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I'm going to college soon.I realize though i am losing my study habits and inspiration. after 2 years of trying in high-school, i just feel burnt out. I lost motivation and I don't know how to get it back. I'm falling behind in a lot of my classes. It's scaring me. my grades aren't' completely bad but it just frustrates me to see myself go down but also to even try.

what can i do?

So my boyfriend and I were playing a game, and I know I brought myself to this, but still, should I be concerned?

We were playing video games, and he asked if I wanted to at another round online. (keep in mind we are both online, not seeing each other in person at the moment. We see eachother 1-2 times a week.)

I gave him the option of skyping, or playing another round. He said if it was okay to play csgo. I said yeah and he asked if I would get mad and I said nah well will only be able to Skype till towards the end if the week though. He picked csgo. He s a sweet guy and I love being around him, but what concerns me is if it s a bad thing he chose that? I was still playing with him, but still.

I asked my friend but he said "well now you know his interests and priorities "

That made me worry :/

My friend convinced me to play this game online. I find it fun but i'm extremely new to it and I rarely play. So of course he invites me to competitive gaming. I honestly have no idea on what i'm doing but looking for enemies and diffusing bombs. But i have no idea where to go. So if I am the last one alive I begin to get criticized. I left the game because that's all that was going on. He tried to stick up for me but still it made me angry because well i'm new. They don't know that till he sticks up but still.

Latley today i've been feeling down and I can't pinpoint why. Here's how my day went.

I did an all nighter (Did not go to sleep for a day) cause I wanted to get my AP homework done. We're running low on food at home. So I ate a mango around 11 ish , a cup of noodles around 4am, I left home for an event and I was offered a doughnut at 8. I walked about half a mile and I walked back home another half a mile with three heavy bags.(could that be considered a workout?lol) I walked 2 miles and came home and fell alseep. I didn't eat anything else throughout the day so when I woke up I got ready for my cross country practice. I ran about 3miles. and walked 2 more miles cause I walk home. I ate a bowl of cereal. and got to work again. I got 5 hours of sleep that day. A part of my walks included me feeling slightly upset over a guy. but only slight.

is it hormones?Food? Sleep?

I'm a teen. I'm not sure why I feel so upset. I was cranky when I woke up from my sleep and i'm normally not.

Like two different sessions. Strength training in the morning and running later in the after noon. My schedule would be like this:

DAY 1:running and strength training

DAY 2: running

DAY 3:running and strength training

DAY 4: running

DAY 5: running and strength training

DAY 6: running

DAY 7: REST

and repeat

I want to practice for cross country for school, but I also want to gain curves and be toned.

I was talking to a guy friend. And he totally compared me to this girl. He said "compared to (name), you're average. " Note: I did not even compare him to any other guy what so ever. I didn't even ask. I feel offended cause it wasn't necessary. I'm not going to lie, she is gorgeous, but still, I didn't ask..

I was thinking about strength training (using dumbell weights) 40 minutes lower body, and 40minutes upper body.

Too much? what can I do if I want to work both?

I am doing triceps on a cardio day.

I m trying to burn some stomach fat before summer. I m near there.(When I flex, I still have the soft fat but I can almost feel my core abs) But honestly, I like the exercise too. I ve been doing cardio for an hour every other day. 40-45 minutes the least.

I read somewhere that you can burn muscle if you do it for too long.

1)How long?

I was thinking about going for an hour and a half or two.

2)would that be a bad idea?

3) Also, can I gain muscle by light weights????(i m using 3lbs but thinking about going to 5)

4)would it take longer for me to get toned with 3lbs?

I am a jr ready to be a senior. And of course, seniors apply for colleges. Problem was I made a mistake in not applying for the SAT's earlier. I wasn't ready the first time, and the second time I was caught up in school or who knows. I was planning to take the last one but I forgot I was going out of state for almost a week meaning i'd have to miss this next one. My parents spent $400 on a plane ticket and are upset because I pretty much just made them waste money.

is it necessary to take the SAT's?

We apply for colleges around September and college board does not place SAT's till about October. In addition to that, SAT scores take about a month to process and send out

I was mentioned the ACT. I am able to take it in June but I hear it is harder. I am a slow reader and worker. But I honestly do work hard.

Here are my GPA results:

ACAD GPA(9-12)-

WEIGHTED:3.74

NON-WEIGHTED:3.55

ACAD GPA(10-12)-

WEIGHTED: 3.89

NON-WEIGHTED:3.68

TOTAL GPA-

WEIGHTED: 3.77

NON-WEIGHTED:3.60

the GPA are my grades from Freshmen year to my FIRST semester of my Jr. year. I feel like my second year this semester was rough. But I am still maintaining a little above a 3.0

Will I be able to turn them in late?

What can I do??:( I really want to go to a UC.)

Be honest? Is my gpa bad???

I am in a few clubs but

Please help me. What do I do. I am freaking out..

Will it matter if I have bad scores???

I am a jr ready to be a senior. And of course, seniors apply for colleges. Problem was I made a mistake in not applying for the SAT's earlier. I wasn't ready the first time, and the second time I was caught up in school or who knows. I was planning to take the last one but I forgot I was going out of state for almost a week meaning i'd have to miss this next one. My parents spent $400 on a plane ticket and are upset because I pretty much just made them waste money.

is it necessary to take the SAT's?

We apply for colleges around September and college board does not place SAT's till about October. In addition to that, SAT scores take about a month to process and send out.

I was mentioned the ACT. I am able to take it in June but I hear it is harder. I am a slow reader and worker. But I honestly do work hard.

