Dark Elf

When shown an apt. it was explained they were doing remodeling, which was the reason for loud generator noise at the time. I have ben gradually moving in and noticed this loud generator like sound

going, day, night, weekends, and never shuts off. It is extremely loud in the bathroom, permeates the entire apt, and causes the floor to vibrate. I asked my neighbor if they hear this noise. It only is noticeable in my apt. The neighbor explained the tenant below me is on an oxygen machine, which causes a constant loud sound and causes floor vibration. The apt. manager never disclosed this situation

when showing the apt. Though I haven't spent the night yet since renting the apt. 2 weeks ago, just the time I have spent moving my belongings in has been close to unbearable. Having to pay rent and deposit has left me financially unable to rent somewhere else.

I doubt if they have another available rental but not disclosing this sound makes me feel violated by their attempt to keep all rentals occupied despite the condition of the apt. The only people this apt. would be suitable for would be a person with hearing loss.

Was dating a man for a year.

Christmas time my parents drove into town to take us out for an early Christmas dinner. It was the first time meeting him. His mother called me a few days later inviting me to Christmas dinner.

I never met his family and was touched by her invention. When our conversation ended, he vehemently told me I could not come. He did not want his family meeting me. I am a bartender who works late nights. I have a persona that gets attention and makes money in that environment. He told me I looked too wild and they would not understand.

My look is an illusion that can be easily changed to suit the occasion. I am not ignorant of social

appropriateness and told him so. He also is a self-created character illusion maintaining the crazy rebel rocker look for his job as a club musician. He refuses to be flexible in his presentation. It didn't bother me until he pulled this hypocrisy.

The insult to me being he met my parents. He sat enjoying a meal my parents bought him. Later that week he insults their daughter. He hurts me and probably his mother since I accepted her invitation with sincerity. He must have told his mother some nonsense why I couldn't join them, which makes him a liar. The hurt helped me decide to walk away from this person.

Why would a man after a year of dating refuse to introduce me to his family? I think his comment about looking too wild is an excuse to make it seem like it is my fault.

Like the culture however K-pop/J-pop is too bleh. I think the same way about pop music from the west too.Going through youtube Trax was the only band close however they disbanded years ago and became another pop group.

An example of that sound would be words such as "hi, right, nice".

Cannot find a replacement part and spending $20.00 for a replacement pen annoys me. Anybody know of a site to purchase a replacement button or something they may have done for a fix.

Twice in one night two separate guys try to chat me up. As anyone may ask I asked these guys what do they do? Both of them shook their head and chuckled as if I asked something too personal. I explained that I was not asking them what their jobs were that I was asking what they were into.

Recently I have had a couple guys approach me and ask directly as 1st questions what kind of job do I have. Then they ask me if it makes any money?

I felt a bit offended.

The 1st guy (met at the gym) opened up and told me about himself which was cool.

The second guy asked for my phone number, divulged nothing and drove off. We met in a grocery store parking lot. Decided he was not someone to call back.

Somewhere dating etiquette changed and I don’t know the rules for polite conversation but it used to be you don’t ask strangers personal questions about their job or family when you first approach them but hobbies and interests were acceptable.

What is acceptable? Obviously the guys I asked what they are into were offended by the possibility that I wanted to know their jobs.

I live in central New Mexico, which is considered high desert. Seeking suggestions for plants that will climb and adhere to an old rocking horse in the garden. Can anyone suggest an easy care climber that can tolerate bright summer sun for this terrain?

I have been a Mac user since the Performa. The past few days with my new MacBook Pro have been disappointing. Mountain Lion is not very compatible with anything. It is clunky and full of snags. This has been one the worst OS I have experienced on an Apple. Installed my old Snow Leopard and I am happy again. Apple laptops are expensive but I have always been quite fond of them. This time I am skeptical about my purchase. Anybody else frustrated with Mountain Lion?

Just returned home from the Ozark area and could not find the answer. Heard the Ozarks are a gully rather than mountains, such as the Rockies. Is it possible any region of the Ozarks are below sea level?

I was sent a prepaid Mastercard for direct deposit. I do not understand the advantage of using this card over my bank issued debit card.

Trying to change my life and motivations, which I am doing on my own. I have decided to remain self-employed. Days I’m methodical and other days I can’t seem to get to go.

I hear Mars in Aries is always pushing and going but it doesn’t seem to be so for me.

Hopefully one of the pros can give me insight on this configuration.

Mar Aries 12th house. Depending on house system it may also be 11th. Often it feels more like 12th house except I attract Aries type people who help energize me. Not this round though. My Aries partner died last year and I am trying to breath new life into the business we had together.

