chandrad

a change. Do you pick up and move to another city in another state or even country??? I want a change, I am a 2 time breast cancer survivor in 3 years. I am now 29. I feel so old! I am in debt. I cannot seem to get a decent job, even though I am a college grad, and intelligent. I don't know if I am just stressed out and want to run away, or if doing something drastic is just what I need to find my nitch in life. Please, people, give me ideas. FYI, I am an ocean/beach girl, even though I have been in the desert of AZ for the past 3 years.I'm like a dried up fish out here!!! I moved here the 1st time I was diagnosed to be near my extended family. The rest of my immediate fam has died from cancer. No joke! Granted, I don't know my dad, so I am only speaking of my mothers side. Anyway, I would love to maybe even volunteer to help others. I have no idea where to start! All you well traveled, full of experience outside of your comfort zone filled people....HELP!!!!!!

a change. Do you pick up and move to another city in another state or even country??? I want a change, I am a 2 time breast cancer survivor in 3 years. I am now 29. I feel so old! I am in debt. I cannot seem to get a decent job, even though I am a college grad, and intelligent. I don't know if I am just stressed out and want to run away, or if doing something drastic is just what I need to find my nitch in life. Please, people, give me ideas. FYI, I am an ocean/beach girl, even though I have been in the desert of AZ for the past 3 years.I'm like a dried up fish out here!!! I moved here the 1st time I was diagnosed to be near my extended family. The rest of my immediate fam has died from cancer. No joke! Granted, I don't know my dad, so I am only speaking of my mothers side. Anyway, I would love to maybe even volunteer to help others. I have no idea where to start! All you well traveled, full of experience outside of your comfort zone filled people....HELP!!!!!!

a change. Do you pick up and move to another city in another state or even country??? I want a change, I am a 2 time breast cancer survivor in 3 years. I am now 29. I feel so old! I am in debt. I cannot seem to get a decent job, even though I am a college grad, and intelligent. I don't know if I am just stressed out and want to run away, or if doing something drastic is just what I need to find my nitch in life. Please, people, give me ideas. FYI, I am an ocean/beach girl, even though I have been in the desert of AZ for the past 3 years.I'm like a dried up fish out here!!! I moved here the 1st time I was diagnosed to be near my extended family. The rest of my immediate fam has died from cancer. No joke! Granted, I don't know my dad, so I am only speaking of my mothers side. Anyway, I would love to maybe even volunteer to help others. I have no idea where to start! All you well traveled, full of experience outside of your comfort zone filled people....HELP!!!!!!

I was planning to fly from az, to spokane washington, and then rent a car and drive over the us/canada border to visit Kelowna Canada. Do I need a passport, or anything special to crass? Also, can I drive a car over?

I am pregnant with my boyfriends baby. Can he get a greencard because of this. Is the only option getting married?

what happens if you are doing chemo and you get or are pregnant? Is this harmful or fatal for he fetus?

Can you still give birth vaginally if you have been diagnosed with genital herpes???

I have gone down on him several times, he has tried to jack 0off, we have had sex for HOURS for two days now, a couple of times a day. I orgasm several times during all of this, but for some reason he cannot. This is the first time in our relationship that we have taken it to this level. DONT GET E WRONG, the boy has HARD ON the entire time, but for some reason, unbeknownst to him, he cannot ***! we are both chaffed and in pain from having sex soooo much! Has this ever happened to anyone, and is it noramal??? He has never had an issue with this before, and is very worried. Also God forbid could there be some sort of medical issue???? Please help!

Ok, so again I am diagnosed with infiltrating ductal carcinoma, this time High Grade and this time in the other breast, and also differant than last time, the report says Probable Lymphnode Invasion. What are the odds that It will be in the lymphnodes? Last time the report did not say that, however I did have 4 lymphnodes removed, but they were not cancerous. I have surgery in a week and a half, and I know I wont know till then, but the fact that they did say probable lymphnode invasion makes me wonder, well HOW PROBABLE?????

If he really likes you alot and things are going great and you are inseperable, also you have become official boyfriend and girlfriend, then why when the first chance he goes out without you and he knows that you wont be at his house because you have to wake up early would he jump at the chance to take a girl home and have sex with her? BTW I caught him because I took him breakfast on my lunch break at 9am and I caught him red handed. He said he doesnt know why he did it, he has always said that that is what he hates most in people and here he goes and does it. He also said that he would have told me because he couldnt have kept it a secret and he's a horrible liar. What the heck??!!!!! Is he a totally differant person than who I thought, or did he know exactly what he was doing?

with the biopsy alone can you tell what stage your beast cancer is in? if not, what test needs to be done in order to know.

Like, I really liked him and he was distant because come to find out he was afraid of being hurt. So, I went out of my way to let him know how much I liked him. Suddenly he totally likes me A LOT and I am so over it. I don't know how to do this withou8t hurting him, I still want to be friends you know, it's just, something happened one day, and I was over it. Not another guy or anything, just I guess, he's not my type at all, we are differant, but we ...oh **** I don't know! Pls give me advice as how to handle this? Right now all I know to do is be distant myself. Which is not nice at all. PLEASE HELP!

After chemo when your hair starts to grow, back has anyone ever had a spot or area that appears to be thinning or receding and is this normal? I am a 27 year old famale and it seems as though I have a receding hairline like a man! And no female hairloss does not run in my family. Also, how long until it grows back soft and "normal" again?

I want to know if people think that I am pretty or not

I mean, I am a DORK! I am a tom boy, but at the same time I am very girly, like when it comes to clothes and manis and pedis. But I like guys as friends more than girls cause I am not so girly when it comes to talking about retarded lame stuff. Anyway, I train in sports that have a lot of physical contact and you tend to get hurt. I am pretty hard core. I am going on and on,..... anyway, but I am super sensitive and I like heels and sexy clothes. So I guess that I wanna know, what is the ideal girl, and is it hot to be a girl who could take probably most guys, or at least put them up for a struggle, but looks girly hot?

Or is it intimidating?

I do not look like some bodybuilder either for the record. I am strong yes. 5'10" 170lbs. Muscle though. Half white, quarter black quarter Hawaiian. Let me know opinions please.

So, I have this magor oil leak all of a sudden out of no where! I mean bad, I have not had a chance to go get an oil change which I am over due for, so I have at ;least made sure that I have been putting oil in it. Anyway, the other day my cousin said that it seems that there is oil leaking from the filter. So, I called the shop and they said that the filter must not be screwed on all of the way. Yaddaayada. Anyway, so I have an appointment for monday to get an oil change. Today I get in my car to go to work, mind you last nihgt it was fine, and it seems to be idling heavy, almost like the engine is knocking. Also the Check engine light is FLASHING! I got a ride to work where everyone assured me that I must just be out of oil. However, when I got home, I checked the oil level, and it's fine. WHAT THE HELL COULD BE WRONG WITH MY CAR YOU GUYS???!!! SOME one please give me some ideas.

and how likely will I be successfull. It is a domestic assault charge out of Colorado. I slapped my boyfriend, a sherrif happened to see it, and arrested me, against my boyfriends will, ( he twice my size, so I wasn't exactly a threat to him, and for the record, he deserved a slap right then..) He had no say what so ever in the situation. I was on probabtion, and now I have this record haunting me, and it is preventing me from getting many great jobs, I graduate soon, and am terrified it will prevent me from working in healthcare!