Morgan Grutman

Been dating boyfriend for 7 months now. I am fat. And have to admit he has maybe seen me fully naked like once since I have known him. I usually always keeps a tank top on or something to cover my belly. Well for Valentines day I did a workshop with my friend to learn how to lap dance with strip tease. I want to do this for him but I am nervous about dancing fully naked in front of him. From a guys stand point.... will he care? Will all he watch is my belly hang?

So 2 years ago I rescued a Hamster that had lost one of its eyes.

He has always been a sweet little guy with lots of personality (for a hamster).

Last night I went to change his cage when I found him hiding in the corner. Moving a little bit but not opening his eye or even attempting to get up got me concerned. When I took off the top of the cage (this is when he gets really excited) he did nothing. I picked him up and he is in rough shape. Barely breathing when he does stand he looks like he is about to fall over (shaking really bad). We decided to make a comfy bed in his cage so he could pass away peacefully. I went down this morning to check on him and he is still kicking. Suffering pretty bad...

I guess my question is I don't want him to suffer. So I want to force feed him some water or something... But I also don't want to prolong his life. Do I try to give him something? Let him be? I could take him to the vet to euthanize him but I wouldn't be able to do that until later this evening.

Help... Never shed so many tears over a rodent before.

I want to get my 3rd tattoo. I'm having a hard time where I want to put it.

I'm getting the infinity symbol with a saying around it.

I was originally thinking of putting it the out side of my calf. I'm now considering it on my foot. Or my under forearm.

I already have a tattoo on one of my feet... Back and wrist.

I know it is ultimately my decision... Just want some opinions

I know second hang smoke is bad for humans and I also know it is just as bad for dogs.

I'm 17 so I still live at home and my dad has been a pretty hard smoker for all of his life.

I own my own dog and my mom owns the other.

About a year and a half ago my dad got really sick from diabetes and was basically bed ridden for 7 months. He said he was going to try to quit... Never happened. I tell him everyday that the smoke really bothers me and he just tells me to suck it up... ( he has never had a lot of compassion for others.. Really stuck in his ways. He only tried smoking outside for a few weeks before he decided that was stupid because it was his house and he can do what he wanted).

Thankfully he does smoke at the fire place.. So that helps a little. But I'm noticing that my moms dog is starting to get asthma among other health concerns and she is not that old.

I have a vet appt booked but not for a week or so. Is there anything I can do to help her in the meantime? Since my dad has no consideration.

For a school projet we must complete a mail merge.

The recipients she gave us are in an already existing data source.

Have already made the letter and attatched the data source but now we must add a recipient to the already exisiting data source... every time I click edit it takes me to the word query and no where can i find how to add a new entry?

can anyone help me out?

I have only been on 1 date with this guy...

After the date he didn't text me at all... Figuring I really have nothing to lose a week after the date I just sent a quick text saying " not sure if you're interested, but going out this weekend and if your want you should come hang out" he replied right away saying he wants to but he already made plans with his friends and would see if they wanted to come out to and he would "let me know". I didn't take that as a great sign so just dropped it with a reply of "sounds good, maybe see you then". The night we had planned to go out I didn't hear from him at all so I took that as he wasn't into me and that was cool (note: that after my last reply I HAD NOT texted or talked to him).

Out of the blue the next night he texted me saying sorry I couldn't make it out how was your night?

so i told him no worries, we didn't end up going out that night anyway

from there he replied with but i would love to get together again and go see a movie or something, how does that sound?

I said that would be fun and that after a my final exam this week I would need a night out

he said he was pretty busy this week to so he was thinking this weekend or next week.

I said this weekend would work

and then he replied with im not a 100% sure it would work and he would 'let me know"....

I don't want to be strung along if he isn't completely sure if he wants a second date or not.

I get the vibe he doesn't want to at all one moment and the next he gets all aggressive about hanging out again... can anyone help me out?

Posted this but it seemed to disappear..

I went on my first date with this guy.

At first it was a little awkward but then we started talking had a couple laughs and everything seemed to be going good.. until the last 10-15 minutes of the date when he seemed like he just couldn't get out of there sooner..

just curious to know after a first date if he is interested or not... and if he doesn't text me for a couple days after should I text him just asking how its going? or if he didnt text me by then I should just let it be?

I went on my first date with this guy.

At first it was a little awkward but then we started talking had a couple laughs and everything seemed to be going good.. until the last 10-15 minutes of the date when he seemed like he just couldn't get out of there sooner..

just curious to know after a first date if he is interested or not... and if he doesn't text me for a couple days after should I text him just asking how its going? or if he didnt text me by then I should just let it be?

you have probably heard a billion times.. going on a date so nervous HELP!!

LOL well it is similiar except this is my first date... literally. I am 18 never had a boyfriend never even been on a date.

now i am on the bigger side. we have never met just seen pictures of eachother and talked a little over the internet (a mutual friend). i am really nervous that he is going to walk in and be like holy cow she is fatter than i thought... or something.

I am not a very social person so I am very nervous about keeping the conversation going....

ahhh help

you have probably heard a billion times.. going on a date so nervous HELP!!

LOL well it is similiar except this is my first date... literally. I am 18 never had a boyfriend never even been on a date.

now i am on the bigger side. we have never met just seen pictures of eachother and talked a little over the internet (a mutual friend). i am really nervous that he is going to walk in and be like holy cow she is fatter than i thought... or something.

