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We have been together almost 2 yrs and we have consistently talked about getting married. I am 31 and he is 35. Some days I am Sure other days I am not. The #1 reason is that we have completely differ.religious beliefs. I do not actively practice but my entire fam is baptist. His religion is sim. to 7th day adventist. Goes to worship 8-1230am on fri. and 2-8p on sat, this is the main conflict because it takes up most of the weekend. Our time is already limited w/the kids, (my 1 and his 2). Then we both work. He WILL NOT miss it for nothing but instead wants me to go with him and I do not want too because I do not care to be around his sisters for that period of time, also those are not my religious beliefs. So my son and I or when my son is gone, are left to do our own thing and it SUCKS! It esp. sucks when my son is gone Im left alone and want to spend time w/ him. Do you think this type of relationship is workable? Also he does not celebrate holidays xmas, easter, or halloween. I did growing up. Is this too much to compromise? I need to make a decision soon whether to stay or go. Other than his needy family members those are the only issues we have. He is a really great guy dependable, loyal, etc etc. but Are lifesyles are SOO diff. I dont know if it can work. It seems like I have to do all the compromising. Im not sure if I want to live a separate lifestyle as my husband. I also believe that him going to worship and me going to do what he calls"unholy" on the sabbath day is going to cause problems in the future. He said it wouldn't but IDK about that. I personally believe he could miss a day on special occasions but who am I to judge

We have been together almost 2 yrs and we have consistently talked about getting married. I am 31 and he is 35. Some days I am Sure other days I am not. The #1 reason is that we have completely differ.religious beliefs. I do not actively practice but my entire fam is baptist. His religion is sim. to 7th day adventist. Goes to worship 8-1230am on fri. and 2-8p on sat, this is the main conflict because it takes up most of the weekend. Our time is already limited w/the kids, (my 1 and his 2). Then we both work. He WILL NOT miss it for nothing but instead wants me to go with him and I do not want too because I do not care to be around his sisters for that period of time, also those are not my religious beliefs. So my son and I or when my son is gone, are left to do our own thing and it SUCKS! It esp. sucks when my son is gone Im left alone and want to spend time w/ him. Do you think this type of relationship is workable? Also he does not celebrate holidays xmas, easter, or halloween. I did growing up. Is this too much to compromise? I need to make a decision soon whether to stay or go. Other than his needy family members those are the only issues we have. He is a really great guy dependable, loyal, etc etc. but Are lifesyles are SOO diff. I dont know if it can work. It seems like I have to do all the compromising. Im not sure if I want to live a separate lifestyle as my husband. I also believe that him going to worship and me going to do what he calls"unholy" on the sabbath day is going to cause problems in the future. He said it wouldn't but IDK about that. I personally believe he could miss a day on special occasions but who am I to judge.

A patient was in her room which was located directly across from the nurses station overheard the nurses talking about another patient on the floor presently who has HIV and the patient passed the info on to me when I entered her room.

Other than the money and you will always have a job.

just Curious

I have already received my taxes back and I just noticed I forgot a W2. Can I add it or should I just leave it alone.

is there any virus protection that I can download that is free of charge so my computer is protected?

I am wondering if it depends on what hospital you are at. I am in my last year of nursing school and I am trying to decide whether or not I am going to stay where I am. I am now working in the ER as a nurse extern. I like it, however I don't know if I want to work in the ER right out of school because it is so fast paced. I DO NOT want to work in med/surg. I was thinking IMCU/Telemetry. I would like to be on a critical care unit but what units are considered critical. I keep getting different answers.

I have to do a project for my geriatric nursing class and I need to select two media examples (one positive and one negative) related to older adults/aging. I have a positive movie but I am having a hard time thinking of a movie that could have a negative influence on society's attitude toward aging or older adults. Any suggestions

I have to do a project for my geriatric nursing class and I need to select to select two media examples (one positive and one negative) related to older adults/aging. It can be tv but the only one I can think of is the golden girls and that is already taken so I wanted to stick to movies. Any suggestions??

I called my BF while he was working, he is a police officer and sometimes he has interns so when I called him I asked him if he was bz and he said no he was just looking at this beautiful young lady across from him and I said OK....... I have to admit I was a bit thrown by this answer, then he went on telling me that he was talking about his intern. I said to him so she s beautiful he said yes she is. I was a shocked to be having this conversation with him so I got quiet as I thought about it.. he realized I got quiet and he went on to say well your the one Im with, love, and want to marry in front of his intern, I knew she was right there cause I heard her in the backgroud. I also couldn't help to think what was his purpose of telling me how beautiful his extern was? but what really pissed me off is the fact that he went on telling me in front her how much he loved me blah blah blah. When we got off the phone, I thought about it and decided to call him bk and asked him does he think about what he is going to say b4 he says it? of course he said YES (yea right). I told him that I was uncomfortable w/him playin w/me like that in front of the chick and asked him how would he feel if I did the same thing to him would he have a problem w/it and of course he wouldn't was the answer that I got. He apologized and told me that he thought he could play with me like that (NO you cant). I am secure with myself and our relationship but his sense of humor can go a lil overboard sometimes. I feel that there should be boundaries when playin I probably wouldnt have minded much if she wasnt in his presence. I truly believe that he would had a problem if I did it to him. Im all about you should be friends with the person that you are with but I am not one of his boys, that is who his conversation should have been with. I do not feel that he would ever cheat on me, however I do feel that he was inappropriate Did I overreact? or do I need to chill a lil bit?

how is the weather??? I saw that it is suppose to rain but I was told that it rains for ten minutes then the sun comes out ....

I was giving an extra credit assignment in med surf to help me study for finals. I always get the questions asking, "what patient should should I assess first" wrong. Here are the patients:

1. 46 y/o who had a laryngectomy and is swallowing frequently

2. 76 y/o with colon resection who complains of nausea and bloating

3. 24 y/o appendectomy complains of surgical site pain

4. 34 y/o choleycystectomy with T tube draining gold drainage.

Can you explain to which patient should be assessed first and the rationale behind it and also a tip on how to answer this type of question.

Then convince on why I should stay in nursing school JK:) but it is soooo stressful

Ive been seeing this guy for 7 mo.things have been good. My prob w/him is his past relation.which ended a lil over a yr ago. Some things that he has said led me to believe he still isn't past her. The way he talks about her, u would think it just happenend like he is soooo hurt. I have recently brought up my concerns as we have talked about a committed relation. He reassured me that he is past her, they are just friends (she has a newborn and lives w/her BF). We had a heated discussion about this, he feels that I dont trust him. I do. but I do not feel that he can move foward w/me if his heart is still w/ her. Red Flag: everytime he emails me a general email her name is on it. He told me he talks to her weekly. For what? We dropped this last week b/c he makes it seem like I am overreacting. What made me mad today was that I was sittn n his car and saw some pics of this ex gf and the mother of his child. OK I have pics but it is necess 4 me to leave them out? should I say somethin??