samzprecious1

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 1/2 years we have a three year old daughter together and he has an 18 year old daughter that we have "custody" with over the weekends. He is 34 and I am 23. I pick up his daughter every friday in between my work shifts and bring her here which is an hour drive each way..His daughter was adopted when she was young because he was only 14 and couldnt provide for her....Anyways this girl has been making comments to everyone that she hates me and im such a ***** and that i want to kill her...lol Also making comments that im so fat that my stomach lines up with my chest, and its always a show at my house because i wear clothes too tight and she wants to kill my cats but would cry if she went to jail and im a ***** cuz i wont get rid of them (she thinks shes allergic) They are my babys and she is only here for weekends. Im just very hurt but when confronted about it she claims that she likes me and is nice to my face. But this is just very hurtful considering I am overweight but she is taking it way overboard, shes like 5'8 and 100 lbs...We were planning on having another baby but i don't think I can rise above this...Shes telling her friends and my boyfriends best friends and his family all people that have told me this because I am reallly close to them...I have proof as well from her chat history that she left up on the computer screen one morning...what can or should i do?

wipers both work however they dont squirt front or rear but im only really concerned about front..lol Also heat in the van only comes on intermittantly when i hit a bump or take a turn...but randomly it is fine...do have leak in radiator but stop leak fixed it temporarily and i am retaining my 50-50 with no visible loss for about a week. What do you think.....electrical???? fixable by myself? live in new england..lol have a toddler and very very little funds...getting another car is unaffordable right now...

1st lady offered me 80 gave me whole story how she works at animal control and doesnt have much $, i am in real need of money right now due to the fact that i have been out of work since december and need diapers plus I will be taking my cdl test tomorrow which will cost in all about 100. Ive been promised a job if i pass, but another lady wants to give me the whole 130 for the dishwasher, fair considering #1 i still owe a lot of money for it on my sears card. i wanna tell the other lady that i need to sell it for more but unfortunatly i feel bad because i know she really wants it

not on any birth control for about 1 1/2 years, use only withdrawl method, took fertility drugs to have a baby 3 years ago not on them now. went for a blood preggo test 6/1 came out neg. still no period, feel cramps once in a while. a lot of creamy white discharge??? any ideas

i already tried another cd with service pack two and that gives me error "setup could not find any disk drives installed" cant bypass with other cd.. so with this cd it does everything sucessful except after it gets done with finalizing instalation it goes to reboot and fails with blue screen that problem was detected and if its the first time you see this restart the computer but i cant bypass this screen any ideas?

and what do i need to do? i want to ensure that he doesnt get full custody of her...im in the process of job searching i just got a part time job only two days a week............

he rather go sit in the living room and eat in front of the tv by himself...ive asked him to come eat with us but he won't....any ideas? he said he grew up like this and wants to continue and the problem is he eats all the time and i always have to use the tide stick on the couch every week because he spills something, if hes not spilling on the couch hes spilling soda on the wood end table and it takes a lot of scrubing to get it out of the cracks....im so mad. our daughter is almost two and now that we are supposed to be a family I just want to act like it and teach her the right way and at least get some family time.........i appreciate any ideas you can give me....thanks

I had laporscopic surgery 4 months ago over my c section scar everything has been fine with that...all of a sudden today my scar has been bothering me, I looked at it the other day it looked kinda iratated it was red and its hard like a pimple...but today before i went into the shower i took a look and its bleeding with some clear pus. The hardness is about a 1/2 inch in diameter and its got a decent size almost perfect hole in the middle of the circle and inside the hole is a black dot...I tried to squeeze the dot out but it just bleeds even more....its just odd looking I have acne on my face but nothing that looks like this....any ideas???

on this...We dated for a few months when I was in college and he was serving over in Iraq. I broke it off one day but it ended up being a mutual thing. He agreed it was best for me and that I wanted to see other people. I know this was a horrible thing to do and I would never do it again!!!! But I had never met him in person at this point and I didnt want to cheat on him. So we did that nothing really changed much we still talked just about every day....Then phone calls got less and less we went our separate ways for about year or so (still never met at this point) he got married, i had a kid still living with baby daddy but Tom knows about my living situation because we talk about everything. I have to hide it all from baby daddy because he gets very controlling etc.... so we started talking again...so much that it was the first thing I did everyday in the morning lol, sounds crazy but talking to him makes me feel good... I am completely physically attracted to him as well....we finally met in person and it was one of the best days of my life...I was so happy he gave me hugs and kisses...And we still keep in contact....if i get mad at him talking to him again just makes it all better.....we are from the same state and only a couple years apart and he lived about an hour away from me....and I just found out one of my good friends in high school is good friends with him too....and what i find really odd is that before tom and I started talking he was talking with my sister whom i didnt know at the time and found about about this two years ago when i showed her his picture and email address...shes friends with him too. although nothing ever came out of them two....but it feels like fate or destiny is this possiible...or am i just in lust...Im just wondering if this is the feeling people get when they really know....

one came out light pink from the positive line all the way to edge of the test but it stayed white between control and the test line, 2nd one is dark pink next to the test line but i doesnt look like a line its much thicker and looks very uneven, the third test i took about ten mins ago came out with the second positive line and its a perfect line but its very faint but not grey, its definatly pink, but I started bleeding lightly the other day and today its much heavier with a lot of clots, very little cramps, if pregnant I would be only 21 days pregnant, what would you think? I dont want to waste money with more tests, they are different brands, and Dont want to bother my doctor....

