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i have been married for 2.5 years now to my current husband. i love him greatly and do everything he asks or tells me to do. i know this is just my point of view but its the only one i have to share. my husband will talk for hours and hours to me but when i open my mouth to ask a question when i believe he is done he refuses to answer. i dont pressure him. he will talk on the phone and erase the numbers texts and have codes for the names in his phone. he laughs and jokes and listens even problem solves for them. if i try to have a conversation he ignores me. i dont ever ask him to do anything at all not even pay the bills. i try sometimes to tell him how i feel and he says its not important to him. i feel really depressed all the time. i am so sad all the time too. he talks to everyone who will talk to him and i am not suposed to talk to anyone except him but he wont talk to me. tonight he was talking to a woman and i asked him who he was talking to and why did he feel the need to go to where i couldnt hear him talk to her and why he was finding out exactly where she was. he said why do you want to know what is it to you. i dont really know why i even care anymore. but anyway i asked him if we could have a civilized conversation and he said yes. so i was trying to tell him how i feel and the only thing i asked was do you want to know how i feel and he said no its not important to him. im tired of this junk. i had 2 relationships like this before. one thought i was his purchased possession who never paid a thing and the other thought i was his money bag and left me when i stopped giving him money because i had none. this one was very nice until we married he was everything i needed and wanted. but he changed. i have been faithful. i stay home. i dont talk to anyone. i clean and cook. everything i should do. all i want is to have someone to talk to as well but he refuses to let me speak. i feel like i am a bother to him. like if i didnt exist he would be happy. he said tonight he is affraid i will do something to him...like what i ask i have never done anything to anyone. i am nonviolent. he has no foundation for that fear. i dont talk to him most days because he ignores me until he wants sex. i try very hard to understand but i dont understand at all. he on the other had is known to be mean and abusive phisiclly to an exwife years ago. i was affraid of him but he has never really hurt me physiclly. i dont know what to do. can anyone here help me to make sense of this crazy situation please . he calls me very bad names and always says hes had enough and wants out. why doesnt he just go then?

ok here we go. i updated my husbands iphone4 with itunes. then i put my sons iphone 3g in to update it as well because they were both having some issues. my husbands wouldnt connect to internet. i resolved that thank god with the update. then i put my sons iphone on and wanted to update his because his cant read the sim but connected to the internet. so i updated it and not it wont configure. it still says that it cant read sim to update. ok i have tried and tried but to no avail. my son had ios 5.0.1 someone please help me as my son really needs his phone.

my husband took my iphone 4g and had it jailbroke and now it wont get on internet. app store works but safari doesnt. i try to run the update but it wont it just tells me to go to that site but i cannot click it and make it go there to see it. please tell me what to do.

My husband had a guy try to put a program on his iphone3s and it wont read the sim or do anything. Just tries to configure and fails. What do i do? Please help. We want to give that phone to our son.

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my husband was gone for 2 days because a friend need his help. We talked on the phone and everything, but tonight he got upset with me because i wanted to do something with him and my son. He decided in the middle of it it wasnt for him and walked out. We left because i felt like i didnt take him into concideration. Its just hes always gone and im here alone all day everyday and some nights too. He doesnt like me to socialize with people because he dont like them so all i have is him and my son. I crave interaction and someone to talk to. When he comes home he talks for hours and i mean i have to sit there for 3,4 or more hours sometimes only listening and maybe ask a question or 2. I want so much to talk also, but i try very hard to only llisten. Anyway, we got home and he was mad. He sat outside and i left the door open for him. When he came inside he said 'maybe i should leave the door open for your lover' i said and he knew 'i left it open for you and please dont start talking to me like this' he went out the back i followed and he said leave him alone. I brought him coffee and went to bed. He came in a little later. We made love. I fixed him coffee lemonaid and food as he requested. He played games and when i started to play one on my cell he asked me what i was doing i told him and he said he wanted me to play with him. So i started to play with him and he started to say mean things. I ignored him. He then said ' you are on the road to hating me and this is what i want yo to do to hate me and tell me to leave and that is when i will love you even more than i do now' i asked why and the reason and he got mad and he decided to sleep in another room. He wont come back in here with me tonight. I guess what im asking is is he telling me that he doesnt want me anymore but cant tell me? He wants to be single? He feels obligated and doesnt like it? What am i missing? Please help i really need to understand this saying. He always tells me i dont understand him or think

i seem to be a problem for my husband. He always says things like he wants no more with me or he leaves or like tonight for no reason he said he wants me to hate him and leave him and then he will love me even more. I dont understand. I love him so much and really try to please him, but even if i do what he says its not right. Im confused and hurting. He says he loves me and i know im not perfect, but there must be something wrong with me for him to want to not be with me. Or am i missing something here?

my husband is macho and seems crazy a lot but tonight he said he wants me to hate him and reject him. And that was the road i was on. No its not. But any way he said he would love me even more when that happened. And his only reason was think about it. Can someone please help me understand because i dont think when i should. He is sleeping in another room because of this.

