jjbartelt

Had a relationship that was going really well for 7 months and ended abruptly and I'm not sure why. Anyway, now its the point in which we've been apart slightly longer than we were together and I am still having mixed feelings about whether I've completely moved passed it and I'm not sure why?

I'm just trying to think of logical explanations as to why people break up with another person when all in the relationship is going really well.

Anyone have any ideas?

Been together with girlfriend 7 months. Having a great time, telling each other how much we appreciate and how grateful we are to have each other.

Had a Sunday date to a state park, had a really great time. 10 days after that she tells me she's feeling pressure and everything is moving to fast. 1 week after that we break up.

Most people I've talked to say it seem like "cold feet." (Panicked because she hasn't because the relationship was getting too serious).

Am I missing something here, or is there some other reason? It seemed to all come out of nowhere to me.

Been together with girlfriend 7 months. Having a great time, telling each other how much we appreciate and how grateful we are to have each other.

Had a Sunday date to a state park, had a really great time. 10 days after that she tells me she's feeling pressure and everything is moving to fast. 1 week after that we break up.

Most people I've talked to say it seem like "cold feet." (Panicked because she hasn't because the relationship was getting too serious).

Am I missing something here, or is there some other reason? It seemed to all come out of nowhere to me.

My girlfriend seems to likes oral and clitoral stimulation, but seems to enjoy vaginal penetration more and orgasms better through vaginal penetration. It seems the opposite of most women. I'm wondering why that is? Do many women prefer plain vaginal penetration to having clitoral added to it?

Why is having faith or a belief in a being of which there is no evidence, as well as faith in a place where we go after we die (heaven or hell), which there is also absolutely no evidence also a good thing?

Should I ask her why and how greatly she values having a friendship back?

We dated for 2 years and been broken up for about 4 months. So why does she finally wait until she has finally started seeing someone else to tell me that?

My ex and I dated for two years. We broke up about 4 months ago now. I can't understand why she said she wants to get our friendship back shortly after she has started seeing someone else?

Ex told me she wants to get our friendship back one day but didn't inform me she wanted to until it was clear to me, but w/o telling me she was seeing someone new. We broke about 4 months ago and I want to say she has been talking to this new guy for about two. We dated for two years.

Odds this is a rebound?

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Why tell me this when you finally start seeing somebody else?

We broke up 4 months ago. We were together for 2 years.

She is seeing someone new. I do not know the extent of this relationship so I am not sure if this is actually a rebound and I don't know how long they have been talking. I am just a little confused as to why she would tell me that one day she hopes to get our friendship back.

I wonder if she is using this as a fallback in case things don't work out? If this means what it says or if she means something else, as I said I don't know the extent of this relationship of this new person she is seeing? Is she just trying to be friendly or is this a fallback and I am being strung along to see how I react? I wonder why she would say this to me while she is clearly seeing and going on dates with someone new?

I asked if "So do you agree that this is something that needs to be done if you value and feel it is important to you that we get our friendship back?" The something is get together face-to-face and sit down and talk to work out all of our issues so we can be friends. She ignored me so I asked two days later if she agreed and she told me to stop "pushing this." Why say this if you aren't willing to act on it so we can work and talk out or issues so we can get back to having a friendship?

This was the first time in the 4 months since our breakup that I had any reach out from her. Here is the link she sent: http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/an-open-letter-to...

Since these we not her words but somebody else's I'm not quite sure what she meant? I'm also not quite sure if I should respond or how I should react?

Even if I don't necessarily want to get my ex to be my girlfriend again right now, is it bad that I would at least like it if she would give me a call or try to make and effort schedule a get together for a cup of coffee or a drink?

This would not be a date or an attempt to get back together, but a sit down and just have a conversation.

She was my girlfriend for just short of two years. I feel that it was rude that she couldn't say she wanted to break up to my face. Is it okay to eventually ask her why she broke up with me in a text message?

Additional details: Physical and psychological abuse was never an issue in our relationship.

Even though I was everything officially ended when I came to get the last of my belongings out of her place, the announcement that she wanted to break up with me and all the reasons why were said to me in a text message. Even though it was shortly after and argument after something stupid, I don't understand why none of this could be said to my face? When I was there to get my stuff and I was crying and telling her how I felt and why I was going to see a therapist, she could not even speak to me or look at me. In fact, when I was laying on the bed next to her crying, she could was changing the channel on the TV. Why would she explain everything to me in a text and why would she show absolutely no emotion or speak to me when I was there? Is it possible that she should some emotion when I left? If so why not when I was there and why could none of this be said to my face? I would think after two years that I would be shown a little more respect than that? This was the situation, and the worst of it is is that she thought it ended in person.

I've been going through a lot of girls pretty quickly and have trouble keeping them intereted for a decent amount of time. Would a poor relationship with my mother have something to do with this?

Or would it be b/c of how I see my parents treat each other, or b/c of getting hurt in past relationships and I wanna "get in and out pretty quick" to keep myself from getting hurt again?

I've been going through a lot of girls pretty quickly and have trouble keeping them intereted for a decent amount of time. Would a poor relationship with my mother have something to do with this?

It seems to me that some girls keep going back to their ex-bf's after they have something good going with a good guy. Even when they know how terrible they were treated during the relationship with their ex, why do they go back?