Chiemiko

Okay, so I think my friend is perfect. She is not exactly what you would call hot but she is super duper cute and pretty, exactly like a porcelain doll. Like exactly, she really is zoo cute and really delicate. She is a concert pianist, really good soccer player(although she is kind of clumsy at other sports. But she is really cute when she is clumsy). She was voted most artistic and is popular on a website called deviant art. She also plays the flute, skipped a grade(and still manages to get As) she is part of every club and is a devote Christian.

With others she is cute and social able, she has many friends and laughs all the time. Like seriously All the time.

The only flaw I could think of is that at home she has abusive parents and cries a lot to me. In school she is genuinely happy because everyone is nice to her, but she is really depressed once she heads home. Her sole purpose in life at the moment is to convert her parents into Christianity. But sometimes I worry for her because she considered suicide before. She aspires to get into an ivy league school, and is very smart. She is humble and insecure(she is often told she is worthless at home) and doesn't believe others when they compliment her.

Okay, so I think my friend is perfect. She is not exactly what you would call hot but she is super duper cute and pretty, exactly like a porcelain doll. Like exactly, she really is zoo cute and really delicate. She is a concert pianist, really good soccer player(although she is kind of clumsy at other sports. But she is really cute when she is clumsy). She was voted most artistic and is popular on a website called deviant art. She also plays the flute, skipped a grade(and still manages to get As) she is part of every club and is a devote Christian.

With others she is cute and social able, she has many friends and laughs all the time. Like seriously All the time.

The only flaw I could think of is that at home she has abusive parents and cries a lot to me. In school she is genuinely happy because everyone is nice to her, but she is really depressed once she heads home. Her sole purpose in life at the moment is to convert her parents into Christianity. But sometimes I worry for her because she considered suicide before. She aspires to get into an ivy league school, and is very smart. She is humble and insecure(she is often told she is worthless at home) and doesn't believe others when they compliment her.

So the problem is that she complains to me that she never had a boyfriend and guys won't approach her. I have often seen guys crushing on her and describing her as perfect and good at everything(nobody knows her home situation but me), but so far nobody has asked her out or has approached her. I am certain that many guys like her but why? Is she too perfect.

Note: This is NOT me, I just want my friend to be happy.

I know there are nice guys out there, and this is not your typical annoying girl question.

Why do most guys cheat anyways? in ancient times often the Husband would only use the Wife for marriage purposes, then go off to cheat on his wife with multiple mistresses. In Ancient China many men had multiple wives / Concubines, and the wife was often not loved. Why is there so many more reportings of guys cheating than girls cheating?

Personally I have dated ever before. Partially it is because I am somewhat young, but I am not unattractable. Many guys have liked me, but I have turned them all down, even if I had liked them. I think I have trust issues with guys becauseI never seem to trust them even though some of them are nice. ( I am a good analyzer of character) . No, I do not like douche bags, in fact the guy I like is completely the opposite. I usually like guys who can support themselves in the future, and are really smart. Not the straight A kind of smart, but the Ihave skipped two grades type of smart. Or the I have been accepted into the national Math team smart. I like guys who have multiple talents, and can play an instrument at a concert level. Otherwise if hehasa mildly good personality on the inside, I start liking him. I know that those types of characters usually do not cheat, but I still have a distrusting guys anyways?

I guess I like those type of guys because, I, myself is like that too, so I hope I am not too selective for my type of guys.

How do I trust boys more, so I can finally allow myself to settle down with a boyfriend?

Just wondering....

The prince name is zen

the girl has abrnormal red hair and a prince wants her to be his concubine

she cuts her hair and runs to the neighboring country where she meets prince zen

it takes place in medeval times??(im not so sure about that one..)

What is this manga??I forgot I think it started with an A, list things that fit the description or are simillar

I just finished it and the book ended rather awkwardly.

I guess I don't really get Katniss, She loves Gale for most part of the book Starts to like Peeta and Gale. Then just ends with Peeta. I guess I could sympathize with her because Peeta went through all the events with her and knows how she feels.

But Gale just drops her after all that time? I understand the plot and why this happened. But I am a little dissatisfied.

Your opinions??

I am usually very passive when it comes to most situations.

From when I was little I learned to give everything to my younger sister(i'm the 'older sibling')

so when i really really liked this boy and i found out he liked someone else i helped him get together with that girl(yes i really did like him)and that girl back-trashes me

a lot of similar things happened to me like that

then whenever someone takes something that is mine i just let them

or whenever someone hates me i convince myself that i did something wrong, its not their fault.

i can never hold a grudge

I always try to be optimistic at times when people are like this

so I've been noticing a lot of boys have been nice to me and flirt so far i kinda know 5-6 boys like me.

