forever

I am still very much in love with this guy, we also just happen to be very good friends. The relationship can't work! This is not an option, so is it possible to base a relationship simply on that friendship without crossing those lines and how?

A friend of mine wanted to borrow money? Her reasons for needing the money kind of seems shaky. Most of the time her financial problems stem from the fact that she's hasn't been spending her money responsibly & sometimes it's due health issues. This time she wants to borrow money so she doesn't have to pay a fee and she needs the money today to avoid paying such a fee. She promises to pay my money back in a few days. I feel she should pay her bill when she gets paid and the fee and not ask me for the money. It's not like she's losing her home or her car today if she doesn't pay. Another friend of mine says it doesn't matter what she needs it for I should just decide whether to give it to her or not.