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how come when you ask a serious question on here and REALLY need the advice people wont answer, like about relationships and stuff..but if you ask a stupid question about being pregnant, farting, picking your nose, or which way you should have sex tonight EVERYONE answers?? Are people in this world REALLY that sick??

What do I do? My BF and I have been in sepearate states for about 4 years. I love him so much and I know he loves me...he tells me he loves me ALL the time, and that he misses me and that he thought about me...BUT sometimes I love you isnt all i wanna hear. Sometimes i just wanna know what he thinks about and what he feels and he doesnt want to open up, or cant for some reason..he asks me what else there is besides the i love you's and the I miss you's but i always tell him, if i have to tell you then you just dont get it....AM i right or am i being childish.only people who can answer this seriously and with a little bit of compassion and empathy should answer this.I just dont know how to get hime to open up about other things to me. And after 4 years its just really hard to wonder what he is thinking about all the time and not ever hear it.he does occassionaly but when i say occasionally i mean that literally.like Christmastime or Thanksgiving time.Help please. is this a guy thing??

My boyfriend and I are SOOOOOOO in love...but i get so mad at him sometimes and we are fighting now about somethign really stupid...well some would say but being that we are 1500 miles away, its like the little htings are all big because we cant just kiss and make up.. I know i should be the adult and apologize even though it isnt my fault were fighting, but I think we are both so hardheaded that it is hard for either one of us to do it first. So do I just say I am sorry for somethign that I didnt do?? or somethign that has bothered me for a long time and because i sopke up and said it bothers me, he has attitude and I apologize for that??? help me out here....so hard when i cant see him to tell him sorry or see the bad feelings that i KNOW he has...

OK ..im 35 im single, i have 2 kids that are gone for the weekend, and I am sitting here wishing for things that arent going to happen..WHY??? Shouldnt I be out doing something? Its almost like work would be better than just doing nothing. THere are no men around here, My BF lives in Louisiana while i am stuck in NY and i really dont have a whole lot of friends..he's my best friend and we are fighting right now ...sometimes life just bites the big one huh?? LOL whats everyone else doing tonight...maybe some Ideas???

I found out that 2 people in my life are dying of cancer, my job sucks this week, i am a single mom with 2 boys, I paid rent this week and now dont have any money for 2 weeks, seems like everything that bad that could happen (minus death)has happened..i been taking it out on everyone and I cant seem to fel any better aboutthings. I have ALWAYS been a very strong person and now its like everythign is falling down around me and i dont feel like being strong anymore...any one got any ideas to help me feel better?? and please dont anser "sex" cuz that REALLY isnt what i want right now....thanks

I got some mustard stains on my white shirt? Bleach didnt work..any suggestions???

At Christmas time "some people" (idiots who dont know God as their personal saviour) were changing "CHRISTmas" to "holiday" People who werent in favor of CHRIST being the reason for Christmas. My kids came home from school and it was no longer a CHRISTmas tree, it was a "holiday tree" what kind of crap is that....WELL ANYWAY....i was in a store today and NOWWWWWW they are no longer selling EASTER baskets.....they are "springtime baskets" Ya know what I say??? Screw the Politically correct bastards who wanna mess around with God...THEY WILL PAY!!!! Im not gonna judge, but I will be there with a big smile on my face when I get to see God judge them. So this is just a really random discussion more than a question....PLEASE respond so i dont feel like an idiot for being mad about it....