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Kira!!!

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My name is Kira. I'm an Army wife and my husband is currently serving a tour in IRAQ. We have two sons (Logan is 2 and Lucas just arrived on April 7.) and they miss their daddy like crazy. Being an Army wife is a challenge. And then throw 2 kids and a deployment into the mix and sometimes I feel like I'm going to go crazy with all the stress and drama I have to deal with. I love my life, my boys, and my Soldier.

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