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  • I am staying with my parents and they are trying to control me?

    Okay this is well embarrassing but here goes. I moved back in with my parents. It is beyond embarrassing. I separated from my partner and since the house was in his name it was rightfully his. This has been pure hell I understand that it's their house but if I happen to go out they completely freak out at me saying is it a boyfriend or whatever. I feel like I'm 12 not 24. I can't move out because I don't make enough money so getting an apartment has been rough. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm sick to my stomach how much my parents are trying to control I have a child and they still tell me what to do.

    15 AnswersMarriage & Divorce7 years ago
  • My husband thinks my illness is an excuse?

    I have been with my husband for five years we just got married few months ago we have a 2 year old. The house is in his name because he bought it before we got married. He always says the house is not clean enough. Now, I believe whoever is staying home and not working should do the housework. However, I work a full time job in the evening and go to school twice a week. And also do all the housework. I told him it should be 50/50 he says he works a more physically demanding job therefore he shouldn't have to. Thing is he's the boss at his job, I am at the bottom at my job. I'm 23 he's 33. I also have anemia, which makes me really tired I take iron for it but it's not working. I'm looking at alternatives. I also have anxiety and eczema and when I get stressed I break out in rashes. He thinks my anemia is my mindset and it's just an excuse for not being positive. I'm really upset I'm trying so hard I just bought a new car with all my savings because he wouldn't help me and pitch in but expects me to pay for things in the house. I told him it's not my house. He doesn't like to share his assets clearly so all of our money is divided. I know that a marriage all money should be shared but he doesn't like that. I am also very moody because I'm getting always yelled at for somethingn I'm doing wrong. I love him because he's the father of my child. But the way he has been treating me lately it's making me not feel good about myself. I feel like he hates me and I will never measure up to his standards.

    11 AnswersMarriage & Divorce7 years ago
  • I spanked my 3 year old and i feel horrible?

    when i was raised i was beaten with a belt and thrown against walls by my hair...i know how much that hurt and i promised myself i wouldnt do that to my child. never lay a hand on him. today though everything got out of control. i work 30 hours a week stay with my kid all day and go to school twice a week. anyways i felt very overwhelmed he didnt go to bed last night till 11 pm (he is still breastfeed and i wasnt giving him breastmilk and he was whiny. then he woke up from 5 am till 8 am. and today i was trying to make lunch and he kept whining i told him wait half a second and the food will be ready he then started kicking me and pinching me. i grabbed him and started spanking him. i spanked him three times...didnt leave a bruise or anything. but i felt horrible he stopped whining ran away and hid in his room and started crying i went to talk to him and he told me to go away and that he doesnt like mommy. i feel like such a bad parent i called my husband he told me what i did was unacceptable and i should look into anger management :( i feel so bad that i spanked him now he hates me...

    11 AnswersParenting7 years ago
  • My husband doesn't help out around the house?

    My husband works 40 hours a week so average work week although his work is physically demanding. My son and he make a big mess every night. He doesnt even pick up his underwear i have to do it and put in the laundry hamper. trust me i have tried NOT doing the work and guess what it piles up or my husband complains how i dont "do anything". Now i am not just a stay at home mom. i go to school online and I work 32+ hours a week. This causes me to have a breakdown a lot of times since i am overwhelmed with having to take care of a house, go to school, our 2 year old son (i am with him all day then i go to work at night). my husband thinks i dont have "coping skills" its not that if i had more help i wouldnt go ballistic. last night i worked till 11 pm i come home my son is still up so i have to figure out a way to put him to bed, because my husband "tried" but "cant". this is my husbands only task. I bathe my son, cook dinner before i go to work, and obviously feed him breakfast and lunch. all he has to do is put him to bed :( before we got married he would always cook for me and take me out now its non existent and he says its because of my attitude.

    12 AnswersMarriage & Divorce7 years ago
  • How to become less aggressive in bed?

    Serious question please no pervert comments. I'm 24 and my husband is 30. I have a very high sex drive I need it once a day.... He says I'm very aggressive as in ill always go down on him or I always initiate it. Fact is I love him and his body is amazing. Plus his my husband of course I understand there are days where he doesn't want to and that's understandable but for the most part I think sex is important and it should be a big part in our lives. Maybe I don't get the big picture maybe he's right females are not suppose to be very sexually aggressive. I lead the sex always doing the initiating and the work making me orgasm and so on. Should I stop ? How do I become less aggressive? By the way I'm still in my prime fit shape dress good role play strip tease...

    10 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • I have sore nipples from my 2 year old breastfeeding?

    He wants to breastfeed 7 times a day so my nipples are starting to be very sore :( he gets fussy if i reject him what do i do?

    5 AnswersNewborn & Baby8 years ago
  • My son is 15 months and still breastfeeds?

    Should I stop. Lately he has been wanting to breastfeeds as much as when he was a newborn he also hums and talks while breastfeeding my husband said I should just pump milk and give it to him from a bottle because he's getting big.

    9 AnswersNewborn & Baby8 years ago
  • My son wakes up at 4am everyday?

    He stays up for 10 mins tops then goes back to bed but im tired of being woken up at that time i feed him lots at dinner time so im thinking hes not hungry but i usually breastfeed him back to bed. He goes to bed at nine and wakes up at nine

    6 AnswersNewborn & Baby8 years ago
  • My son got a diaper rash? Should i go to doctor?

    Hes had it for a week. He got it both times we went swimming when we went swimming i tool his diaper off cleaned him then put on a diaper. Is he allergic to chlorine? I dont want to be like those mothers that take their kids for every little thing but im worried first time mom here.

    7 AnswersNewborn & Baby8 years ago
  • What do you consider an "emotional affair"?

    I always thought emotional affairs are when you talk to a man about your relationship issues...but is it an affair if you talk to a woman for an example a girlfriend about your problems?

    5 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • I am getting a scooter?

    A 50 cc one for school...I am 5'6 and 125 pounds how fast can I get the scooter to go? I'm only going to be using it for school and back...my school is about 5.7 kms

    1 AnswerMotorcycles8 years ago
  • When do you bring up the marriage talk?

    Why shouldn't we ask on the first date if the person wants to get married? Doesn't mean you want to marry them it just means what their views on marriage are...why do people find that creepy? Personally if a man doesn't want kids or marriage he isn't worth a second date..why waste my time?

    3 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • I am breast feeding my 10 month old... Is it time for me to stop?

    He barely even breast feeds right now maybe 3 times a day most of the time I breast feed him just before bed. Anyways, a lot of family members are telling me to stop and that he doesn't need it anymore. I don't really have any support. My hubby thinks I should just pump and feed our son because after one it gets too weird for our son to be breast feeding.

    10 AnswersNewborn & Baby8 years ago
  • My son is under the age of one but he is over 20 pounds?

    My son is 10 and half months and he is 23 pounds. Can he forward face now that he is over 20 pounds or does he have to be one years old AND over 20 pounds.

    By the way I know they should be rear facing a along as possible however, we have a small two door car and we can't afford a four door right now..thank you.

    4 AnswersNewborn & Baby8 years ago
  • My son bites me during breastfeeding?

    He has started biting me really bad and it hurts a lot...I don't want to stop breastfeeding but what other choice do I have?

    He's 11 months old and has 8 teeth.

    7 AnswersNewborn & Baby8 years ago