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I brought my car to the garage this morning because my engine coolant level was really low, the man put water in it and I left it with them to check for leaks. Now they are saying there aren't any leaks to be found, but surprisingly (!) the level of actually antifreeze (thats what it is, right?) is really low in the car now. They also said it uses Renault coolant... If I wanted to top it up myself now what should I do? Would I have to drain out what is now in it (basically a lot of water), and then add more coolant, and if so what type should I look for? Is it an easyish job?

I have no idea what is going on with my car... It went to the garage on saturday, and today I needed my lights but there is a new symbol? It looks like the dipped beam, but with a wavy line going through the beam part?

I thought my fog light symbol was blue, so it can't be that?

Help, someone please?

Basically I am in love with my fiancee... But he keeps dragging me down. We were supposed to be married by now and soon be having kids( didn't just pull this out of my head, its what he said he wanted also). But instead he doesn't want to marry me anytime soon, and kids he is "put off" having them. I found out a few months ago he had cheated on me and since then its just been lies lies lies. We could work it out but he just doesn't seem to understand what I need. I don't think I will ever be able to fully trust him again, and that isn't what I want in a relationship. But I love him and can't find the will to leave him, I feel so weak.

Words of wisdom anyone?

Can someone explain it simply (as possible) for me please?

Most people say in the event of cheating they would leave, but I am wondering how many people actually do?

I am hoping for a lot of answers, as I think people will have very different opinions.

It seems to me, that maturity is how you can handle situations rather than a state of mind. Physical maturity is obvious, but other kinds of maturity often are much less obvious, and is more a thing you notice with hindsight.

I am hoping for a lot of answers, as I think people will have very different opinions.

It seems to me, that maturity is how you can handle situations rather than a state of mind. Physical maturity is obvious, but other kinds of maturity often are much less obvious, and is more a thing you notice with hindsight.

I live with my fiancee, and we both are working relatively low paid jobs, but we manage to get by. Last week he walked out from his job claiming he hates it and it is making him depressed.

So I say okay then, but he needs to go back and work his notice otherwise no one else will hire him, and we won't be able to get by, plain and simple.

Yesterday comes around and I come home to find he hasn't been to work, hasn't called them or anything (because he feels ill). We got into a huge fight, he got angry and started breaking things, and I ran out of the house shaking, to go to my parents house.

Now I feel bad for leaving, I still love him and I don't want him to feel bad, but he needs to be responsible and act like the adult he is.

I don't know what to do, should I leave him or go back and try to work things out?

This will be my 6th day on the stuff, and since the first few days I have been having some cramping, but today I feel terrible. I have back ache (I am assuming the pill is to blame) I feel crampy almost as bad as if I was about to start my period. Is this normal? I will keep taking it til I finish this pack at least, but I would like to know if this is normal or not.

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I bought an aqua one 320 aquarium, and its not anywhere near done cycling yet but I like to plan ahead. I am planning to have a tropical aquarium.

I would like to get some danios as they sound hardier than the tetras, can you mix them, like could I get 3 pearl and 3 zebra?

Then was thinking 2-3 Peppered corydoras, would they fit in it, or do I need to look at smaller species of corydoras?

I want a bit of a mix, am obviously not looking at big fish, but I would like species that will cover the whole tank (top middle and bottom).

Also, when will I know its done cycling, I need some test strips, yes?

I can't remember too much of it, he got married, I didn't see who to. But he kept talking to me saying he was sorry... Although not in a regretful way, more in a polite way.

Any ideas what this means?

Is it possible? I don't want to have to add one by one.

Thanks.