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Making love?

I'm a newlywed, and when we did "it" with my husband, I knows he enjoys it, because he said he find it pleasurable. But for me, well, I don't find it very... just normal? How do you achieve climax? Any suggestions? I don't know if I'm the abnormal here.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Men can climax pretty easily, which is great for them. I wish it was so easy for women! Personally I find it takes alot of concentration so if you have anything else on your mind while making love, it's almost impossible to achieve orgasm. The first step is for YOU to figure out what makes you orgasm by masturbating. Afterall, if YOU can't even give yourself an orgasm, how do you expect your husband to know how to? You have to know your body best.....then you can help direct him.

  • 1 decade ago

    Its usual (like guys will be happy, girls dont), in the earlier stages because of nervouseness etc. After some days or months, u ll feel that sense and climax etc. Before u start doing it, u set ur mind for it, for that read some ... books or watch videos.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Congratulations!!

    well you have to be mentally stimulated... change the rutine... change a way to like yourself you and you only could ignite and be ready... find something that turns you on...

    is normal to be feeling routine thats why you should spice things up.

  • John S
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    well your not abnormal your husband needs to slow down so the feeling will be great for the both of you'll.

  • 1 decade ago

    well if your not getting satisfied then your man is stubborne ...

    i always make sure my wife gets the same pleasure than me. but when your married for awhile that all stops anyways so i dont get it that much anymore

  • john
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    alot more foreplay will help let him play with you alot longer then 3 min

  • Sony
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    woman on top position

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