Amber

Before anyone asks, yes I have already discussed this with him, just need an outsiders advice..

My bf - we've been together 3 years, been through a little too much, lol.

Now we have problems in the bedroom.

I can't seem to make him climax, or even stay hard anymore.

He swears it's not me, and is still very attracted to me in every way.

He has been under some stress, and in the process of moving, having some money problems. I am hoping that this really is it, but I don't know.

I try to be romantic, dress sexy, and that kind of stuff, but sometimes he doesn't even notice.

This whole situation is really killing me, causing me to lash out, and just get moody.

I know the age difference is great, he is 47, I am 27, so I know that is a factor, not to mention he is a diabetic, a recovering alcoholic, as well as a moderate nicotine user.

It's just that I can usually make things "work" sexually.

He is a sweet man, I love him very much, sex isn't all I care about either, but it shouldn't be put away, either. The age has never mattered to us, we have so much in common, and it's been a whole new experience to me; to actually have someone who I know loves me too.

I know this is the last place to go, but I am uncomfortable talking to a counselor about this - like "Oh I wish I could turn on my bf and make him orgasm" it's not too comfortable lol.

Am I wrong for wanting to please my bf. I do enjoy it when he touches me, but I also enjoy pleasing him.

Serious answers only, please!

I recently got a laptop which has Windows 7 on it.

When my Mom and I were talking to a the sales person, they said that it would work well with the games I have (Sims 2)

I go and install it last night, and it installs fine, but when I click on the icon to play it, it says that it's not compatible with your version of Windows.

I looked it up and found there was some thing on the EA website that fixed this. I tried going there but apparently there's something wrong with the site so that didn't work..

I don't want Sims 3, I just want to be able to play Sims 2. I don't have any EPs for it just the base game with 2 stuff packs.There has to be a way to play it.

I already uninstalled the game last night cuz of this.

I had a real strange dream and would like to know maybe what it might mean -- ok here it is

this is the very most of how I can remember it (I wrote it down best I could)

I was walking, and some guy would look at me through a window. I was then talking to some people, and he came in there, just being friendly, and saying hello.

He was also being slightly flirty, and I knew that he liked me.

Then eventually I started liking him. He would start somehow asking me/hinting if I liked him. When I let him know, he got very wide-eyed, and "dreamily" he would say "Realllllyyyy??"

He would then keep coming in by me and saying that/asking it.

Eventually this other girl somehow managed to be in there, and when she was being friendly and kinda flirty, I would get so insanely jealous, I would want her dead..

Then I woke up after that

(The only crush I have is on a bus driver at the moment, but I don't know if this means anything to it or not lol)

I am having this really bad and terribly bothersome side effect. I have this compulsion to keep on looking up further . It makes me unable to concentrate at all . I don't know what this is called, I thought it had something to do with stiffening of the neck but I am unsure...

Please help!

Ok every question I find of this subject is no help

I cannot get Spyware Guard 2008 off my computer

I am at my wits end!!!

I have Charter Cable High Speed Security Suite

and Windows Update is stuck in disabled, I tried what the website suggested, still disabled

Windows Security balloons things on the tray stay there saying stuff about no anti-virus programs

I manually erased it, didn't work

I tried everything, run yahoo anti-spy

Please HELP! and not some other program I have to run/download

no links to other programs please!

Anyone know how to deal with this problem?

About a week before I got my period, I had stomach cramps which is normal. Now the crippling cramps I usually get in the stomach region, is all in my left arm, no stomach cramps. Even after eating chocolate and caffeinated products. It really hurts!

This is the first time it has ever happened. I am 20, had periods since I was 11.

Does anyone know why, and is it normal?

Ok, well my mom has been with her boyfriend for about 4 years and lived with his drinking problems since then, given him umpteen chances and still puts up with it She kept saying how this is the "last ditch effort" chance he's giving him (He just got out of jail today) She has said that if he is drunk or has drank at all when she gets him from jail that she was going to call it quits with him.