I don't really get it because im extremely shy and have a warped personality

whenever i pass by the hallways the older students would be like "aww isn't that the cutest thing ever" (it kinda pisses me off)I wear no makeup but i still look like an Asian net idol, i look a year younger than my actual age. My body is somewhat average, a little on the skinny side.though my thighs are really chuby(soccer muscles)

i look like this(sorry against my policies to take a pic of myself) http://u2.popcornfor2.com/show/b7S255e0.%E2%80%A6

a little bit less pale and slightly smaller eyes, but my skin is as pale as an average white person.

i am clumsy, and mess up a lot, sometimes i find myself in a lot of embarrassing situations. I am horrible at sports, only good at soccer and swimming (because i like it)

Im your typical asian

-i am smart(well at least the teachers keep on pushing me to stop making silly mistakes on tests so i can skip a grade ex: like bubbling the answer in the wrong space)

- i am good at piano (started from four) i won several competitions, and is advanced for my age though i'm not exactly the best player out there

-same applies for flute

- for drawing i am more confident in i won many competitions i am much more advanced then my age, i usually get complimented more for this one( though i still think im bad)

-i am kinda good at cooking(i practice with my mom a lot)...at least the home ec. teacher likes me a lot

(i probably wouldn't gain these talents if my parents never urged me to practice)

but i have a lot of bad points

i learn quickly, but my stamina is super low and it takes me forever to start something, I can give upon the slightest thing ever

I am good at academics, but since I don't like it takes me forever to start.

My parents trained me for everything since i was young, i can do anything i want to because my concentration level is high, so i tend to learn quicker. I liked soccer and swimming at one point, so i am good at those sports, but in gym i fail the majority of what we learn (i never liked sports) and lack the stamina to improve on it, i am also very clumsy my ankles and feet are tiny but as mentioned before my thighs are huge( my friends keep on saying its muscle, but it still looks like im fat)

i have a skinny waist bigger then average chest skinny arms, but muscular upper part of the arm (swimming)

i do as i go i avoid doing what i don't like and procrastinate till the last moment.

i am the kind of person who hides in a corner, but is bubbly and fun when opened up to.

i don't really have friends because i moved this year, but boys keep on talking to me while the girls are ignoring me

i am not like the rest of the girls, i really don't care about clothes makeup, looks, or boys(well for boys i'm starting to gain an interest =.= hormones) im kinda boyish and has a sense of dark humor, but i have the lowest self esteem ever.

When i usually get yelled at i always tell myself its okay its my fault, ill make my self better next time, but i can't help compare my self to other kids, and their families.

-i get yelled at because i'm not in the highest advanced classes(you can skip grade per subject)

-even though i try i always get yelled at because i'm doing it wrong

-first my mom is yelling at me because i waste her time, i'm a piece of garbage, because i make her cook, why cant i cook myself. When i cook i waste her 'resources' by accidentally dropping a egg.I am reminded for days about that incident.

- i got a 99 on my GPA, then my parents yelled at me even though i tried my hardest, they say if that is the extent of my abilities then i deserve to live in garbage, i don't deserve to have food, because i can only do that much. "only 17 out of 100 can get into college"

-though she knows nothing about other students, she yells EVERYBODY gets better grades than you, you only compare yourself to the worst people in the grade, you useless freak

- i usually have to fight to use the computer for my homework, because 'i don't deserve to use their things, or live in their house'

-the only presents i get is to live in their house (yeah like they are giving it to me) food, and water. When i compare myself to others, i say they always get something. she just yells at me and says "then go live with them then, i don't need you"

-my 'play time' is the piano and any other extra activities they make me do

-i have to do so much of their extra math, then they yell at me because i never help with the family (chores etc), so when my grade drops when i help, they yell at me too

-i get yelled at for my grade, for something MY MOM went through my room and tore it apart then threw it in the garbage, because it was on the ground

. apparently it was my fault for not getting it out of the garbage

(there are more but i don't want to bore you, you get the pattern, right)

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its not child abuse anymore, because i prevent them from hitting me sooo...

-my mom favors my sister more than me just because. 'i wasted more money on her' she says, for all the activities i didn't want to do.

-my friend says its my fault for not being as good as my mom expects me to, "then don't do it then" even though i know she cant do it myself

How should i deal with this. Is it my fault?? Usually the worst part is that i forget all my pain after a fight, so i open up again, and usually just smile and say its my fault. I never learn from my pain, so i get yelled at again. But after a few minutes i remember the situation, but forget the pain like nothing ever happened.

(i might regret putting this up, so please answer)...wow this is long

Many people call me cute, which is annoying because they treat me like a little kid, I can be considered a natural beauty in a sense, but its annoying when i have to explain to a person i don't wear makeup and convince them over and over again. Should I wear makeup, because recently ive been nagged about 'wearing too much makeup, and being fake' because apparently I look like one of those dolled up cute-ish asians.

Just state your opinion

I prefer romance/comedy but I really don't mind.....If you have any good comedy animes then please list them too

My List

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Inuyasha

Ranma 1/2

Ouran Highschool Host Club

Gauken Alice

Vampire Knight

Kaichou wa maid Sama

Pandora Hearts

Special A

Shugo Chara

Hana-saku Iroha

Chihayafuru

Yumeiro Patessiere

Saiunkoku Monogatari

La Corda D'oro

Neo Angelique Abyss

Love Hina

Skip Beat

Pretear

Kirarin Revolution

DN Angel

Uta no Prince sama maji 1000%

Full Moon Wo Sagashite

Earl and Fairy

CLANNAD

The Wall Flower

Tokyo Mew Mew (was okay)

Zero no Tsukaima

Peach Girl (stoped in the middle)

Funny Animes (kinda)

Hetalia

Pani Poni Dash

Lucky Star

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Thats about it, any sugestions?? @(^O^)@