Proud AP!

Been married for almost 8 years and we have 1 child that is adopted. We are now trying to add to our family by getting pregnant...I have tests done...and nothing is inconclusinve that I can't get pregnant...but still nothing is happening...no pregnancies...we are seeing a dr. to help but looking for someone that can maybe answer this annoying question...will I EVER get pregnant?

O.k. my husband and I adopted/finalzed in 2008. In April we took $15K from 401k thinking that we would adopt and finalize the same year. The penalities and taxes we thought the $11650 from the Adoption Tax Credit would be used to offset that.

This is what I have been told.

Is this correct?

Will we end up owing?

I want to have kids more than anything. My husband though...he says that he wants them, but he gets mad when we talk about it. We have been to several drs about getting pregnant, and basically we are going to have to spend big $$$ to get pregnant. We both feel that we are not sure that I would even get pregnant (and personally I have never had the calling of wanting to get pregnant...I was to adopt) so we have decided to adopt. We have said that we are going to start looking in January...but whenever I talk about kids in general he gets upset. He has said that he is not comfortable right now even talking about adoption.

My question is how long do I wait for him to be comfortable? I know that I can not force this on him, but I feel so alone with this, it is eating me up and eating our marriage up. I love him more than anything, but I have come to realization, that I can live without him...I just can't live without kids...

I have lost the post office box key, and well, does anyone know if some found it that they can get the mail? I have looked on my other key and their are no numbers that correlate to my number, but come on has this ever happened to anyone? Or I am just a worry wart?

sometimes it feels better/or worse...I can stand for long periods of time, and I was just wondering what I should do? Bengay does not work...anyone have any opinions other than go to the dr. Which I know that I need to do, but I am just hopinh that this pain is going to go away...thanks

a day and nothing else. The est. calories is 275. Would this be healthy? Or would I be gaining weight?

Allen loves Callie

Mike loves Leah

David loves Teresa

He has been out of town all week to go a training for his work and well....I just get this weird feeling that he somehow is cheating on me? He doesn't call...when he does it is touch and go...we don't really talk? That is not like him....yesterday when I went shopping he called and I told him that I was looking at furniture and I told him the price and he said buy it! WHAT? He does not do that? He cringes when I spend money...So to spend a $1000 (on which we have...not a problem) he says go head and buy it!

I don't know what to do...last year when i was out of town for a week he told me that he went to a lot of porn sites and that he felt bad for it....I never thought that he would cheat on me...but, he just doesn't want to talk to me...even just to tell me hi...

Someone please tell me what is going on...because I sure have no clue what that is...

My husband won $6000 from a competition that he was in back in March. He got paid in April we have saved the money that is supposed to be taxed, and we are going to pay it in April when we thought that it was due....should we have paid Estimated Taxes on it in the quarter that it was due? We did not know anything about this this esitimated tax...and just thought that it was normal for us to pay it at the end of the year. I have been looking and it appears that we have been wrong and that we should of paid it back then. What should we expect now, and what should we do?