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I've been seeing this woman who has a bit of sketchy past (infidelities and what not) but has always been completely upfront with me and where we stand and the things that have gone on in her past.. I have an amazing time when I'm with her, but I'm sometimes unsure if she can overcome her past. She doesn't think she can sometimes and I wonder if I'm foolish for thinking she can..

I've been in a relationship with a woman for the past few months and before things began she told me she was in a long distance relationship with a guy who had ignored her for a few months and that she was fed up with it. So anyways, the guy came back to our town and she of course went back to him... It turns out I know the guy and I was engaged to his cousin some years back.. And I confided in the girl about many things about his cousin..Plus I've known the guy to be abusive to his girlfriends and even saw him choke out his own mother to unconsciousness because she took a corner too fast in his opinion and he spilled his coffee.. So he's not a stand up guy by any means. So now I have a woman I care about a lot with a guy I know to be abusive and becoming friends with my ex fiance who screwed me over in the past as well. So my question is whether I should tell the guy about me and the woman, which I'm sure would destroy any trust between them and probably stop their relationship in it's tracks.. I do still care about her but she's ignored me for the past couple weeks and I feel like some kind of retribution is in order.. Am I wrong for feeling this way or do they deserve an unhappy ending.... Thanks.

TSN is reporting that Dave Bolland could be looking for a long term deal worth 4.5 million. What would you pay for a him? also keep in mind he is coming off a really serious injury..

I was seeing a woman who was in a long distance relationship that she told me she was done with,, So now he's back and it turns out it's with someone I know to be abusive to his girlfriends and even his own mother and family.. and of course she went back to him... So I'm wondering if I should tell him about her and I, which IMO would probably break them up or at the very least shatter the trust level between them..However it would probably ruin any chance of her and I remaining friends, let alone being together.. But I honestly think I'm fine with that.. I feel extremely betrayed by her and that some kind of retribution is needed for me to move on.. not sure which road to go down, so I would appreciate as many opinions as I can get on the matter..

I was seeing a woman who was in a long distance relationship that she told me she was done with,, So now he's back and it turns out it's with someone I know to be abusive to his girlfriends and even his own mother and family.. and of course she went back to him... So I'm wondering if I should tell him about her and I, which IMO would probably break them up or at the very least shatter the trust level between them..However it would probably ruin any chance of her and I remaining friends, let alone being together.. But I honestly think I'm fine with that.. I feel extremely betrayed by her and that some kind of retribution is needed for me to move on.. not sure which road to go down, so I would appreciate as many opinions as I can get on the matter..

I was seeing a woman who was in a long distance relationship that she told me she was done with,, So now he's back and it turns out it's with someone I know to be abusive to his girlfriends and even his own mother and family.. and of course she went back to him... So I'm wondering if I should tell him about her and I, which IMO would probably break them up or at the very least shatter the trust level between them..However it would probably ruin any chance of her and I remaining friends, let alone being together.. But I honestly think I'm fine with that.. I feel extremely betrayed by her and that some kind of retribution is needed for me to move on.. not sure which road to go down, so I would appreciate as many opinions as I can get on the matter..

I was seeing a woman who was in a long distance relationship that she told me she was done with,, So now he's back and it turns out it's with someone I know and know to be abusive to his girlfriends and even his own mother and family.. so of course she went back to him... So I'm wondering if I should tell him about her and I which IMO would probably break them up or at the very least shatter the trust level between them..However it would probably ruin any chance of her and I remaining friends let alone being together.. But I honestly think I'm fine with that.. I feel extremely betrayed by her and that some kind of retribution is needed for me to move on.. not sure which road to go down so I would appreciate as many opinions as I can get on the matter..

We've been seeing each other and doing everything that couples do, we have a history prior to this, and in this time I've pretty much fallen in love with her. So here is where it gets complicated. She told me he had ignored her for months, and that she was fed up with his crap, I didn't know who he was until yesterday and it turns out I know the guy, and he has history of abusing his girlfriends, I even saw him choke his own mother unconscious when we were in our late teens, all because she took a corner too fast and he spilled his coffee.. I'm not sure what to do? I'm pretty sure if I confront him and tell him about her and I he could freak out and possibly hurt her, but I'm hurt that she has chosen to go back with him over me, and I really don't want to hurt her, or betray the trust she has in me. I'm really confused and hurt right now and I'm not sure what course of action to take. Thanks in advance for any answers I may receive. And yes, I've posted this question a few times, I'm just trying to get as many different perspectives as I can.