Here are my GPA results:

ACAD GPA(9-12)-

WEIGHTED:3.74

NON-WEIGHTED:3.55

ACAD GPA(10-12)-

WEIGHTED: 3.89

NON-WEIGHTED:3.68

TOTAL GPA-

WEIGHTED: 3.77

NON-WEIGHTED:3.60

I am involved in four different clubs this year.

Will I be able to turn them in late?

What can I do??:( I really want to go to a UC.)

Be honest? Is my gpa bad???

I am in a few clubs but

Please help me. What do I do. I am freaking out..

There is a guy I had a long history with. He cheated on me 4 years ago. I stopped talking to him for two years. He tried to ask for forgiveness for a year. the year after he still asked about me, so I figured might as well drop it. We became friends after three years. He asked me out 4 times this school year and I said no.

He told me, unexpectedly, that he was tired of being nice. He was tired of being rejected by me and that supposedly, I was leading him on( I am for sure I DID NOT) I always saw him as a close friend. But I didn't date him because he was always flirting with other girls and people would tell me he is a bad apple when it comes to dating. So he ended out friendship. It hurt me because I grew close to him and it felt just as heart breaking as the time we broke up.

Update: My bad, I forgot to add my commas

after we broke up, he tried asking for forgivness, the following year he stopped but still asked about me here and there, then we became friends after three years of my highschool. I always told him the reasons why I would not. my friend told me he thought I still had feelings for him and he tried to surface them. I did have feelings but I never let them get to me because he is a bad apple as I was told.

There is a guy I had a long history with. He cheated on me 4 years ago. I stopped talking to him for two years. He tried to ask for forgiveness for a year. the year after he still asked about me, so I figured might as well drop it. We became friends after three years. He asked me out 4 times this school year and I said no.

He told me, unexpectedly, that he was tired of being nice. He was tired of being rejected by me and that supposedly, I was leading him on( I am for sure I DID NOT) I always saw him as a close friend. But I didn't date him because he was always flirting with other girls and people would tell me he is a bad apple when it comes to dating. So he ended out friendship. It hurt me because I grew close to him and it felt just as heart breaking as the time we broke up.

I've had this really close friend for about 3 years. she is honestly the bestest friend I've ever had cause we relate a lot to each other and she gets me. We call each other sisters. Well she moved to L.A. I noticed she's been calling other people her best friends and I didn't mind. I was a bit jealous I admit but I didn't mind and let it go because a person can have more than one(until it gets out of hand of course but she hasn't. ) We still message each other and we still visit when we can. She still calls me her sis and Best Friend but I noticed she posted on instagram a pic of her and a friend. She called her "the real shawn and cory" ( it's a show reference) Well problem is, that was our thing..

and honestly it kinda hurt me becuase well I thought it was our thing. It looses meaning when you're replaced or something is used on other people too. I just don't want to have another fake friend who calls everyone their best friend. well not fake but well you know.

I want to be curvier and enhance certain parts of my body such as my thighs and butt. But please answer

1) How often do I do resistance/strength training per week?

2)Do I do it every other day?

3) How can I add in cardio in my workout?

4) can I do cardio one day and strength and resistance the next? or would that make me loose my thighs and butt?

What if you truly love someone who liked you but not loved? What do you think?

I want to wear crop tops and my mom supports it, but I don't have a flat stomach. I don't have sooo much fat, but I still have a layer of it. If I changed my diet and exercised, I could have it flat about maybe in a month and a half. Well my guess. When I stand it's okay but when I sit, you can see my fat like pop out a bit or like stand out.You can tell were that layer is.

Please don't sugar code. I can handle the truth :)

There is this guy who asked me to go. I told him i'd go but only as friends. He agreed. But, my friends aren't going. And I doubt his are unless they're dating. I want to go but I don't feel like slow dancing with him and I feel awkward if it's just us two cause we just met. Well actually i've known him but i'm just not that interested and I feel like our small talk ends pretty fast. Should I still go? It is my jr year but I can always go next year?

There is this guy i ve had sort of history with. We met and dated 3 years ago. We were on and off for a year and as soon as I realized he cheated on me, and after realizing he wasn t going to commit after giving him another chance, I broke it off.I never spoke to him. As I ignored him, throughout almost a year, he tried to get me back. He sent me texts and emails about starting over and how sorry he was or to at least be friends. I shut him off for about 2 years. I was hurt bad. It took me about a year to get over him completley.(he was my first real relationship) we became friends after I let it go last summer. We were close at times. But I noticed a lot of girls know he has done self harm. I somehow know a lot about him. But I don t feel special. I decided to stop talking to him cause he asks me out. After I say no, he seems to ignore me. he asked me out twice this year. My feelings come back but he dates a lot of girls and he is not comitted. Yet he tries so much to get with me? then he doesn t talk to me as much. My friend says he might be insecure.

thing is, I really like this guy. But I doubt we will last. and I shut him off. But why does he keep coming back?! I m not the only girl he does this too, which kills me..

4years ago, I was dating a guy on and off for a year. In the end he cheated so I broke it He tried to get me back for a year. Didn't speak to him for two years. We finally became friends last summer. He asked me out again the end of the summer. I explained that I liked him but I wouldn't date him. He begged and through text he told me he would change. He was mad when I dated another guy after telling him I needed space. Then 8 months later (today) he asked me out again. I did the same thing. I told him I had feelings but I wouldn't date him cause he wouldn't stay comitted. He didn't push for anything this time. He seemed okay after this time Am I being played?:( Did I do the wrong thing in expain that I liked him but wouldn't date him?