I always have a lot on my plate I have a history of past sexual abuse. I thought I was fine. Im not thinking of anything in particular but since Last week or so its been pretty bad. I will wake up in the morning, and I feel so weak, I feel like I barely got any rest although I know I slept like 10 hours. I've been getting up for work in the morning and I feel nausea, it makes me sick to think about going to work, I am having a hard time going to work, but if I can get myself there I know i'm fine, its a relatively simple job typical call center.. I am widely overweight which is causing me problems with my home life too, my fiance doesnt feel the same way anymore since I had our daughter 17 months ago, our relationship sucks but thats her daddy. i dont know whats wrong with me....i get the sweats so i think it may be anixety but i have no idea and of course i cant go see a doc because its saturday and they are allclosed in my area...

i feel bad for not going into work, the doctor is calling today and scheduling my surgery....has anyone taken time off from work before surgery for a cyst...or am i being a baby....i have pretty bad back pain and cramping, i have a hard time sitting still at times, ive been taking lots of ibuprofin and it helps a little but still not good enough, also having trouble walking, although i can still walk...its just painful havent been in work since thursday (half a day)...

I will be having an ovarian cyst drained per my doctor, just wondering if anyone else had this surgery and how long they were out of work for..thanks

im in so much pain, its not rupturing, its 4cm on the ultrasound yesterday and my doctor hasnt called yet....i was told she would call today....cant wait anylonger......cant have sex it hurts, cant take a shower for long, it hurts to much....

please help

I have been having pain in my left side for about a week, went to the doctor for an ultrasound today... my late period and the pain has been explained I have a 4cm cyst on my ovary. Im in pain a lot my back hurts, its hard to pee or you know, it hurts. Im just wondering how my doctor is going to treat it, we havent talked yet...but im scared of it bursting, last time i had one burst i was down on the ground....like 5 years ago, im only 21. my ovaries have been clear since i got pregnant 22 months ago.....then all of a sudden....here comes a cyst./.. ive never had a cyst this big im scared to know what my treatment options would be....im not on birthcontrol now, due to the fact that my best option was an iud and my body rejected it. anyone with similar experence id appreciate some advice, like what is going to help this pain....thanks

I have worked at my job for a little more than 6 months, all of a sudden they brought new temps in, one of the guys is very good looking, however i have not instigated any of this. All of a sudden he started emailling me through my work email, saying he loves me and he wants to hold me and never let go....he doesnt stop. Its really annoying, im already in a relationship with a daughter over 3 1/2 years. and im not interested in this weirdo, this guy doesnt even barely know me. ive tried being mean to him, but then he comes back saying that he like me being a b word, ive tried ignoring him for a few months and then oh.....he will find a way to talk to me. hes very much like a stalker, he even follwed me into security once. i dont want to go to hr, ive never done that before, i want to fix this on my own, any suggestions, i want to let him down easy.....but im tired of him bothering me. he seems obsesive obviously if he keeps telling me he loves me and i tell him no he doesnt...

i have had my mirena iud for almost a full year, havent had a period in about 6 months, never able to find the strings, well on saturday i was feeling a lot of discomfort down there, ended up that i could see the string. Went to the doctor yesterday for an ultrasound, they said my iud not in place, but it had dropped to my cervix. im scared because they said they must get it out, so they will be removing it tonight after work, im just scared that it may hurt, by the way i sware i feel like im having contractions, although i have no baby im def not pregnant, it burns like a ***** is that possible

im shooken up...i have a one year old with a net on her crib a male cat ive had since a baby and a female cat ive had for a year and half. just went to get my crying daughter from the crib, cat came from nowhere jumpped on the net and swung into her crib from the side started mauling my daughter, they r usually pretty good with her....i pulled my daughter away and the cat jumped out of the crib and ran and ran back into the room and straddled my leg digging his teeth into the back of my leg, baby crying worse cuz shock of cat in crib on top of her, mauling her....they are house cats, out of ordinary behavior...baby is okay thank god, but ive got two good teeth holes in the back of my knee, 1 is deep and pretty swollen hurt so bad i screammed pretty good. and basically kicked cat off my leg its really odd...both cats are fixed and never shown any aggressiveness .i love the cats...dunno what would cause this or what i should do...

I keep getting these pimple like bumps...the huge ones are about the size of a quarter and they turn purple and look like they peel but they dont go away problem is they are in female area on the inside of my butt.... they hurt a lot.....the other ones are just pink....im not known for any std and havent had any new partners....this has been happening for about three months....ive tried rubbing alcohol, diaper rash cream...thinking that may help but they just dont go away and they are pretty hard lumps...any ideas would be great....thanks

the red dress looks like dorthys shoes...the green gown is something i have had forever...but im trying to find something really low budget to be and i would like to have the best costume at work so i can win a 100$....please help