We've been seeing each other and doing everything that couples do, we have a history prior to this, and in this time I've pretty much fallen in love with her. So here is where it gets complicated. She told me he had ignored her for months, and that she was fed up with his crap, I didn't know who he was until yesterday and it turns out I know the guy, and he has history of abusing his girlfriends, I even saw him choke his own mother unconscious when we were in our late teens, all because she took a corner too fast and he spilled his coffee.. I'm not sure what to do? I'm pretty sure if I confront him and tell him about her and I he could freak out and possibly hurt her, but I'm hurt that she has chosen to go back with him over me, and I really don't want to hurt her, or betray the trust she has in me. I'm really confused and hurt right now and I'm not sure what course of action to take. Thanks in advance for any answers I may receive

We've been seeing each other and doing everything that couples do, we have a history prior to this, and in this time I've pretty much fallen in love with her. So here is where it gets complicated. She told me he had ignored her for months and that she was fed up with his crap, I didn't know who he was until yesterday and it turns out I know the guy and he has history of abusing his girlfriends and I even saw him choke his own mother when we were in our late teens.. I'm not sure what to do. I'm pretty sure if I confront him and tell him about her and I he will freak out and possibly hurt her, but I'm hurt that she has chosen to go back with him over me, and I really don't want to hurt her, or betray the trust she has in me. I'm really confused and hurt right now and I'm not sure what course of action to take. Thanks in advance for any answers I may receive.

How did Workers across Canada respond to the Winnipeg General Strike?

just trying to figure out if Canadian workers outside Winnipeg were opposed or supported the General Strike of 1919. Thanks!

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he is still responsive and is doing all the things he usually does but looks drunk and he's not eating much either???

I'm a decent,honest,sensitive and caring human being but everytime I get close to someone they seem to lie to me and soil the trust i put in them.. I hate the fact that the more this happens to me the less and less i'll be able to put trust into someone who really deserves it.. should I just give up and live my life constantly watching my back or are there real honest people out there that would be worth taking that chance on again.. I feel really betrayed now due to the fact I allowed a woman who said she loved me and wanted to spend her life with me walk all over me and go back to her ex and spend the night at some other guy's house while I babysat her kids.. she had me fooled completly and hate the fact that someone like this could hinder future relationships in my life by planting such a seed of dishonesty in my head.. are all people just out for themselves or are the good ones that rare..

I'm a decent,honest,sensitive and caring human being but everytime I get close to someone they seem to lie to me and soil the trust i put in them.. I hate the fact that the more this happens to me the less and less i'll be able to put trust into someone who really deserves it.. should I just give up and live my life constantly watching my back or are there real honest people out there that would be worth taking that chance on again.. I feel really betrayed now due to the fact I allowed a woman who said she loved me and wanted to spend her life with me walk all over me and go back to her ex and spend the night at some other guy's house while I babysat her kids.. she had me fooled completly and hate the fact that someone like this could hinder future relationships in my life by planting such a seed of dishonesty in my head.. are all people just out for themselves or are the good ones that rare..

Ok i've been seeing this woman who never really got out of her old relationship and things have been really good up until last wek when she asked me to watch her two young children while her and her friend went to the ballet.. she said she wouldnt be too late and left me a cel # to get a hold of her at.. anyways at 4:30 am the baby woke up crying and had a bit of a fever icouldnt get him to stop so i called the cel # which was out of service or didnt have any minutes on it anyways i called her friends house and no answer there either but got a very rehearsed call from the girls boyfriend saying he wasnt sure where she was.. anyway 6:30 rolls around and she finally comes walking in wearing some dudes clothes which she said was because of how cold it was which it was but when i asked where she ws she lied and said she was at her friends house.. and then admitted she was at this other guys house.. she says nothing happened but i can't seem to trust her now.. could i be wrong..