JR

Ok, so my fieoncee and I are getting married in June on the beach in North Carolina. We are only having the minister, his wife and our kids there. (I have 2, she has 1) we did not want to have a big specticle of a wedding, so we are inviting no one else. This is how we both want it. She seems to think that I am just going along with what she wants, although it sounds just perfect to me. She would like me to add something to the ceremony.

So heres my question - What would you add to a ceremony like this when you think it is exactly what you would want?

When we split, my ex wanted us to live like we never had a relationship. Yesterday (Valentine's day) she sent me a friend request on facebook. She did this knowing that I was out of town with my fieoncee. She has also enrolled in classes that I amm taking for continueing education.

Question is What should I do? Leave it alone or let her know to back off?

BTW - I ignored the FB invite, and I will not add her to my friends list. This seems all too high schoolish, and we are in our late 30's.

Where can I find the actual law that defines NCLB?

We are getting married in June and have started having sleepovers with our kids in order to get them used to the idea of our new family. We have not shared a bed while we have had the kids with us. When is it ok for she and I to sleep in the bed together with the kids in the house? Should we wait until the wedding, or is it ok now?

I want to do something really special for my fiance. We have had a tough month or so (both dealing with ex-spouses, kids, and work issues). These problems had been affecting our relationship. we are now back to normal, and I want to do something she will never forget. any ideas?

This is not a Valentines Day thing, we have that covered.

I am getting mixed signals from my fiance. we set a date, and it is five months from now. We talk about the details (where, what to wear, etc.) and all is fine, But when we really get into the fine details about the actual committment for the date she wigs out and pulls away. Anyone have any insight?