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My boyfriend and i have been together 5 yrs. We currently live together and have a 9 mo old baby.

We argue all the time. Im stressed because i work 40 hours a week and he's home with the baby all day but the house is never clean. He does work maybe 2 nights a week but anytime he works he goes out after and comes home drunk and high when i have to be to work a hour later.

He has no goals! Im 26 he's 30, i wanna buy a house soon he does not contribute. He's been without a car for 2 years, i end up driving him around. He should be my equal, i should not feel like his mother. All he does when he's home with our son is play video games. I expect if he's not gonna work and stay home with the baby the house should be taken care of. Im tired of being stressed and feeling like the only adult. I dont know what the next step should be. He's lack of maturity and unwillingness to grow up has completely turned me off from him. What should i do?

we've been dating for about 4 months and i love him but not enough to marry him.i think i shoud know him for at least 2 years.but he is really pushing the issue. he also still hasnt divorced his wife and they have a daughter. i told him that its too soon and he doesnt get it. what should i do?

I want to tell him but I dont know if its the best idea. I dont want to ruin my relationship with him, or his relationship with his brother. I was so drunk that i dont remember what happened. I just woke up the next morning with my clothes everywhere except my body. I asked his brother what happened that night and he said that he went down on me (I dont know if thats all that happened) and my boyfriend doesnt know anything about it. I dont know if it was me who came on to him, or him that came on to me. I just dont know how that deal with the situation. What should I do?

I been seeing the guy for about 4 months now (i know thats not a long time) but he knows i dont claim him as my man, but he tells everyone i'm his girl. i've met his closest friends and he alwayz wants to take me around his family. He gets upset when i dont let him take me out, and he stopped talking to all the other girls he talked to before me. He tells me when other girls try to get with him. His brother (the person he's closest to) alwayz calls me his wife. The guy i'm talking to is not the sensitive type of guy he's more of the thuggish type and that is what confuses me more. plus i've asked him but he dont talk about his feelings.