Krizia ^_^

I'm a newlywed, and when we did "it" with my husband, I knows he enjoys it, because he said he find it pleasurable. But for me, well, I don't find it very... just normal? How do you achieve climax? Any suggestions? I don't know if I'm the abnormal here.

For example you did it last sunday, how do you know you willl get pregnant?

My boyfriend is what you can call a workaholic, or maybe just that work always seem to find him. We don't go on dates, just a few phonecalls and texts. Sometimes I feel so taken for granted. Just that he promises that he is just being responsible for our future and that when we are married we would always be together. He also says that he is faithful.

I'm the top graduate of a university, and topped the board for the course (which I don't know if I really liked), I'm just going with the flow..the logic is... well since you are in it, better make the most out of it, just do what is expected of you. So after college, I again do what is expected of me, I took masters of the same course then worked in the same industry already for 3 years not knowing what I really wanted. My other classmates worked outside their chosen course and earned much more, but I didn't, for I felt its embarrassing in my case (being an honor graduate and all that). Also I don't know what to do if it would feel right and I'd enjoy it, with all that bickering around me. Now in my current job, all I'm anticipating is the pay that goes with it, not really enjoying the job, just the title and the company name I'm working for. Is it really that bad? Its like I don't know what I'm doing with my life. I seem to have no directions. I just look forward for every payday.

My sis-in-law is 6 years older than my brother and many people are critisizing it.

My beau is 8 years older than me, but everybody says its ok.

Can anyone shed a light on this?

Just a background... I'm in my early twenties, and got a marriage proposal, I don't know if am ready, professionally just been working for 3 years in a contract based position, although he is quite stable. But everything is not stable these days.