAN be a very sweet kid. and funny and obliging.

Does ANYONE have the answer???