darknangelic77

At the beginning of this summer, my sister hooked up with a guy that she had been friends with for a number of years...about 10. He lived in Atlanta, she in Ohio, after a few drives down there to visit with him, they decided to see each other exclusively. My sister has a really good job, so she paid most of the expenses for him to come out here. There were signs that something was wrong with him almost immediately, he drank heavily, he suddenly became verbally abusive. My sister was so confused by all of it, I mean this is a man she thought she had known for years! He had family in Maryland and wanted to go there stating that he just could not survive in Ohio, but before he left, they found out she was pregnant. He left her anyway. Now he doesn't respond to any of her calls or text. Why do some men do this to women? She really cared for him. How can he just abandon her this way??

What does an independant, beautiful, creative,strong,hardworking young woman have to do to find a man with all the same? I'm not lonely but I may be a little picky.

Hey! Man where do I begin?! Well to start I have a 4 year old. Last year her father and I got divorced which was pretty rough. We had split custody so he would get her certain days of the week and I would have certain days and so fourth and so on...

I began to grow concerned when she would come over and her private area would be all red and agitated, it had never been an issue when we were all living together. She always had her hands in her pants, and she always complained that it itched down there or it hurt. I would usually just bath her and use diaper rash ointment and by the time it was time for her to leave it would be cleared up. It got so bad though that we got into a few arguments...I mean really it pissed me off because she would only be with him for 4 days and she would come back looking like she had some month old rash. When I would ask him about it he would always act surprised like he had no idea she had the rash! When I asked him if the women at her daycare had noticed of course, they never had...he was usually the one taking her to daycare because the daycare is on an Airforce base where he works. Our daughter was potty training at the time and I know that at those stages if they don't wipe properly it can cause rashes...so I tried to work with her dad and teach him how to care for her down there. Despite all of that though it still continued until I started to keep her longer and even threatend to not let her go at all if he wasn't capable of proper hygiene techniques!

But then I started to notice that she was doing strange things...like trying to tongue kiss me or my oldest son, or trying to pull her brother's pants down..boxers and all, while yelling at him that he was her "boyfriend". I talked to her father about it and he would say that she watches too much television.

I ended up leavng the state where I was staying because I lost my job and found another out of state. So in August I moved and left my daughter there with her dad because the joint custody didn't allow me to taker her with me at that time. I just recently got my daughter this weekend. So I'm hanging out with her and ex-husband at their house...and my daughter pretends to whisper in her dad's ear playfully, but of course I can hear her....she says..." We're going to get naked and we're going to kiss". The pit of my stomach just dropped. I asked here what she said and she repeated it aloud but she didn't seem to think it was as funny when she was telling it to me...her dad gave me this confused but kind of embarressed look before telling her that she was acting inappropriately.I don't want to think it's happening, but is it posible that my ex- husband is molesting our little girl?

I'm sorry, but I have noticed that there are alot of questions, primarily from women, who ask "does he like me? " questions that are in my opinion really self- explanatory, I mean what has happened to women of this century when you can't even tell that a guy likes you when he wants to cuddle? or if he wants to hold hands? How do you not know if he likes you or not?

It's almost as if women nowadays can't read body-languauge.

Am I the only one who thinks that the young women of this society have an underdeveloped sense of relationships and intimacy, and what is attributed to it?

I was just wondering if there were any people out there who have built meaningful relationships with people that they have met on websites like myspace.

He is obviously asking to get a rise out of people. If you guys want him to stop asking stupid questions...stop answering them, what other choice would he have but to stop if no one responded?

Over the last few days, I have read several so many different statements reguarding black americans, and africans. People seem mighty concerned about whether or not Egyptians, Somalians and other African cultures are considered "black". What I want to know is if being "black" has nothing to do with the color of your skin, then what defines someone as "black" ?

The seperation was pretty painful, I mean I know this is just my perception but he was a real jerk during the whole thing. I tried repeatedly to get him to reconcile and now, not even a month after the divorce has been finalized he wants to try again? I'm sure that I love him but I feel pretty numb... I had finally accepted moving on. The thing that sucked about the whole thing from the get go is that he didn't want to divorce me because I cheated, or was unbearable to live with...not because he didn't love me anymore, not even because he was cheating ( not 100% sure, but pretty certain),..he wanted a divorce because we argued...alot. But we were going through some stressful times, we had just gotten into a new home, we both had new jobs ( we're both prior military) and we were in the process of a custody battle over my two older children from a previous relationship. I know we had alot on our plate, but did that give him the right to just leave me?

2gether 6 yrs, married 6 mos.