Candace

I was talking to her on Facebook and getting pretty excited thinking it would be cool to invite her over to my house so we can drive the 2 hours to a theme park because on Sept 1 is bring a friend free. I was texting in short bursts because I wasn t using the Facebook app and the darn thing was messing up. Short sentences worked easier. So I m excited and she sent a message that said "I do work 😐". Which just threw me off because in my interpretation she was annoyed with me. So I decided ok I ll leave you alone and you ll probably block me now so I ll do it for you so I don t bother you. She came back with "I sent you a message because I see that I was not responding to you as quick as you would like me to. I have a lot going on I m not ignoring you. I am trying to get my car taken care of as well as finding a storage as well as fixing my insurance as well as getting my inspection sticker as well as trying to pack everything in two days!!! For you to delete me just because was not ok. This is exactly why I would rather not stay in contact with my dad s side. I have alot on my plate right now. But I wish you the best. Have a great day. It was nice to hear from you even if it was for a minute and you act this way." I never once felt like she was ignoring me. But why couldn t she have said that instead of "I do work". I did tell her that I was sorry and if she needed help let me know. We have never done anything to her or her parents. So why she thinks that we do is beyond me.

I work for a non profit that deals with volunteers. These volunteers will be here Friday they are coming from a construction company. I suggested we take initiative and split them Between the two houses we are working on by saying "ok you ten in that house you ten I that one" I was shot down by two colleagues saying the volunteers were adults they can split themselves. Only I think it better to show we are leaders and to split them. I hope you understand. Was it a bad idea? In my experience you need to instruct the volunteers not just let them do what they want.

I interviewed at a company for an environmental science job. Unfortunately I was not chosen for that job. A few months later I decided to contact one of the hiring managers for advice on interviewing because it seemed we had a connection. Anyway I think he liked me for some reason. He responded that there was a job opening that he thought I could fulfill. So I applied and was phone screened by HR. He informed me of the position around Memorial Day. I was contacted by HR about a week later. It has now been a month since then and he hasn t received updates. What should I tell him to let him know that I am probably out of the running. I did email HR but no response. Do I say anything to him or just not bother? Because it looks like they re pursuing other candidates.

I am trying to locate an inmate who was transferred from Kansas to another state. I've checked the national sex offender registry but it shows old info and of the Kansas info. Where would they send a former Kansas cop convicted of sex crimes to? I need peace of mind.

I keep wanting to ask this guy this question because I don't want him to think I'm dumb and doesn't know he talking to other girls. Is it ok to ask him so how many other girls are you talking to I don't want to be disillusioned?

Whenever I go out with a guy I always seem to want to kiss them on the first date and it always leads to one of two things.......either I end up having sex where I hate myself after or the guy supposedly wants to go out again only to ignore thus he was never interested. How do I get myself to stop and think before such actions and to see ahead of time he's not interested?

We started out as friends. I fell in love, we were intimate.

I want a song that helps me to know that everything will work out in the end. Love etc

It's not that I don't like the answers it's just that I don't want to see it anymore.

I was looking through Okcupid and saw this guy who I might be interested in meeting but I'm wondering what his profile means when he says "I'm divorced. Age 37. Rebuilding my life and looking for new friends."

Mainly the friends part.

My best friend told me that he could tell I was loving. That I put him first. And how he never had that before. I don't understand what he means. He was married before but is now divorced. I would think they loved each other at one time to want to marry.

My best friend was sent to jail but he's innocent. They gave him only 32 months. 2 years and some change. I don't like it but it could've been 68 months. 5 years. They're appealing. I know he would tell me that I need to be independent not codependent. That I am strong. I love him with all my heart. I want to be with him and could care less what people think. I've done that all my life and with his help I've been getting better at not caring what they might think. He makes me laugh and is the only man who likes me for me. He told me that he could tell I'm a loving person. That he never had that before. He was never put first before. I think he loves me. Maybe not the same kind I do but he still loves me. All I see is him. People say don't put all your eggs into one basket. I say if I can't have him I won't have anyone because it's not him. I could care less if there's someone who supposedly might be the same. It's not him. I want what he's got. So why is it that everyone always wants me to keep my options open? He's my first and last love. I'm not the type of woman who dates men then after only a few months I break it off. I'm more old fashioned in that once I love someone I'm totally exclusive.

Hes going through a tough time. What can i tell him to help him?

I went on a camping trip with a geology class. They at one point left me in the desert for about three hours at night. It was dark no cell service and my radio was in the truck the professor left in when he rushed to take a hurt person to the hospital. Turns out he had enough time to go back to the cabin for some documents. I feel bad for the hurt person but the panic that ensued was ridiculous. Mistakes were made like forgetting me. I was kicked out of the professors truck. Needed the restroom so went to go use it. We were still waiting on a couple people to get back. I thought i had enough time to go then get back but apparently as soon as those were back they all jumped in the vans and left. I watched as they were drove away in the distance. I didnt feel comfortable in the death valley by myself so i started walking. Now the professor is putting the majority of the blame on me when i dont think it was my fault. What do yall think?

Anytime i voice my wants desires and opinions to my guy best friend i always think im gonna say something that will cause him to stop being friends with me. Why and how can i stop? Im ruining our relationship.