Ashlee

I am flying from Sydney to London in June, so it will be winter when i am leaving and summer when i arrive. I just wanted to know what sort of clothes and shoes i should wear? Like jeans or trackies or something?

I think i have fallen for my best friend, he used to date my best friend but since they broke up we became really close. We have hooked up on a few drunken occaisons, and at that time i never had any feelings for him. But now he is in love with some other slutty girl (who has a boyfrend) and they are playing around with each other. He could do so much better than this girl. She is so spiteful and has left me abusive myspace messages etc etc and he keeps defending her. When the two of them are together, i neve hear fom him for ages and it hurts. He knows how i feel about him even though its never been dicsussed and it hurts that he cant see that this other girl is using him so much. I love him with allmy heart and i jsut know he is gonig to get hurt by this girl in a way i would never hurt him. Any advice ??

I have known him for ages and he was my best friends ex, and since they broke up we are really close. He pretty much already has everything he could ever want, including tickets to pretty much every concert within the next 6 months. He has an mp3 player. He means a lot to me and he bought me a beautiful ring for my birthday, i want to get him something good. Any suggestions?

She has known fora long time that i really like him and she swears there is nothing going on but i have heard from heaps of people that they are together and have seen them around. What makes it worse is we all work together and she has pretty much slept with every guy at work (and is still seeing one of them at the moment!). I feel so betrayed and i dont know what to do?

And is it safe?

Do children need to be spurred on or are they just naturally motivated to learn?