I am opening a business and i am looking for distributors who will bill you later and i am looking for latin american goods for a cheap price, calling cards, prepaid cellphones and phone cards can ayone help me.

I have no picture when i play .avi or .wma files. i miss watching my movies. all i get is bars and waves equalizer and visualizations. i need help. PLease help me. i can hear the movie but not see it.

Play any movies on it. All I see is the equalizer bars and the visualizations waves. I can hear the sound, but no picture. These are movies I have played using it before. None of my media seems to work. InterVideo as well as Quick Time. I updated and that didn't work so I uninstalled and reinstalled with the help of a Tech. Needless to say that didn't work. I am at a loss. If anyone can help me PLEASE do. I will be very greatfull.

i clicked on the forward button and it got stuck. i only clicked once. now it is stuck light up and will do nothing.... how do i fix it?

I have had a falling out with my father and sister. They have teamed up against me and my husband. I do not understand what happened other than I did exactly what they told me to do, no they did not ask, and now they are blaming me for finding out the result was not in their favor. In other words they found out they were wrong on something that they believed and when they found out they were wrong it suddenly became my fault. Now for the last 3 days they have made me and my 2 sons and husband very unwelcome here and they are the only people I know here. I have decided to move but have no spare cash to do it with. The credit card I shared with my dad he cut it off eventhough I paid my bill as well as his part of it. I fixed up his house and my sisters because that is the business I am in and now that it is slow look at the problem. I have this need to seperate my family from them but have zero extra dollars. I wont have the extra till spring. What should I do to get out now? Please help

sometimes he calls me but i just think that is because he feels bad about treating me the way he did. yes he was rich and very smart but that was all he had going for him he was a jerk on top of a jerk. i feel bad for missing him i am married and have a kid, but sometimes i just wish i was still with him. i was so very much inlove with him. what should i do? why do i still fell this way about him after 7 years.

My man has had several women. All of them younger than me. His oldest son lives with us and told me tonight that after him she never had anyone else. She never had a boyfriend or anything

else. It was just her and her and his 2 sons living alone. Not to mention she is 2 years younger than me. I also know that his ex wife is about 10 years younger than me and has a daughter with him. He invited her ( the exwife) to come to live with us. He pays a great deal of attention to other women and asks why i cant be more like them. he has even had other younger women since we have been married. I am not going to leave him.... that is my personal choice. I love him very much. He would have to leave me, i will not leave him. I just wonder if I should be jelous or worried? What do you think.....what is his next move..... what is he thinking..... do you think he cares for me?

When we first met. I was at work. He came in and I noticed him. He was handsome and seemed very diferent then all the rest of the men I had met. He came in just to talk to me. I would look forward to talking to him every time he came in. I finally decided to date him and asked his friend to ask him if he was married, because he didnt speak english well, and he said yes. I said goodbye i dont play that. he said he was joking and i asked everyone he knew and they all told me no he was divorced. so i started dating him. one thing led to another and we married. i found out 7 months later he was married. that hurt very bad. 6 years later we are still married and he fixed the other wife problem. but i also know beyond doubt that he slept with other women while married to me. I cant get passed this. he has never shown me love, instead he gives all his attention to other women and never talks to me only order me around. i need his love and attention. How can i gain it ? what can i do?

I want romance and love. I have never gotten this from my husband. I feel left out. He talks to other women and gives perfect advice to other men on how to be romantic and sensual, but has left me wanting. Is it me? What can i do to make it better. he never wants to be arround me. I believe I have tried everything. I have done everything he has ever asked me to do. He is rude and mean to me and never ever talks to me. I need more from him... Can anyone without judging please tell me how to make him love me and how to make wild over me like he is all these other girls?

For the 6 years we have been married he has never said one romantic thing to me, but today I found him with 2 of his friends giving advice on the things to write in their letters. I am so very sad. We have argued about him needing to be more romantic with me, but instead he is giving very good advice to his friends.....The things I want to hear, and I need to hear......I asked him why he don't with me he just said " what the f*** for"? I am lost and hurt.....What should I do? Why can't he be with me that way?

I am going to divorce my husband and need a man where can i get a good nice one?

I try to be very nice to him. i cook for him and he wont eat it. i clean the house and wash his clothes. I iron his clothes and he gets something else to wear and he irons it and tells me i cant iron well. I let him have control of the tv and the sterio in the car. I take care of our son. he plays with him too. i do everything he asks and if i ask him for something then he just yells at me...i am very confused. i hurt so much. he wont ever talk to me when he wants to fool around then he just wants to talk to me for that minute then when he is done it is over. We have been married 5 years, this has been going on since the first few months of marriage. i have tried what i think is everything. can anyone tell me what to do?