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Is it possible to just be friends?

I am still very much in love with this guy, we also just happen to be very good friends. The relationship can't work! This is not an option, so is it possible to base a relationship simply on that friendship without crossing those lines and how?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    yes, its possible to sustain your friendship with this guy. You just have to distance yourself from whatever you felt made him your boyfriend and move more towards the things that make him just your friend.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, at least you know that after you tried being more than friends with him, things didn't worked out between the two of you. Therefore now, yes it is very possible you can stay friends instead...I am sure there's more for you to do as friends than if you were together. Travel, movies, coffee, mall, visit other friends, party, phone calls, online chat, you name it. Just keep it going, as friends, but don't do anything out of the limit line. Don't flirt with him or anything. Just be friends.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you don't want a sexual relationship I doubt if you can maintain just a friendship seeing as you love him. You are going to develop stronger feelings for him as time goes on and men can only resist so much flirtation before they act.

    Make up your mind - friend or lover - than do what you must do.

  • 1 decade ago

    NO NO NO...its not possible. leave him alone!!...and be sure u dont get jealous and possesive when u see him having a great time with another....and of course dont pretend to feel sorry for him when u actually are just enjoying the fact that u dumped him for someone "more fantastic"....i wonder whom u will go out with next?...i dont think he will be "very good friends"...and u will not be " in love with this guy"....i thought those were the criteria for a good marriage partner?..or am i lost?..have mercy on me?**?

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think so, assuming both parties are agreeable with it. There is someone I care about, but I know in my heart he is "NOT" the man for me.

  • 1 decade ago

    Girl you can't just be friends if you really like him ......or herjust go for it. GOOD LUCK!

  • 1 decade ago

    Its possible. Takes will power and strength. but it is possible

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yeah u can be friends with your used to be lover

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    it is but very hard especially if he gets a girlfriend

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  • 1 decade ago

    sometimes. but it's also okay to be friends with benefits.

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