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I have been feeling isolated and alone at my college. I am a Senior and i feel that in the past year everything has come down on my shoulders. I have realised that many of the "friends" that i have made turned out to be flakey, two-faced people who treat me like i don't exist. My only real Friend i have has moved to another school. We still keep in touch but it is obviously not the same as her being here to support me. I am a Christian and i was apart of a supportive church group that would reachmembers ask members how they were feeling and help them out.Unfortunately many of the church memebers moved away and now the church is now left with people who don't even acknowledge me as a person and often exclude me from their conversations. I try to talk to thconversationive, upbeat manner but they seem to just tune out what i am saying, allow someoelse to intterupt,or try to dominate the conversation.because am also outgrown the "high school" mentality of many of the students at the school may be one reason whdilemma ignore me becuase i act more like an adult than them and choose to respect people and be nice to peopole. This is my main dilema and i do not know what i should do next. I feel as though i am trapped at the school and alone with no one to help me out. I pray and call out to god everyday but this cannot help me get out of school. Has anybody else expirienced this at one point in there life and what can a do or who can i seek?

I am a good student and doing well in school but i am starting to feel like i don't exist and my grades are all in vain

I have been at Penn State for 3 years. I am a Junior and i am involbed in a few Clubs and i go to a chruch. I am not as social as most students but i get along with evryone. I have noticed however, that i don't have any real friends in any of these activiities. They speak to me when they see me in the club ir at Church butt hey bbaely talk to me when i see them outdie of th club or sometimes thye completly ignore me. On the postive side i have found a real friend at college and she is pretty much the love of my life. There is one big difference though, She is a college drop out. Despite that, she always talks to mw when i see her in public, one of the very few people that talks to me on facebook, she actually listens to what i say and she even gave me a card on my birthday, something that my so called friends in college did not even acknowlege my birthday. I starte dto wonder why the only real friend i have made so far does not even go to college while i am surrounded hundreds of students inc lubs and activivities and i have not made one real friend in college. Does any body have any idea why this might be or how can i resolve this Isuue.

Hello! I am a 20 year old college student currently trying to find a part time job. I have applied for over 5 part-time jibs that were looking for help and i have not heard back from any of them through phone calls or via email. I was starting to thing that maybe it is my resume or maybe i am answering questions application questionnaires in the wrong matter. If anybody has any tips of how to write a proper resume or what to answer n the job applications i would gladly read them. I need help in the following areas

1. References information (i.e. location, phone number etc.)

2. How to answer ires (i.e. attitude, previous experienceience, social skills)

3.Resume format

I am a good person. i dont have any explicit photoInternetents on facebook or Myspace or any other internet media. Any help further tips would be further appreciated.

I got to Penn State University. I am aware that it is a bog campus but i am a sophmore and have still not met any real friends. I didn;t mke any freinds in high school and when i came here i thought everything would change. I am sad to sy that i was wrong and infact i realized how lonely i am and every weekend while al the fun parties are going on, i am never invited and all i do is sit around by myself. I find it ridiculous. Modt of my so called "friends" on;y talk to me when they need or want something and they never listen when i talk to exspress my opiions. i really dont care about people i say hi to because most of them are just aquantences that only know me by name and sometimes i just walk on by wihotut saying anything. I really need some real decent advice on how to handle this situation and if i should transfer to another place or not?

Ok so i met this girl about 3 months ago and i have fallen in love with her. Although we dont really see each other that much she shows me alot of love and has compassion for people. I have decied that i would like to ask he out but here are some obstraining factors:

1. Since i just met her only 3 months ago, i dont really know her that personally as far as her personal expiriences with datin and then in general about other interets.

2. I am nervous that i might move to fast, which has happened in the past and girks get nervous around me and kinda run away from me. I also dont want to move to slow because she does have a crush on another guy and i am afriad that i will be to late

3. Our schedules are busy and i am in college so i can only see her about once a week.

aside from those factors she seems to really like me and i am a good mannered, decent looking guy that would appreciate her no matter what.

what should i do?

I have taken peoples advice about making new friends at college. I have met new people but it seems that they just dont appeciat me an often exclude me or forget that i am there. Even wheni speak up i fell no one is listening. I have "friends" on facebook but no ever writes me unless i write them. I have stopped making negativeaout how lonely i am and started saying pleasent thngs and still no ever comments or even asks how i am doing. I joined a church but peopled in tyhe church are worse than people outside if the church. I am starting to wonder if it is me not being a good friend or maybe i am just making friends inbad areas. I am a collegestudent at Penn State where lots of students go and i still feel lonely. I am not as motiated to even do my academics because i have been in theis same state for years. Is it me that is causing people t reject me or is it them? any advice?

I need advice on finding true friends. Ever since middle school i have been let down by fake friends who were flaky and phony and only wanted me around when they needed something. I am 20 and in college and still have the same problem. I try to be friendly and show myself friendly towards people and am curtious and people still act just as the kids did in middle school. I have joined facebook and all that junk and so far the "friends" i have added dont even talk to me unless i say something negative. I have joined a religious group but people are still the same. All i really want now is one real friend or a girlfirnd to spend time with so i wont feel so lonely.How can i find a true friend with so many fake people i encounter in my life? any advice?

