Kacie

I know it’s not over yet but where do you stand right now? Please include your state !

My computer is slow and as of today it keeps freezing up. I think I have a bug and my old spywear system has expired. Is there anywhere I can find a free one to download that will scan and fix the issue without having to sign up with a credit card?

If your God was going to bless you with a “gift” or for lack of a better word “power”, what would you ask for? I was thinking about this last night, I would choose healing as my gift. Which gift would you choose?

Ok! I am a very open minded Christian and was wondering just what some of you believe on other topics such as alien life. Do you believe it’s possible? I’m not just talking little green men; I’m talking about other planets with water, animals, plants, and maybe other humanoids. I myself think it’s entirely possible, I was just wondering how others feel. Thanks!

Ok I have a question. I don’t need any pervy answers please just honest opinions from people who are married. My husband and I have been married for 3 years now and have been together for 6. Our sex life has never been what it should be but we have worked on it a lot. His problem is he was a virgin when we met and his parents never told him anything about adult relations at all. The only thing that was said was it was dirty and good people don’t do that. Now I know they probably said this when he was like 14-16 and it wasn’t meant for after he was married but the transition never happened in his mind. He still sees sex as something embarrassing and it should be hidden in the shadows. We have discussed all of this and in his head he knows better but there is still a lot of disconnect. He isn’t cheating or anything like that this is just a mental issue with him. It’s not like we don’t have sex it’s just that he is uncomfortable talking about or how he feels about it. He won’t make the first move or even try new things. I have tried going slow with our conversations, giving him space and being understanding but I’m out of ideas here. I’m not angry or disappointed I just want him to feel free being with me the way I feel about him. Anybody been here in their lives or have any advice? Thank you.

I'm a 25 year old women who does not want kids. It's not that I don't like kids, I love them! I just don't want any of my own. I have been married for 3 years but we have been together for 6. People always ask "so when you having kids?" I say we aren't going to. You would think I said I was a puppy killer the way they act. They look at me like I have lost my mind. Why do people act like this?