MamiMe

want to know whats the point of going into labor on my own when i have to have a c-section anyway. my dr is giving me the run around. would like to know some opinions from some veteran moms of multiples...

i mean you wouldnt leave a toddler in the car during the summer with the ac on, but my lil sister is 14 years old and our mother does not let her stay in the car by herself. i mean like she makes her get off even if its just to pay the cashier for gas. she's a weirdo . lol

my husband and i are moving in october to an apartment..well my father in law(our present landlord) is snooping around the complex and we suspect is trying to gain information about our move in dates and how much we will be paying for rent.

well its been 1 year and a 1/2 and my periods are so abnormal. am i the only one..i'll get it like normal...then skip a month and then start again and have my cycle for like 2 weeks...i know my obgyn said that its normal.. but a strangers opinion would be helpful...thanks

my friend thinks she is pregnant...she said that her and her boyfriend had sex like 2 weeks ago..(lol! poor him) and he came but pulled out quickly and the finished by himself. she's a whole week early on her period and that has never happened to her. i told her to take a pregnancy test now and in a couple weeks take another one just to compare results. she's freakin out. and so am i ...any suggestions/comments.. thanks

she has been sitting for my kids for 5 years already and she just doesnt seem to care too much about their well being. she wont hurt them...but money is an issue right now and she's demanding for me to pay her more because,and i quote her,

" well, you need to pay me more because i'm with YOUR kids all day and your not" its just annoying. she's not a kid either. she's my best friends mom. i've known her since i was 16. its just seems she's more worried about the money then my kids..any suggestions....

my husband and his father had a verbal agreement like 5 years ago ,that we (my husband and i ) would live in one of his houses until it was paid off so he would not have to worry about its maintenance. well , we are trying to move out on our own now and my father in law gave us a bad referral to the place where we are seeking to live and said the reason he did that was because his son and him had a verbal agreement.

i need help.....

my sister was in an abusive relationship about 13 years ago and the guy was very controlling. well now instead of being the opposite of that guy, she's instilling that behavior with my lil' sister

(long story...my lil sis is really her daughter, but she gave up her parental rights and the lil one was raised as my sibling,she calls my mother, mom) well anyway ...i'm just sick and tired of everything not being about my lil sister...its like she's in a cult and she's looking for a next "victim". i just dont want my lil sister to grow up and hate herself or have " end my life" thoughts. its getting really screwed up......

my lil' sister has just turned 13 and she has been sneeking around with her boyfriend, which i think she is not responsible yet for that. her grades are slipping. she got a zero in one of her classes and she is very disrespectful and my mother blames the boys for it and thinks she's not old enough for the sex talk. i told her she should have told her about sex and consequences when she was at least 10. as sad as it is ..my mother is very ole fashioned i think i'm right...but i would like an opinion ....

what are some civil ways of letting them know that his son is a grown man and we have a family to take care of . but every year they complian about our kids birthdays and why didnt invite 100 people to the parties or complaining about our parenting. my kids are happy kids. and we are not older parents. i'm 26 and my husband is 31 yrs old. i dont understand any of this. HELP!

i'm only asking someone's opinion to ease my fear a bit, because i will be seeing a doctor tommorow. i'm just scared because cancerous ailments run in my family. i have two small children and they are my life..

my niece is of mixed race(african american and hispanic). her hair is really frizzy and coarse. is there a pomade or home relaxer she could buy to lose the frizz and be able to work with her hair easier. the only beauty store she has in her town is SALLY'S BEAUTY SUPPLY. HELP. THANKS

if anybody has some information on how i can gain custody of my niece, please help. she is verbally abused...meaning when i was i little girl i had trouble with math, but i didn't want to ask my parents, 'cause they were really strict. i decided to ask my dad one time for help on a math problem and he told me i was good for nothing and called me stupid because i didn't know how to do the problem. i know i'm not stupid and that was 16 years ago, (i was 11 at the time),it still hurts sometimes that a parent could say that to a child and think its right. we used to live in the projects and they were really bad. gangs, killings, rapes. that place was horrible. my parents moved me and my brother and sister to another state to hopefully better ourselves, but the only ones that got better were me and my siblings. my parents seem to have gotten worse and stayed with their old ways . now my niece is paying for it with having to be called stupid and other horrible names. she's 12.......

my best buddy asked if i wanted to hang out this weekend. there is this band from our hometown that is having a concert and he asked if i wanted to go. problem is, my hubby won't tell me, but i guess he has a problem with my best buddy, 'cause he's a guy. i don't have many chick friends 'cause sometimes they are just backstabbers. my best bud and i have been friends for 10 years, and in the past we have only been friends,have never been anything more, so i don't see a problem with this. but i could use some advice. the relationship with my buddy is like a "Will & Grace" relationship, except he's not gay. advice please.

I was using it continuously, instead of changing the bc patch every week for 3 weeks and then skipping a week , i wore it for 4 weeks to eliminate periods for awhile. well now i am using the depo shot that i will get every 3 months, but my cycle is heavy like a faucet. is this normal??? ( NOTE: i was using the patch every week for 4 weeks to eliminate my cycle under my physicians care.)

my cousin is also my boss. we always go to lunch and hang out. she recently started attending a new christian church and since then she's been giving me the "up and down; i'm better than you"look. i don't want to tell her anything 'cause that might cause an awkward situation at work. but on the other hand. my opinion is, if you start attending church, its to better yourself not turn into a b***h. she's suddenly turned into a person that tells you how ur raising ur kids is wrong and how my relationship with my husband could be better. help, please.

my niece wants to live with me, but she can't unless my parents say so, which they won't. her biological mother(my sister) signed her rights away when she was 1 year old. my niece resents her a lot. apparently my sister is trying to gain back that mother/ daughter relationship that she never had. but in my opinion, its too late. my niece said she wants to live with me because she will have more opportunities where i live. which is true. she had a really bad first day of school. (and its my sisters doing). she doesn't understand how being a preteen is. my sister was such a tomboy, didn't like guys, got in a lot of trouble. my niece has crushes on boys, is girly, likes to dress up. but its not allowed to do any of that in the house where she lives. my parents are really strict and old fashioned, and i personally think my mother should take parenting classes to update herself on teens these days.NEED HELP!

its just a question and i don't want to offend anybody. but i have seen some very disturbing answers from a girl who seems to favor the idea that if you are pregnant and don't want the baby, that its alright to hurt yourself. that doesn't make sense.

lately i just don't fell like having intercourse with my hubby. i'm not cheating . ( i don't have time for that). but ever since i started using the birth ctrl patch continuously,i have just felt "off". could that be a factor in how i feel?? it's really affecting my marriage.

i am a married mother of two children, 25 years old. i don't smoke. i drink wine with my dinner. and i have a myspace profile. i have found so many of my old friends on myspace from high school. there is not one person on my friends list that i do not know. now there are some profiles of some under 18 people that are very promiscuous and raunchy for that age. my opinion is that myspace really is a place for friends. only if ur looking for friends and not on the hunt.