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I had sex with a friend for the first time, we’ve shared how rough sex turns us on, but as he was thrusting hard I was in pain, I didn’t say that but he stopped & said “I feel like I’m hurting you”..it was probably a good decision but I feel terrible. How did he know that & does that mean he didn’t enjoy it? He later said that I make him feel like a hunk. Do men feel self conscious knowing that they’re physically causing pain during sex? 

My male coworker texted me to ask me to fill in for him because he s sick and I agreed..he told me I m the best and I said ditto...and he said "awww that means the world to me"...is he just happy because I think highly of him or he has deeper feelings? SOS!

So he's a flirt, but lately he's been telling me that he misses me whenever is my day off, & today he came to me as soon as i walked in the door & told me he missed me yesterday & said I miss you everyday...i play it cool so i said thank you & went to work...do men say that out of love or it doesn't mean much? Thanks.

I said "coconut" & he grinned..so I asked whether he didn't like coconut & he said "I do like it & I can eat a coconut pie anyday"...do men/male friends ever ask or say that or you think he's flirting or it's a sexual innuendo?

I act like my self when I'm around married men or men that there's virtually 0 chance that I'll ever be with, I'm witty, a little funny, and at ease when they're around...but if there's a single eligible bachelor around, even though he might not show any interest in me, I get flustered and feel awkward...I'm 29 and I can't seem to get over that feeling...I build forts around single men, while old or married men think I'm the coolest chick ever...anyone else with such complex or have an idea to why I act like this?

I have been talking to my coworker/friend last night on FB like most nights and at the end he told me that I make him feel calm and that he likes my advice and likes talking to me...is that an indication of something more or just a beautiful friendship? he loves being around me but we've never expressed our feelings or anything...what do you think?

my male friend/coworker and i are pretty close, and today we were discussing how this other female coworker is hitting on him and he wants out, and we were having a serious discussion so I was looking at him eye to eye and we locked eyes for a second, and he said with a grin "stop looking at me like that" and giggled and lowered his eyes. What do you think that means and why he said that? I just said sorry and turned around. What's your opinion?

I'm 27, he's 22, he's my co-worker and friend, and he talks to me about everything. We're both single and sometimes he flirts with me, but I kinda ignore it, he tells me TMI about girls and he's VERY comfortable with me. Do you think it's possible that we're just friends and I should not think too much into it, because it's getting hard for me to just be friends with such a cute, flirtatious guy! or is he trying to make me feel jealous or something? is it possible that you talk to a girl daily for hours but have no "feelings" for her?

My male coworker/friend told me today that "i'm one of the reasons he's still in the job, and he can't imagine work without me", since I'm leaving by the end of the year. We're cool like that, and we can talk about all sorts of issues, but he's 5 yrs younger and we have never expressed feelings or anything. Was that an indirect confession of something more that friendship, or he's just attached to me as a friend?

my coworker is 22, I'm 27, and I wear my emotions on my sleeves, so I'm sure he has a clue that I kinda like him, but yesterday he asked me to show him where something is located in the office? (which everyone knows where that thing is), so I showed him and looked at him like "I'm sure you DID know where that thing is!!" and he said "I knew where it was, I just wanted YOU to show me"! and he smiled, so I smiled back and patted him on the shoulder, and he said "Oh, please stop!".

Why would he do that and what does it mean? is he intentionally playing games with me or acting immature, or does he really like me?

He's very flirtatious and I like him, but every now and then when we're working together & there's no one around, he'd call me b***ch!! for example: I help him in a situation he was working on, and he'd say: "you're such a smart b**ch" or "you little b**ch". The way he looks at me when he talks dirty like that is kinda a turn on, but deep inside I feel like I'm demeaning myself by letting him say that. He's even 5 years younger but I'm attracted to him. What would you do or say to him?

Dear XXX,

I don’t know if you remember who I am or not, so I will introduce myself a little bit...I came to the institution the other day and…etc...if you’re still wondering who the heck I am, then please feel free to delete the email :) I promise I won’t get offended.

Now before you read the rest of the email, I have 3 questions to ask you:

1. If you think I have a question about banking, then you don’t have to read the rest of the email.

2. If you are currently seeing someone, please delete the email and accept my apologies :)

3. If you are gay, then the rest doesn’t matter, so don’t bother reading the rest of the email ;)

Now I’ll get to the bottom line. I kinda like you and when I came to the x institution yesterday and you said that you’re going to lunch, I got nervous and speechless, but in my head I wanted to seize the opportunity and get to know you by suggesting going to x restaurant (one of my favorite places) or go try the new x restaurant! Actually any comment would have been better than my stupid giggle hehe...but I missed the opportunity and I was afraid to make a fool of my self anyway. I figured I am more vocal via email so I thought I’ll write to you instead and ask you if I can treat you to lunch or dinner or coffee? So...please don’t feel pressured to say yes, and please don’t feel sorry for me hehe...I will not take your decision too personally and I will act professionally when I see you again ;)

I have no idea what you think of me, but I just noticed that you are such a nice person and you have a killer smile that makes me grin from ear to ear every time I look at it, so for that reason and for curiosity’s sake I am asking you out! I may look weird and obviously sound weird hehe, but I assure you I am not playing any games, and I am a respectable, hard working, adventure loving, soccer playing girl, with morals and faith, and I look forward to get to know you.

Hope to hear from you soon, but it’s ok if you won’t write back. I’ll survive ;)

there is this personal banker at my bank who always pay extra attention to me whenever I go to the bank, alsays comes out of his cubicle to help me even if I'm only there to make a deposit or cash a check, but I've heard similar stories from my friends with their bankers (of course it wasn't the same guy), so I have my guard up coz I don't know if I can trust my emotions...he is extremely nice though :p what r ur experiences?

I am not a native English speaker and I rarely insult people, but I do want to say to this person "this is none of your business" in an insulting way. Any suggestions please?

how to send text messages from at&t to international numbers?what form should the international number be in? I'm sending it to Iraq so will it be.. 964770XXXXXXX? just like that? or how? will I need + signs or 00 or what? I tried everything but they say invalid number. Please advise!!

but I want it to say "your fees will be ....(some verb)" that will mean "we will take care of it"?

I was playing at the park today & found a driver's license on the ground. What do you think I should do now & how can I contact the person with the missing license? I'm worried about him because it's a weekend & I won't be home on Tuesday! What do you suggest? I already tried google search, yellow pages, Facebook & Myspace!

we've all heard stories about people dying from depression, sadness, or love, but do you seriously believe this could happen? can you become physically sick because of a psychological dilemma? I believe so myself coz yesterday was the third time I get sore throat, fatigue, nausea, headache, backache, & fever after I was told a bad news! Have you ever experienced that? & I don;t mean just depression & feeling like you don't want to get out of bed, but something as real as e.g. sore throat?