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My boyfriend of 4 months (I'm 25, he's 20) just lost his grandfather this morning. I have not met my boyfriend's Grandmother or Grandfather. The wake is tomorrow and the funeral is on Wednesday. I told my boyfriend to let me know what time and where it was being held. He said that he wasn't sure if I should go. He said that he would want me there for him, but out of respect for his grandmother maybe I shouldn't go. He feels like she might not want to meet anyone new when she is not at 100%. I told him that the decision is up to him and that I will support his decision. I feel like I should pay my respects to his family in some way, so I am planning on sending a funeral basket and a sympathy card.

I guess I really just want to know what your thoughts are.

My boyfriend of 4 months (I'm 25, he's 20) just lost his grandfather this morning. I have not met my boyfriend's Grandmother or Grandfather. The wake is tomorrow and the funeral is on Wednesday. I told my boyfriend to let me know what time and where it was being held. He said that he wasn't sure if I should go. He said that he would want me there for him, but out of respect for his grandmother maybe I shouldn't go. He feels like she might not want to meet anyone new when she is not at 100%. I told him that the decision is up to him and that I will support his decision. I feel like I should pay my respects to his family in some way, so I am planning on sending a funeral basket and a sympathy card.

I guess I really just want to know what your thoughts are.

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