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I have a family member that has an aluminum awning that was damaged by weight of snow. To replace it they were told to provide the linear feet, NOT square footage. Does she need to measure the full perimeter (all four sides?)

Has anyone tried this? Thoughts?

What should I do? I have a wonderful relationship with my husband. For the most part we are a perfect match. He does, however, drive me nuts when it comes to initiating sex. I have NEVER said no to sex or said "not tonight dear". Often, however, he will bring up having sex or mention something about "being frisky after dinner" so I get prepared physically and mentally (ie start thinking about sex). Then he will often just go to bed or beg off at the last minute. This drives me nuts because I have terrible insomnia (and he knows it) and if I don't take something to help me sleep about an hour or so in advance I am up 1/2 the night.

I have gently mentioned things to him like "Only say it if you mean it" or "that is what you said last night but you went to sleep" yet he still does this!

How can I make myself more clear without being bitchy or seem like I am complaining? Which I guess I really am!

I began daily Menopur shots 9/6/08 (cycle day 3). I go back to the RE 9/11 for a vaginal ultrasound. I am leaving 9/11 for a weekend away and won't return until 9/14. I am just now figuring out that it may be necessary for me to see the doctor during this time period.

To date I have only had one mature follicle the last few cycles, but this is my first one with menopur.

How common is it to have a trigger shot or a follow up visit on cycle day 8, 9, 10 or 11?

I'd really hate to have to come back early from my trip (especially more than once!) but any way I look at it I'll either miss trip time or miss SSBMD's (sweet sweet baby making days) which also cost $$$$.

Not looking for positives, just experiences so I can prepare hubby.

thanks!

how long after stopping birth control pills before your period regulates? How long should you go WITHOUT a period before notifying your doctor?

My husband views porn online and it hurts me greatly. I am even more concerned that he might be addicted because he doesn't stop even though I tell him how much it hurts me and how it is hurting our relationship.

How can I explain that this hurts me? I have talked to him about it twice and thought we had an understanding. I love him very much but this is putting a wedge in our relationship. We are very active sexually and have never put him off or had a "headache". I do not want to view porn with my husband, so please don't suggest that......

His computer was password protected but he did (without saying anything) take off the password. This made me feel better.

I have to travel for work and I hate leaving knowing he will be chatting in a porn forum and viewing porn on line while I am gone.

I bought my husband some very expensive polo slacks and they still have the tags on them. They need to be exchanged for a different size. I am visiting family right now and they all smoke. The slacks smell stale and smokey......

How can I get the smell out with out washing them? I thought about tumbling them in the dryer but I dont want to bend up them tags.

My man is drawn to her and I just don't get it. She has the 'largest boobs in the world' but they are so fake and out of porportion. They also have to be "drained' regularly. *shiver*

I want to understand but can't.

I found out my huband subscribed to internet porn. He was hiding this from me. I finally had to talk to him about it because it was driving me NUTS when he'd close down his computer screen when I entered a room. We had a long talk about it and how it made me feel (ie insecure, inhibited, self conscious, confused etc). We have always had a healthy sex life. In fact, I am very active. I want sex at just about any opportunity! Anyways, I have posted some questions about this porn issue and it is always suggested that I watch it WITH him. I don't see the point. If I have no problems being turned on in bed and physical evidence shows my husband isn't lacking his own level of arousal. I feel the porn is degrading and while I fall short of calling it cheating I do feel it is an emotional betrayal especially when he hides it. I want him to stop and hoped he would do it on his own without me having to voice/ask it.

I confronted my husband about viewing porn on line at night after I went to bed. I advised him that it made me feel insecure and inadequate even though we had what *I* thought was a good sex life. I am always willing I am usually gung-ho to try whatever either of us comes up with because our sexual tastes seem equal. There is much more to our conversation but he basically told me that he was embarrassed to admit that he viewed porn but it didnt have anything to do with me or my ability to arouse him. He said he never meant to hurt me and now knowing that it did is hurting him terribly. The conversation went well and almost ended well. He finished with he "didn't know if he could quit cold turkey" and that he just said that "in case he gets caught" again.

After a couple of days of thinking about this I am concerned. Could he be addicted to porn and unable to stop or is this a mans way of saying I am not going to stop even though it is putting a wedge in our marriage?

Is it common as a woman to not realize/feel when your partner finishes? Unless he tells me or his body starts jerking I never know. This makes it very awkward. Thoughts? Ideas?

I am a newlywed (2.5 yrs). A few times my husband was "quick closing" his computer screen when I would walk in. He would also stay up after I went to bed and I presumed after a few of these episodes he was looking at porn. After a few months of this (and seeing a credit card statement with an auto pay porn site) I told him we needed to talk. He knew I had seen the cc bill and I suppose he was waiting on me to say something. Before I could figure out a way to start talking he said he knew why I was upset. I told him how it made me feel to be "tucked" away in bed like a child so he could go look at porn. I also told him at length how it made me feel and how it lowered my self confidence to have him doing this. He was very apologetic and said that he never meant to hurt me and didnt know I was hurt. He said he hid it because he was embarrased. I told him it made me feel less sexy in bed and inhibited because I kept thinking of the type of women he must be looking at.

6 yrs ago my fathers company moved out of state. My mom does in home day care. My father used to have his own business years ago (20+). He has had 3 jobs since then & all of those jobs have been jobs that someone has essentially got for him by referring him. Every other job he has attempted on his own hasn't even got him an interview. Needless to say he is depressed & feels worthless. My problem, however, is this...my mom just turned 59 and can't physically do the work anymore which is their only source of income. She had a stroke last year & was diagnosed with a slipped disc. They have no med insurance. I have been helping out financially but it will soon become a problem in my marriage. I have been sending out resumes for him with no luck. I want him to do ANYTHING even if it means minimum wage. He doesnt seem to consider jobs that have no insurance. Right now he doesnt have money OR insurance why not at least get a job? Noboby will hire him or give him a chance. How can I help?

I dated my husband long distance for a few years. We used to email and chat on line which would sometimes get a little "personal". We dated for a total of 6 yrs before getting married. We have been married 2 years. I found out that he is paying for some X-rated websites via his credit card. I don't like the idea of him looking at naked women other than me. I want him to just need me. :) The really big issue is that prior to us meeting/dating he was friends with a couple of women who were in the porn industry. Some big names (so I am told). He has never given me any reason to doubt his committment to me or his love, but I am insecure and don't like the idea that he may be looking/lusting after women who he very well may know from before. He isn't staying up late nights on the computer or avoiding intimacy with me etc. He does have his computer password protected and occassionally he quickly "shuts down" when I enter the room which DRIVES ME NUTS!!! Am I crazy? Please help.