Even though I could tell he was drinking when they came home (he got let out in the morning, Mom couldn't pick him up till she was done with work at 12:30)

My mom has quit drinking for almost 9 years now and said she is tired of living like this, with his drinking. He has tried to go to the meetings but stopped going, claiming it was too expensive. He always lies to her, tries joking about it when she tries talking to him about it (avoids the subject)

She actually said recently that she was just going to ignore it if he was drunk and see how it goes (which I don't understand how that will help anything) but yet goes on and on about how this is the test (even though he had obviously been drinking today) and yet just sits there and puts up with it. Telling me she isn't going to be putting up with it anymore!

All my Mom does is get upset with me when I try to talk to her about it.

I just don't want to see her get hurt for the millionth time again and sit there and stress about him, getting breakouts from it too. He will end up putting us at risk for eviction out of the trailer/park we recently moved into (which we had to move because of him in the first place)

What is wrong with her? Why is she doing this, or I should say why has she been doing this?

Ok, well just the other night I had a dream about Don Dokken (singer of my fave band) and meeting him, and for some reason I hugged him then he kissed me to my neck then he was gone and I couldn't get his attention again. I saw him from afar though

I always have dreams like these, where they leave and I try to find them again or get their attention and to no avail.

I thought it was because I just like these bands and it happens, but it can't be, because sometimes it is someone I don't even know, but same type of dream.

I don't date or in a relationship so it can't be related to something like that.

I bought avocados at Wal-Mart the other day, and messed up and didn't realize they had to be more ripe to make guacamole. I tried making it in the magic bullet added lime juice and it just turned into a pulp-like consistency.

I tried looking some things up on the net but couldn't find anything helpful. I don't want to just throw it away unless there are no more options.

Ok, so I copied songs off my uncles friends hard drive he's circulating to everyone, and try to play them in Windows media player but when I click on the songs in the list, it goes straight to this site

This is what comes up :

A license is required to play this file

The file you are trying to play was ripped (copied) from an audio CD.

During the ripping process, the file was "protected." This limits the number of computers on which the file can be played.

To play the file on this computer, you must download a license (a process known as "license migration"). A license acts an electronic key that allows you to "unlock" a protected file and play it.

To download a license for this file, click Download License.

So When I clicked the button, it said this - error: your netscape browser does not have microsoft windows media services plug - ins installed

and I have Firefox browser

I have been having a problem with using the Gameshark lite disc. I input the game below on it, and the cheats to save to memory card with nothing else saved on it.

I try using it for 007 The World Is Not Enough, and sometimes it would freeze up the game, or if I only activated the Invincible cheat, it would let me play and not freeze up, but then it wouldn't let me past the Courier (1st) level. I really can't figure it out.

I installed them in this order - Sims 2, then Teen Style stuff, then Happy Holiday stuff

but it tells me to insert the Teen Style disk, I play as it said, only to find the Holiday stuff isn't in the game

I have The Sims 2 installed with 2 stuff packs, Teen Style Stuff and Happy Holiday stuff, no other expansions. I am not sure which disk to use to play it, because Teen Style Stuff has it's own icon, and I'm not sure the Holiday pack stuff will be included if I use the Teen Style one

Whenever I either watch someone brushing their hair, getting it washed, getting a massage, etc..

Or if it's done to me, I get a very pleasant and relaxing feeling

Does anyone know why? and does anybody else have this?

Just wondering

And, has anyone ever been there? what is it like?

Has anyone else noticed that in the new WWE magazine, Undertaker's wifes name 'Sara' tattoo is missing, I know he still has it, but does anyone know why it's covered/photoshopped, it is strange because he's had it all this time, and I don't know why it's a big deal they cover it up now.

My mom said Nicole Kidman was in a Dokken video, is this true? or is she thinking of someone else?

On sites like Myspace, MyYearbook and the like, when you put down you are looking for FRIENDSHIP ONLY, even if you're single. There are people who try to flirt with you and or talk perverted.

They don't seem to read. Why is this overlooked? and

does anybody know of a site where I can get a big graphic or image, etc.. that tells people you only want friendship and nothing more? (Very bold statements?)

Anyone go to see Dokken Aug 3rd Sheboygan WI, at Kiwanis Park?. What did you think of it?

Also, did you take any pictures?

Does anyone know why they don't sell them separately, why they just sell them in 4 packs