I am not a very social person so I am very nervous about keeping the conversation going....

ahhh help

doing a recap on fractions in school and i honeslty cannot remember any of it.. slowly getting back there but my teacher doesnt explain things all that well....

can some1 explain to me how to multiply a fraction like this 3/4 x 8 or 7/16 x 16

I have a lot of bottled up emotions.

I have a lot of anxiety and I stress really badly.

I have trouble expressing myself and when I can't explain it right I get angry which in return causes the person I am trying to tell mad.

I am finding myself breaking down - fast. And everything I have kept inside is now building up so much I am a huge emotional mess. I know I need help but I'm stuck. I have always been the type to joke around (a lot) and so the times I am trying to be serious people think I am joking around when I finally work up the courage to tell them I am being serious I get this every single time .. "you have nothing in your life to be stressed about... your spoiled you get everything you want, your 20 and live at home, and you work a part time job that doesn't ask that much of you" which makes me begin to think I am really am spoiled and I am just being selfish looking for attention and all of my problems aren't worth anything.

When I finally try and talk to my mom she always tells me I better be joking because she does a lot for me.

Now, I have to admit I do get A LOT of things that I do want and I am very blessed to be so lucky with a roof over my head, food to eat and other luxuries. But I still can't help but feel something in me just isn't whole.

I am stuck - I need help so I am thinking a therapist or a counselor will help me a lot (especially with my first year in college coming up here in a couple weeks) but I don't know how to go about telling my mom that I need help.

I can't help but feel as if I am over exaggerating because I have zero support from family or friends.

How do I go about this? Am I just being over dramatic?

I am looking at getting a tattoo of the celtic cross with the word "Family" written in irish aroud it.

I have never been to ireland (even though I would love to someday) but both sides of my family have irish heritage. not going to say my last name.... but it is very irish as well.

I love tattoo idea and i know if i love it i should get it..

but in all honesty i dont want it to look really weird/dumb/offensive if i really dont know a whole lot about it all nor have i ever been to ireland.

opinions?

been all over google finding "Live with Passion" in greek.

every site i have been to has given me a different variation.... i really need it to be spelt right..

can anyone justify how its actually written in greek PLEASE

been all over google finding "Live with Passion" in greek.

every site i have been to has given me a different variation.... i really need it to be spelt right..

can anyone justify how its actually written in greek PLEASE!

I will admit that I have been quite depressed the past few months but haven't thought of getting help because I figured it would just run it's course...

I know that if you have suicidal thoughts that it is best to get help right away

but I don't consider my feelings about wanting to die now to be suicidal because I know that I am too "chicken" to actually do it.

I often say/think to myself that I really and hopeless and have no reasons to live

or driving how easy it would be to just do something to out myself

but again... I don't think I would ever actually do it because the fact of death actually terrifies me it's just the thought of ending my life really would be much easier.

if i would never actually commit suicide do these thoughts count as suicidal thoughts?

so i asked this question a while ago...

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkEbk...

and i am looking for some more help.

again. this should technically go into the tattoo section but i would love horse lovers opinions.

I am now down to 3 quotes.

Still want the rearing horse with Elegance, Beauty, Spirit, Fire around it.

or...

a horse doing an extended trot with the words Poetry in motion around it

or i saw a really cool design that had I FLY with a horse and rider jumping over those words.

help me out.

only looking for opinions to make this a very beautiful but simplistic tattoo..

so my horse nicked herself in her front L coronet band a couple weeks ago. we have it basically all healed up (now its just the scar tissue) but while riding i am putting bell boots on to prevent her from re-nicking it.

unfortunately i grabbed a size too small but have had no time in between my 2 jobs and riding to pick up the bigger size so instead of putting the velcro on all the way i just do it loose. today though, i think i did it up to tight and it rubbed so she is all raw on her pastern. i feel horrible.

like i said i am probably just over reacting but i feel like i am a horrible horse owner for not going out sooner and getting a bigger size. not a knowledgable horse owner because i figured she would be ok.

i know sometimes its best to leave it to air out and other times its best to wrap. the only thing is its in a very awkward place to wrap (the place where they get scratches).

i put some wound cream on and then put veterycin over top of that.

tomorrow i will soak it with betadine and then reapply the wound cream.

am i on the tight track?

i dont think its a severe injury... actually not bad at all (just a raw rub) (unless i am now under reacting) i just want to make sure i get it all healed soon. and then go buy me some proper boots.

getting a tatttoo at the end of the month and i thought i had the perfect saying picked out but have come across a few more that i just love. if i could have all of em put on i would.

just need opinions on which one sounds /would look best

i am getting a horse tattoo on my back. not sure yet if it will be a rearing horse or galloping horse but here are the quotes i cant pick from

This was my original idea

Elegance, Beauty, Spirit, Fire

2 hearts, 1 passion

Hoofprints never fade

Together as one

Was going to put this into the tattoo section, but who would know better than horse lovers themselves??

I dont want any big long quotes or anything, something small and simple but gets to the point.

my horse has pretty good feet so i like to keep her barefoot.

we mainly ride in either a sand ring or a grass ring but every now and again i take her down the road on the cement and she does great (obviously i keep that to a minimum and try to walk mostly on grass).

but, me and a few friends are planning a big trail ride. were taking them to an equestrian campground nearby where they have miles of trails. as far as i am aware the trails are mostly dirt but im sure we are going to come across rocks and go through some rivers.

my only concern is feet. like i said she has good feet. if i was plannning on trail riding everyday this summer then yes, i would shoe her, but it will be one day and only a couple hourse.... is it a necessity to shoe her if we will be walking on rocks and such?? or will she be fine for the one day we are out this summer?