sickand tired

My wife and I have been married for over25 years and things have gone to hell in a hand basket. 20 years ago she was involved with another guy. 18 years ago when I learned that my father was dying from cancer she was at lunch with the other guy. She has spent alot of time with this guy and his wife to a point of severe contention in both families. 16years ago I lost alot of money in my business and all she could say is that it was my problem and she did not want to talk to me about it. 14years ago my health started to fail me and since then it has gotten worse. Sex in our marriage has always been on her terms so it has always been very few and far between, so to compinsate for it I worked long hours to avoid frustration. 10 yearsago i had a heart attack, 7 years ago ruptured 3 disc in lower back,in constant severe pain. 4 years ago told that I have Multiple Scleroisis. Learned that my sister-in-law had breast cancer she was out with her boyfriend again. She is working now