I am a college student and i am wondering why people seem to not like me. I am a nice quiet person and try to be helpful to everybody but people just seem to not want to be around me. People only treat me nice when they want soomething but other thn that i am always alone. People tend to treat me like i am metally chllenged or like i am ignorant. I am very smart indiviual and i am not mentally challenged at all yet i get disrespected by people i know and even "church" people and people act phony around me. can someone give me any advice to overcome all this situation.

I am a freshmen at Penn State. I previously asked a question stating a similar topic. I have become more acquiented with uppeerclassmen and so far i hav ebeen invited to parties and have been complimented by any of these upperclassmen(mainly the ladies lol) where as alast semester i barely had any true freind sthat were freshmen ans the few who i became acquaned with treated me as if i was stupid or talked about me negatively. This past semester has been an improve ment as i have met upperclassmen but now i have a different question. Should i continue to exclusively make friends with hese older studens grades and try to avoid people in my own year? or what?

I am a nice person. i am not rude, mean or stuck up and yet people act very two faced around me. I notice this behavior whenever i make friends with some freshman at my college. I spent time talking to them one day and then whenever i see them and they are not doing anything, they either ignorre my presense, talk about me, just say a cold "hi" and keep walking as if they dont want to talk to me or act like i am stupid. I am getting tired of this and i am wondering why peole would act in such a manner.

I am a college freshman student at Penn State. i have noticed a lot of the students, (especially the freshman) are very me and each other. I am a good person and i try to do things for others such as holding doors or giving people lost items but i rarely or sometimes never hear any thank you or any their appreciation, i sometimes get ignored or sneered at. I do not do anything and i am a quiet person who just tries to mind his own business. while i do have a social problem, people still tend to ignore me, isolate me and act very weird around me. I am not sure what to do. i am thinking the only solution is to act in the same manner they act and just become a real asshole to everyone and stop doing favors. WHat do you think i should do?

I have always wondered why whenever i meet a girl i like, I always am most attracted to her feet. Ever since i was small i have been attracted to a women's feet when watcing TV or in the summertime. I know abot foot fetishes and i think i may have one. Here is the thing thogh. I do not want to take this fetish to far and become a weirdo. I really dont know how this thing developed but if anyone can tell me why people become attracted to feet and also tell me how to not let it go to far if i cant get rid of it.

Every year we make resoluions and by the end of march we have forgtten them. I just wanted to ask a question about at least one resolution thatyou will stick to this year. My main resolution is to learn how to treat women properly. what is one (if any you will stick to)

Hello, i am getting worried about my friend getting into deep trouble. My friend likes to take pictures of girls feet(dont ask me why i dont know) he spends most of his idle time standing by girls who are wearing sandals and takes pictures of their feet with his camera phone. I really have no problem with this but i have heard form him he has gotten caught a few times and different things have happened. He tells me sometimes the firl just pays him no mind, other times they move away from him, but many times they think since he is a guy, he is taking pictures of their faces and have either told a teacher or the authorities. We arre both in college and he is 18. i tell him to stop doing it because even though it is only feet, he can still be busted since they do not know what he is taking them for. I dont know why he takes those pictures but all i know is he needs to stop doing it as and everyday habbit. what should i say or do to keep him out of trouble?

It has been a while since i Have h d a real girlfreind. I was 10 when i had my first girlfriend. We were good togetrher untill she moved and since then i have not had a real girlfriend. I am 19 now and i have basically flirted, danced, and kissed girls and sex but have yet to find an actual girfriend, I tried online ating but it failed miserably. I need some advice on how to talk to a girl first to get her interested in me and then how to inintiate asking her to be my girlfriend. I try it on my own but they usually say they are not ready or i am too imatture or something like that. Any advice?

I am having trouble conversation with people. I am a college student and i need to learn how to conver sate with people since in high school and middle school i stayed to myself since i had people that did not like me and ignored me. Now that i am in a new place i need to learn how to start a conversation and how to keep people conversation with me and invite me to places and not forget about me. I try to do it but sometime si either come on to strong or am called creepy. Can someone give me advice or tips on conversation and what to do and what not to do.

I often hear my friends and other people(especially women) complain about how much their feet hurt or how annoying it is to wear them or how dirty their feet get from wearing flip flops. But regardless i see my friends wear them day in and day out and still complain aboout their feet. I have no problem with flip flops but i just want to know why people complain so much about them yet love to wear them?

Hello i need help with cling issues. I always seem to become possesive with friends and always seem to be in their faces alot or Im them everytime they log on to a IM apllication. People have told me they like being my friend but they tell me i get in their personal space or that i am starting to follow them. I really am not a bad perosn, i have had bad sitautins in the past where people would often pretend to be my friends and then pretend to ignore me and i becamse very upset and was constantly in their face asking them why they were ignoring me, I need to get over it but i need help. Any advice on how to become more independent and not bug my froends so much!

all answers are appreciated!

I was just wanted to see how many of you would ever date someone or get marriewd to someone that was either older than you or younger than you. and please specify why you would do so. thank you.

Since i have always dated girls that were older than me, i must say that i enjoy dating older girls because they are more mature and sexier than ones my age or younger.

I am an 18 year old male looking for a girl 18-25 years old. what websites that actually work would be best for me?