i refuse to sink ⚓

I am in middle school. My mom's wedding is on a Friday. I just want to make sure that a wedding is okay to miss school for. Not to mention, my own parent's wedding. It's okay, right?

I'm going to get my cartilage pierced. But at my school, during gym, you aren't allowed to have earrings in. Not even studs. I have gym every day. & I'm not waiting months for the summer time just so I can get a piercing. How could I hide it?

Will this be ok? Everyday I take them out at night & put them back in when I wake up. Will it be ok this one time though? & if my eyes are dry I have the eye drops for people with contacts whose eyes may get dry. So will this affect me at all or will I be fine?

I'm a 14 year old girl in 8th grade. I'm not just saying this to say I have it. I'm actually thinking I do. Before speeches in school or a presentation, I get nervous weeks before it is supposed to happen. & when it is time for me to share, my heart beats super fast, I feel heated, & I shake uncontrollably. Also, when it comes to calling strangers on the phone (aka maybe a friend's house where a parent might answer or calling a fast food place, etc.) I can't do it. Or just talking to strangers in public. I don't want to go into places (maybe a nail salon) alone because I'm afraid to talk to myself. Even when it comes to ordering food, I get the littlest bit shy. I also never raise my hand in class. I'm afraid of getting the answer wrong & everyone laughing at me. So I'm quiet in class. But I'm so social with my friends or family that are close to me. A lot more things affect me but I don't want to type it all.. Help?

I'm getting a tooth pulled tomorrow & my boyfriend's coming over the next day. Would it be ok to kiss (nothing further than kissing)? I'm getting a tooth on the bottom front of my mouth pulled (so no, not my wisdom teeth or a molar or something like that). But would it be ok?

Just about 2 hours ago, I got a headache. & now I have the feeling I'm going to throw up but I can't. Today I didn't eat much. Could that be why?

About an hour ago i took 2 Midols, i just took a shower, & i've gone to the bathroom maybe 10 times. But these cramps aren't stopping & they hurt really bad. I also feel like i'm going to throw up. What do i do

Me & my boyfriend have been dating for a year now. But i'm scared that he'll start losing interest in me. I love him & i'm not losing interest in him. I had even told him about this but he said that he wasn't losing interest. Though why do i feel like this?

I just got braces on yesterday. So this is day 2. They're still killing me. Ibuprofen helps but doesn't last long. How long will this pain be ongoing?

Just to say: he is not a player, doesn't cheat, & i'm not breaking up with him. So anything rude will be ignored

There's a girl in my school who has a big butt; everyone knows it. Guys & girls. Today my boyfriend said that when he looked up he saw her butt & told me that it looked huge in the dress she was wearing. & he said it like, "damn it looked huge". It really hurt me that he was staring at her. We've been together almost a year. & even after i sent so many text saying, "why tf would you do that?!" & stuff, he just said he had to go & that he loves me. I believed it bc he usually does have to go around that time.. But how do i explain that that really did hurt me?

The theme for the drawing is "Generations". But my mind's blank. What would be a good idea? I don't really know what i'd do

I am going to try using a tampon. What brand is best for first time tampon users? Btw, my period is VERY light considering it'll probably end tomorrow

Tomorrow or the day after is when my period ends. I've been getting little or even no blood the past day or 2 now since my period started. So since my flow is now light, if i go swimming, can i go without a pad? I just tried a tampon & hated it. DO NOT tell me, "just try a tampon again." No. That doesn't help. Would it be ok without a pad?

Don't say use a tampon bc i don't want to... i'm not comfortable with it yet. I am going to a pool this fridat but my period showed up 2 days ago (this is day 3). What can i do? & i'm 13 so i don't want to take birth control or anything.. please help! Is there a way to shorten my period?

I think pads are just one big mess & i want to start using tampons. But i'm afraid it'll hurt or something & i don't know how to put it in. This is an embarassing question but how do i put one in..? & does it hurt?

The letters I can use are:

L M T S F O A W R

Please help. I have no clue!

I've had mine for about 1 1/2 now. I have brackets & wires. But i have no color bands on the brackets, only the silver. I hate it, it looks weird. Why don't i have color?

Well today i'm getting "fit for contacts" as he said. What happens in the procedure of getting "fit" for contacts? Also, i'm a little scared i might poke my eye out or something. How do i get over this?

My alarm hasn't been waking me up lately. I need a song that is good (like came out recently or whatever) but is l o u d & will really wake me up on time. I'm a girl & i'm not into rock or that stuff. But any suggestions? Please help!

I fell asleep for a quick nap. I only have tol braces. But when i woke up the INSIDE of my lip was caught in them & had bled. I could tell because a blood taste was in my mouth.. but how??