TOSHA

me and this guy have been dating since april 2006. he is 9 years older than me he has 2 older son's that are 17 and 19. i have two younger kids 5 and 7. my kids are very wild that's because my parents have raised them while i was working 3rd shift for almost 4 years, but now i know that i have to train them all over again about displine again. he is very sweet and he's giving all the time in the world to move it will probably be next year sometime. he was telling me that he is getting to old and impatient that he thought he can help raise them, but i have been telling him it will be a changelle starting over with younger kids for 3 months before he brought the new house.. what should i do? how can we work it out?Will i have time change the kids behavior before my deadline.. i'm really hurt and he saids he love's me and that he wants to marry me. i told him once i leave there's no turning back was i wrong to say that , because he still wants to date after i move out. what do u think?