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Please please help me, I can't figure it out. Is the stud supposed to screw or is the ball end supposed to?! It hurts when I yank on it (DUH) but I don't know what to do. This is my first piercing, so I'm absolutely clueless. If there's any videos you could show me or just steps to follow that'd be awesome! Everything I look up just talks about the nose bone thing but I know I don't have that. I know the piercer twisted the thing on, he just didn't show me how to take it out. :( Thanks guys!!!!!

I'm a senior in high school, and I'm so confused about what school to go to. My only preferences is that the college needs to be public and in Oregon.

Hello everyone this might be a long one.

Okay so my boyfriend and I have always had a rock solid foundation. We have always been crazy about each other and things may not have always been perfect, but we have made it through many obstacles and have become stronger from them. Recently he left for a week to a youth group camp with his best friend, which sucked because it's hard to be away from someone you're so used to seeing. And the day after they got back we hung out and he seemed distant, either texting on his phone or mostly talking to his friend rather than me, which isn't very normal for him. That night I talked to him about it and he apologized for being distant that it was just because he's tired. Which is fine. The next day I left for four days to Washington to visit my brother and then all the issues came.

He told me on the first night that when I got back, he had stuff to talk about. When I asked him about what he needed to talk about, he said it would just be easier in person. This, naturally, made me start to worry. I tried to shake it off but I knew something was up. So the next couple days were hell because I was curious and kept asking him questions and then he just got more upset every time I asked. The day I was heading home we got in the biggest fight and he finally told me what was bothering him. He said that he realized that he needed to follow God more and live his life for him. Which is fine, so I asked what the problem was. And he said the problem is that I'm not very church oriented and that he need to see whether he was happier with or without me, and that God needed to come before everything else. He got in a heated argument, but he eventually calmed down and everything seemed to be okay and that we worked things out.

But we didn't. Now I've been back from my trip for 2 days and we haven't made any plans to see each other, and he told me he needed space to think about everything. He says that he still loves me but I feel like he doesn't even care about how I feel about anything. I'm trying to be supportive but I'm so mad at him for ignoring me that I just want to punch him. We're not even on an official break because he asked me when we should start it. Every time he does answer my texts he only gives me short replies without any interest.

I know I was pushy and I apologized, and he said he was sorry for hurting me, but he is just handling this situation differently than he has in the past. When I talked to my mom about it, she thinks that he might have found someone else at the church camp, but he's the kind of person that would be straightforward with me about it.

Please help me out, I feel so hopeless and I don't even know where to begin to even try to convince that we should be together. Or if I should even have to convince him. We were fine before he left... And now I'm just blindsided that now everything has gone horrible. I love him very much... But I'm unsure if he even feels the same.

Thank you for reading this guys, please give me some helpful input.

I e-mail with this guy, and our e-mail conversations are always boring, so how could I make them more interesting? I'm not even sure if he likes me :[[[

I'm asian, but I'm only a 4th, so I'm pale/yellow. What can I do to get tan? I want a real tan, not the spray-on stuff. What methods could I use? I've tried to lay out in the sun, but all I get is sunburnt and then I only get an itsy bit darker. PLZ HELP!