• Sextile Venus Gemini 1st house

• Square Sun Cancer 3rd house

• Trine Saturn Sagittarius 7th house

• Trine Pluto Virgo 4th house

• Oppose Jupiter Libra 5th house

• Oppose Neptune Scorpio 6th house

The Dragon Head conjuncts Jupiter/Neptune

The Dragon Tail conjuncts Mars

Don’t date very often however when I do it has become disheartening. Middle age men I have met recently seemed to have lost interest in looking nice for a date. Maybe it is the city I live, just not sure. Levis without a belt displaying plumber crack when you bend or sit. No drawers. Tight t-shirts advertising whatever stretched over age protruding tummies. Then the sneakers. Some of you wear sneakers without socks too.

I don’t go all out like I did in my 20’s however I present myself well age appropriate. I’ll wear a nice dress and attractive shoes. For a casual event nice jeans and a fashionable blouse. Some lip-gloss and groomed nails. I’m loosing interest based on presentation. Had a date with a guy who showed up wearing scrub pants. Another who smelled like he didn’t shower after work. I was a bit insulted he didn’t even try. Do men think it isn’t important anymore?

I have a motor on a stand pulled from a 1969 442 Olds that needs to be sold. I was told $1,500.00 is a good asking price by a mechanic however what I am experiencing is something completely different. Keep dropping the price, which now is $700.00. Today I had an offer of $100.00 and thought the stand would be worth close to $100.00.

These are numbers collected off the engine.

CFD

394 548

402295 LH

D1 AB

W1

5

396026G

494 495

I am not delusional. I don’t believe there is another person in the room conversing with me.

Many times, especially when doing repetitive tasks, I entertain myself with having a fictional conversation with another person. Occasionally it may be a fictional person but often it is a conversation with somebody I know. Someone from the past or someone I met briefly. I imagine a scenario and a conversation about something specific. Almost like I’m sorting out an issue or have a desire to converse with someone about things we may have in common.

It is usually silent in my head but I become more vocal when alone. People have seen me doing this and ask about my behavior. My explanation is I have conversations with myself to keep my thoughts organized when seeking a solution. This is something I do also but don’t want to disclose when having a fantasy conversation.

I don’t know what planets or aspects would make a person like this. Whether it is 12th house, Moon, Sun, a Mercury placement, a Neptune Placement, or if this is normal human behavior and everybody creates fictional stories/conversations for themselves.

Does anybody else do this? If you are one of these people which planets, signs, house, or aspects do you believe create this behavior?

My cats are freaked because there is a Thunder/Rain storm. One is trying to climb on me and the other is chewing on my finger. I read it is best to not coddle them when they are scared as this makes them more nervous. For them to feel comforted I need to act like nothing is wrong and ignore them. Is this true?

Who or what is the community that votes when the asker doesn’t pick? Is this automation or do actual people participate? Correct me if I am wrong but it appears the amount of thumbs up or down is irrelevant.

I have been reading posts from people struggling with love and dating issues. Texting complete dialogs between couples. Starting relationships and ending relationships by text. Fighting by text.

Is this normal social and dating behavior? Seems a bit cold to me but it may be my age.

Horary Astrologers ... Is my neighbor robbing me

Over 7 months I have been robbed 4 times. Twice by an associate of my neighbor and twice by an unknown however a few items have been returned by my neighbor who claims he knows who robbed me but no longer lives where these few items were found. The person blamed was a person staying with him several months ago. I have called police every time. The 1st thief hasn’t been caught because when detectives went to his home he had already been told to leave the house and none of my possessions were at the house.

My neighbor claims he had nothing to do with these robberies and feels bad about these people he introduced me too. He called the police for me when I returned home from a trip to a ransacked home and too disturbed to push the buttons on my phone. I have lost most of my valuable items, along with parts off my vehicle. It seems I have become an easy mark, living alone, and having to leave town occasionally.

I have my doubts and wonder if he is directly involved and profiting. Also, how do I stop this.

It is impossible to move currently but will asap.

I erected a chart but being emotionally charged cannot read it with a clear head.

Hoping a horary specialist can help.

May 12th 2012 9:12 pm

Los Ranchos, New Mexico 35N05 106W39

When reading a chart and the quested house ruling sign is Scorpio do you lean towards Pluto or Mars for an answer?

Been studying horary for some time with mixed results. Sometimes I am dead on in reading these charts and other times I’m chasing my tail. I created a chart with a question concerning a 3rd house matter. Scorpio is on the 3rd house cusp. Pluto is in Capricorn in the 4th house. Mars is in Virgo in the 12th house. This would imply very different results.

Which planet is the preference for seasoned horary readers?

I have had 2 robberies and 1 extra failed attempt in the past 2.5 months. I have to leave again and concerned. These robberies are happening by people in the neighborhood however because of lack of evidence the thieves are continuing to do what they do with impunity. I do not want to be hostage to my home but I work at home and keep loosing the things I need to be able to work and survive. Also being a recent widow these criminals have targeted me with the theft of my husbands tools from his auto repair business. I need to set up some system to be able to watch activity on the property but not in a finical position to hire a professional alarm company.